[Drako]

The meds are stereotyped.  You can't say that they are addictive or lead to taking more meds.  I agree with "Mothered" there is absolutely nothing for you to loose bro.  Getting the right ones, and dialed in, can completely change your life. 

Those commercials are crap.  I know there are a million types out there, but how do you know that the right ones, and right doses, may be miraculous for you.  And another thing, it's a myth you have to be on them forever.  Maybe they help you deal with the issues, and once you realize that the issues are corrected or overcome, the medicine may not be even necessary anymore.  You start training your body, lifestyle, and that brilliant mind of yours, the next thing you know, you are conquering all life's challenges on your own and the issues aren't issues any more cause you know how to handle them on your own.

A huge part of dealing with the mental health in life, is actually learning simple skills like "grounding" and many others.  An example for me:. I rotated 12 hour shifts (am & pm)/different time zones, every month changed for over 15 years.  My sleep schedule and even my psychological state, was so fucked up when I tried to get back to normal, up during the day and sleep at night.  I had no clue how bad I was until I started forgetting memories, and even though I thought I slept, I wasn't, and I would get so bad, I would try to eat and miss my mouth, and not even know it. 

I didn't want to admit it, but that's fucked up.  A few meds to help, sleep/relax and some mood stabilizers.  I started sleeping normal, acting normal, feeling a million times better.  Next thing I'm off the meds (have some on hand in case) and normal sleep patterns are trained back and things are good, maybe not perfect, but much better.  Nothing wrong with that. 

Now, honestly, I have done a lot of crazy things in my career, dealt with some of the most bizzare things, etc.  I have been on and off a few meds, I don't care, they made me better.  There's all kinds of meds from helping you focus to helping you socialize.

You said one of the best things:  you like your doctor.  Absolutely fantastic.  That's a huge source for your success.

Just to ask, and if you don't want to answer that's cool, what is it that you want to do or like to do that you aren't accomplishing mentally? 

You have a doctor, you have some good friends, you like some computer stuff, you like Sinisterly (here), and sounds like you sleep well.  How about eating and some exercise.  Are you eating a few meals a day, and any simple excerise (like how about walking, throw some headphones on listen to some music or some podcasts on coding, etc).  You have all that and you are a ton better than most people.  How does your mind feel, does it relax, can you shut it down, does it run always, are you worrying?  I know you led towards depression, but if there are reasons, the doc can help with that. 

I know it sucks sometimes, I can't even get out of bed sometimes, but you are still doing good in some areas, and it seems you are doing fantastic at coding and being on here.  I read your posts, and see a ton of brilliance and dedication.  Some days I would be happy just to read my emails.

One more thing:. You are not alone, you are never alone.  From what I see there's a lot of people here that care, you have some friends who care, a doctor who cares, sounds like your Father cares, and you got this goofy guy who types to much and puts half the people to sleep, here nicknamed G, who cares.  We are all here and will continue to do what we can.  So let me know anything you want or if there's more I can do.  Stay strong, because you are strong, brilliant, and brave.

We are in this together!

PS:. I sent you a PM too.

i don't understand why making ads for meds, theres nothing to promote the product, you can't really show any stats on screen for example because it is different on everyone.
i just want to be better as a person & less toxic, i also just want to enjoy my life again, leaving that routine of doing nothing on the weekends and going school during the week (not anymore due to the pandemic currently going on)
my sleeping schedule is currently messed up (basically is flipped around lol) due to me staying at home 24/7, however, i can easily go back to my normal sleeping schedule.

If you aren't located in the U.S, medication commercials are a completely American phenomenon. No other country airs med commercials on their channels.

As for the medication, go with something safe and non-addictive. Some drugs can work miracles for people. Drugs are out there for a reason. But others are old and have much safer alternatives. For example, benzodiazepines. They can help, but they're very addictive. Once you're addicted to them, the withdrawal effects can be devastating. Some say worse than heroin.

I'm definitely not an expert. It's good idea to talk to your psychologist or doctor for medication first. And if you're beginning to think they're necessary, go for it.

[Boudica]

The meds are stereotyped.  You can't say that they are addictive or lead to taking more meds.  I agree with "Mothered" there is absolutely nothing for you to loose bro.  Getting the right ones, and dialed in, can completely change your life. 

Those commercials are crap.  I know there are a million types out there, but how do you know that the right ones, and right doses, may be miraculous for you.  And another thing, it's a myth you have to be on them forever.  Maybe they help you deal with the issues, and once you realize that the issues are corrected or overcome, the medicine may not be even necessary anymore.  You start training your body, lifestyle, and that brilliant mind of yours, the next thing you know, you are conquering all life's challenges on your own and the issues aren't issues any more cause you know how to handle them on your own.

A huge part of dealing with the mental health in life, is actually learning simple skills like "grounding" and many others.  An example for me:. I rotated 12 hour shifts (am & pm)/different time zones, every month changed for over 15 years.  My sleep schedule and even my psychological state, was so fucked up when I tried to get back to normal, up during the day and sleep at night.  I had no clue how bad I was until I started forgetting memories, and even though I thought I slept, I wasn't, and I would get so bad, I would try to eat and miss my mouth, and not even know it. 

I didn't want to admit it, but that's fucked up.  A few meds to help, sleep/relax and some mood stabilizers.  I started sleeping normal, acting normal, feeling a million times better.  Next thing I'm off the meds (have some on hand in case) and normal sleep patterns are trained back and things are good, maybe not perfect, but much better.  Nothing wrong with that. 

Now, honestly, I have done a lot of crazy things in my career, dealt with some of the most bizzare things, etc.  I have been on and off a few meds, I don't care, they made me better.  There's all kinds of meds from helping you focus to helping you socialize.

You said one of the best things:  you like your doctor.  Absolutely fantastic.  That's a huge source for your success.

Just to ask, and if you don't want to answer that's cool, what is it that you want to do or like to do that you aren't accomplishing mentally? 

You have a doctor, you have some good friends, you like some computer stuff, you like Sinisterly (here), and sounds like you sleep well.  How about eating and some exercise.  Are you eating a few meals a day, and any simple excerise (like how about walking, throw some headphones on listen to some music or some podcasts on coding, etc).  You have all that and you are a ton better than most people.  How does your mind feel, does it relax, can you shut it down, does it run always, are you worrying?  I know you led towards depression, but if there are reasons, the doc can help with that. 

I know it sucks sometimes, I can't even get out of bed sometimes, but you are still doing good in some areas, and it seems you are doing fantastic at coding and being on here.  I read your posts, and see a ton of brilliance and dedication.  Some days I would be happy just to read my emails.

One more thing:. You are not alone, you are never alone.  From what I see there's a lot of people here that care, you have some friends who care, a doctor who cares, sounds like your Father cares, and you got this goofy guy who types to much and puts half the people to sleep, here nicknamed G, who cares.  We are all here and will continue to do what we can.  So let me know anything you want or if there's more I can do.  Stay strong, because you are strong, brilliant, and brave.

We are in this together!

PS:. I sent you a PM too.

i don't understand why making ads for meds, theres nothing to promote the product, you can't really show any stats on screen for example because it is different on everyone.
i just want to be better as a person & less toxic, i also just want to enjoy my life again, leaving that routine of doing nothing on the weekends and going school during the week (not anymore due to the pandemic currently going on)
my sleeping schedule is currently messed up (basically is flipped around lol) due to me staying at home 24/7, however, i can easily go back to my normal sleeping schedule.

If you aren't located in the U.S, medication commercials are a completely American phenomenon. No other country airs med commercials on their channels.

As for the medication, go with something safe and non-addictive. Some drugs can work miracles for people. Drugs are out there for a reason. But others are old and have much safer alternatives. For example, benzodiazepines. They can help, but they're very addictive. Once you're addicted to them, the withdrawal effects can be devastating. Some say worse than heroin.

I'm definitely not an expert. It's good idea to talk to your psychologist or doctor for medication first. And if you're beginning to think they're necessary, go for it.

I agree with these comments. Also, don't be afraid to ask your doctor questions. It's more than reasonable to question addiction, or side effects. They should guide you through.

[miso]

i don't understand why making ads for meds, theres nothing to promote the product, you can't really show any stats on screen for example because it is different on everyone.
i just want to be better as a person & less toxic, i also just want to enjoy my life again, leaving that routine of doing nothing on the weekends and going school during the week (not anymore due to the pandemic currently going on)
my sleeping schedule is currently messed up (basically is flipped around lol) due to me staying at home 24/7, however, i can easily go back to my normal sleeping schedule.

If you aren't located in the U.S, medication commercials are a completely American phenomenon. No other country airs med commercials on their channels.

As for the medication, go with something safe and non-addictive. Some drugs can work miracles for people. Drugs are out there for a reason. But others are old and have much safer alternatives. For example, benzodiazepines. They can help, but they're very addictive. Once you're addicted to them, the withdrawal effects can be devastating. Some say worse than heroin.

I'm definitely not an expert. It's good idea to talk to your psychologist or doctor for medication first. And if you're beginning to think they're necessary, go for it.

I agree with these comments. Also, don't be afraid to ask your doctor questions. It's more than reasonable to question addiction, or side effects. They should guide you through.

yeah im really worried about the side-effects some meds can have, i don't want to take any risks before taking any

btw thanks everyone for helping me about meds, im really happy that i can talk about this with the community ^^

[Boudica]

If you aren't located in the U.S, medication commercials are a completely American phenomenon. No other country airs med commercials on their channels.

As for the medication, go with something safe and non-addictive. Some drugs can work miracles for people. Drugs are out there for a reason. But others are old and have much safer alternatives. For example, benzodiazepines. They can help, but they're very addictive. Once you're addicted to them, the withdrawal effects can be devastating. Some say worse than heroin.

I'm definitely not an expert. It's good idea to talk to your psychologist or doctor for medication first. And if you're beginning to think they're necessary, go for it.

I agree with these comments. Also, don't be afraid to ask your doctor questions. It's more than reasonable to question addiction, or side effects. They should guide you through.

yeah im really worried about the side-effects some meds can have, i don't want to take any risks before taking any

btw thanks everyone for helping me about meds, im really happy that i can talk about this with the community ^^

That's what a community is for

[mothered]

yeah im really worried about the side-effects some meds can have, i don't want to take any risks before taking any

Try not to overthink It.

The side effects are referring to the worst-case scenarios. Your doctor wouldn't prescribe any, If he/she believes they will have a serious Impact on your health.

[miso]

yeah im really worried about the side-effects some meds can have, i don't want to take any risks before taking any

Try not to overthink It.

The side effects are referring to the worst-case scenarios. Your doctor wouldn't prescribe any, If he/she believes they will have a serious Impact on your health.

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[Defeat]

Glad you're liking the community. It'll get better mate, how are you coping today?

[miso]

Glad you're liking the community. It'll get better mate, how are you coping today?

im doing okay, cleaned my kitchen lmao, what about you?

[Defeat]

Glad you're liking the community. It'll get better mate, how are you coping today?

im doing okay, cleaned my kitchen lmao, what about you?

Good! I'm slacking heavily on my school work, but slowly catching up

[mothered]

Glad you're liking the community. It'll get better mate, how are you coping today?

im doing okay, cleaned my kitchen lmao, what about you?

Good!  I'm slacking heavily on my school work, but slowly catching up 

Try not to stress. It will all come together In due course.

Due to a new government legislation passing through parliament last week, I'm enjoying being paid by my employer for being self-Isolated. In short, I'm getting paid for navigating on this board, and performing my computing tasks to my heart's content.