[Boudica]

This is what I love about this place, the diversity that can come up out of the blue, to redirect my mind to other things,and truly import things for me, that I have sometimes come to ignore, because I have lost a sense of control and experienced pain, not the physical kind, call it a broken heart, worry, sadness, etc............but that's on me, do I own my body, I would say no, we rent them and control what we can or think we can, and it will fail us one day. But, our spirit, our presence, our energy....our SOUL..we own and it resides inside our body, as we make our way through life.

My soul, was created by God, in a way I can't explain or understand so easily, but at times I can as it's so simple. Call it a blessing or curse, but I will find the good in everything and everyone, the positive is there, it just may not be clear, time may not have passed long enough to see it, but it comes. Maybe it's my perception, but it's who I am and what I am.

Sometimes we have decisions to make and hard ones, we ask God for guidance, what decision to make, and I hear so often "whatever decision I want to, because God will be here either way, and we will deal with it, and keep at it until we are done and on to the next.

So we have control and own those decisions, what good has come out of being sad, or unhappy, angry etc. I look back in my past and can't say anything I thought was bad, was as bad as it seemed at the time.

I have used your smile analogy often, because I have seen and know how just a smile can have an impact on the world, how the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

And I can honestly say, everyone who has posted above me, has had a significant impact on my life and making it better and greater, and I have passed the awesome impact onto many, in a time where darkness could have reigned in my life, and dread would followed. Not so, and how honored am I to have been so blessed by you all.

That I promise, to carry on that awesomeness, to others. And I can't explain how great of an impact you all have had on my life, you did, I can't thank you enough. How great the future will be. Let's keep doing what we do!

G

What a lovely thing to say! Kurd definitely brings some interesting topics, and there is a fairly diverse range of viewpoints and cultures on this board. Not everyone notices it, as most users are likely American, British (or one of the other colonies I kid). Lots of people will get involved in these discussions.

Kurd is also very open about his culture, religious beliefs and things he's learning about. Great person to chat to. His English in the early days wasn't as clean as it is now. He's made incredible progress.

The smile analogy can be cliche, but I think it's so true. I can think of a dozen times when it's made me feel better, and then I've smiled at a stranger later in the day for one reason or another.

[dork.master.king]

Why do you think Allah is real?

I replied to you then I thought It deserves to be a post of its own!
https://sinister.ly/Thread-Someone-asked...ah-is-real

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In The Name of Allah
Al- Salam Alekum

Long time no see guys. I have tried to post a few times on different topics but due to my tight schedule, I couldn't.

My question today to you is: Do you own your body?
According to the Islamic view, the body, like the soul, is a "gift" from God; therefore, a human being does not possess absolute ownership of his or her body. But, the ownership of human beings on their bodies can be described as a kind of "stewardship". Accordingly, any kind of dissection or mutilation of the corpse is forbidden, even with the informed consent of the dead or his/her relatives. The exception of this principle is when such procedures are necessary for saving the lives of other persons.

Okay, that was only my religious perspective on this topic. If we think logically and according to rules for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction. Aren't our actions on daily basis affect our lives and those around us significantly. Every individual is a part of a family. Family is a part of some social communities like a (town, city getting bigger to a country) based on size. From this point to affecting all around the World. So your action can affect the entire world.

Very small example, A smile or a positive action can bring happiness to everyone around you. One day on your way to work a guy stares at you and you give him a short smile. This action can be very contagious and spread from you to that guy and from him to others. This will go as a series.

Let us not get lost here. Only a smile had a significant effect on that level how does a big change to your body not affect others? Again, Do we have all rights to our bodies? Do you own your body?

I hope you get my point here...
Thanks

So yeah , It's your body do whatever you want with it , do yoga or pray 5 times a day in, think of God or meditate , be a good person or go to hell, you have a brain and you can think so... make your own decisions don't get brainwashed to believe in things , God rewards those who think and appreciate life...
Eghrae besma rabika makhalagh to me means use your brain and study what's around you and exists!

[mothered]

This is what I love about this place, the diversity that can come up out of the blue, to redirect my mind to other things,and truly import things for me, that I have sometimes come to ignore, because I have lost a sense of control and experienced pain, not the physical kind, call it a broken heart, worry, sadness, etc............but that's on me,  do I own my body, I would say no, we rent them and control what we can or think we can, and it will fail us one day.  But, our spirit, our presence, our energy....our SOUL..we own and it resides inside our body, as we make our way through life. 

My soul, was created by God, in a way I can't explain or understand so easily, but at times I can as it's so simple.  Call it a blessing or curse, but I will find the good in everything and everyone, the positive is there, it just may not be clear, time may not have passed long enough to see it, but it comes.  Maybe it's my perception, but it's who I am and what I am.

Sometimes we have decisions to make and hard ones, we ask God for guidance, what decision to make, and I hear so often "whatever decision I want to, because God will be here either way, and we will deal with it, and keep at it until we are done and on to the next.

So we have control and own those decisions, what good has come out of being sad, or unhappy, angry etc.  I look back in my past and can't say anything I thought was bad,  was as bad as it seemed at the time.

I have used your smile analogy often, because I have seen and know how just a smile can have an impact on the world, how the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

And I can honestly say, everyone who has posted above me, has had a significant impact on my life and making it better and greater, and I have passed the awesome impact onto many, in a time where darkness could have reigned in my life, and dread would followed.  Not so, and how honored am I to have been so blessed by you all.

That I promise, to carry on that awesomeness, to others.  And I can't explain how great of an impact you all have had on my life, you did, I can't thank you enough.  How great the future will be.  Let's keep doing what we do!

G

Beautifully written.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading every word.

[Mr.Kurd]

When you give someone a gift, you're accepting the possibility that they may squander it. We're not puppets, after all.

Fair enough, but we also hold responsiblity to that gift and then comes consequences. Especially if this gift was way precious and not only important to you but also to others.

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When you give someone a gift, you're accepting the possibility that they may squander it. We're not puppets, after all.

Very interesting take on it. I suppose a "gift" denotes passing ownership to the person you're gifting to. Arguing on the semantics of "gift", you could say we own our own bodies, and still be within the bounds of that religious view.

Without a religious lens, I would argue it could still be a good philosophical question. Ownership is often considered to mean "total control" of something, but I don't think that's quite right. You might own a dog, but won't be in total control of all of it's actions and behaviours. In that sense, I would say I own my own body, but don't have full control over everything that happens to it. For example, if someone makes me laugh, I don't necessarily choose to laugh as it's an involuntary response. You could also go down the route of women's rights and abortion laws. Or as Kurd pointed out, there's also medical aspects to consider.

Actually, Boudica about that abortion.. The fetus will have his own soul after 40 days of pregnancy. Parent have all right not to induce a pregnancy but after 40 days according to human rights and religions you are going to kill someone who has soul and his/her heart is beating.

[Boudica]

When you give someone a gift, you're accepting the possibility that they may squander it. We're not puppets, after all.

Fair enough, but we also hold responsiblity to that gift and then comes consequences. Especially if this gift was way precious and not only important to you but also to others.

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When you give someone a gift, you're accepting the possibility that they may squander it. We're not puppets, after all.

Very interesting take on it. I suppose a "gift" denotes passing ownership to the person you're gifting to. Arguing on the semantics of "gift", you could say we own our own bodies, and still be within the bounds of that religious view.

Without a religious lens, I would argue it could still be a good philosophical question. Ownership is often considered to mean "total control" of something, but I don't think that's quite right. You might own a dog, but won't be in total control of all of it's actions and behaviours. In that sense, I would say I own my own body, but don't have full control over everything that happens to it. For example, if someone makes me laugh, I don't necessarily choose to laugh as it's an involuntary response. You could also go down the route of women's rights and abortion laws. Or as Kurd pointed out, there's also medical aspects to consider.

Actually, Boudica about that abortion.. The fetus will have his own soul after 40 days of pregnancy. Parent have all right not to induce a pregnancy but after 40 days according to human rights and religions you are going to kill someone who has soul and his/her heart is beating.

Hi Kurd, I understand your perspective on a fetus' soul. I have somewhat different beliefs around abortion, but I mostly mentioned abortion in relation to the ongoing arguments in the US about women's rights to have an abortion, and it's impact on the ownership of the woman's body. The idea is that because the woman cannot control whether or not she falls pregnant (there are many reasons unwanted/unintended pregnancies occur) they are being forced to undergo a rather traumatic experience with their bodies, with no say of their own. They will not be supported in this venture. None of the people enacting these laws will be paying for their medical bills, or child support. So one could argue the women's ownership of her body is diminished. This is the context that I was referring to.

You could also argue an intentionally pregnant woman has no control either, as you could say her body is owned by both her and the unborn child?

The point about the fetus is also a very good one to raise! It has even less ownership of it's body, especially during pregnancy of course.

[westkous]

Nope. my wife owns definitly my body. she dresses my body up, decides what haircut and beard. Deciced where i can look at. She looks after my theets and even when my body has a problem, she brings me to an human machanic. how can i say my body is mine???

[LawDogUSA]

Nope. my wife owns definitly my body. she dresses my body up, decides what haircut and beard. Deciced where i can look at. She looks after my theets and even when my body has a problem, she brings me to an human machanic. how can i say my body is mine???

Smart man!

What I love is you made it all positive, where others can turn what you said into a negative. How blessed are you, to have a woman that takes care of you, do right by her, and stay positive, happy, make sure to tell her you Love Her everyday!

G

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This is what I love about this place, the diversity that can come up out of the blue, to redirect my mind to other things,and truly import things for me, that I have sometimes come to ignore, because I have lost a sense of control and experienced pain, not the physical kind, call it a broken heart, worry, sadness, etc............but that's on me,  do I own my body, I would say no, we rent them and control what we can or think we can, and it will fail us one day.  But, our spirit, our presence, our energy....our SOUL..we own and it resides inside our body, as we make our way through life. 

My soul, was created by God, in a way I can't explain or understand so easily, but at times I can as it's so simple.  Call it a blessing or curse, but I will find the good in everything and everyone, the positive is there, it just may not be clear, time may not have passed long enough to see it, but it comes.  Maybe it's my perception, but it's who I am and what I am.

Sometimes we have decisions to make and hard ones, we ask God for guidance, what decision to make, and I hear so often "whatever decision I want to, because God will be here either way, and we will deal with it, and keep at it until we are done and on to the next.

So we have control and own those decisions, what good has come out of being sad, or unhappy, angry etc.  I look back in my past and can't say anything I thought was bad,  was as bad as it seemed at the time.

I have used your smile analogy often, because I have seen and know how just a smile can have an impact on the world, how the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

And I can honestly say, everyone who has posted above me, has had a significant impact on my life and making it better and greater, and I have passed the awesome impact onto many, in a time where darkness could have reigned in my life, and dread would followed.  Not so, and how honored am I to have been so blessed by you all.

That I promise, to carry on that awesomeness, to others.  And I can't explain how great of an impact you all have had on my life, you did, I can't thank you enough.  How great the future will be.  Let's keep doing what we do!

G

Beautifully written.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading every word.

I'm honored in every way. You have provided incredible advice, encouragement, positive wisdom at the the perfect moments, I'm not where I am at without those times you are there. You are remarkable, I admire you in many ways, to change and guide a man into the right direction, on here and in life, and at the precision, you are just so talented, I'm honored to learn and pass these ways to others and pay it forward. Never have I seen or experienced a better or more wise leader, I would follow you to hell and back, then to heaven or a peaceful place! You got me at peace. With that, lead on Mothered! Let's have a good time through it all!

It's a new day, a good one,

G!!!

[mothered]

I'm honored in every way.  You have provided incredible advice, encouragement, positive wisdom at the the perfect moments, I'm not where I am at without those times you are there.  You are remarkable, I admire you in many ways, to change and guide a man into the right direction, on here and in life, and at the precision, you are just so talented, I'm honored to learn and pass these ways to others and pay it forward.  Never have I seen or experienced a better or more wise leader, I would follow you to hell and back, then to heaven or a peaceful place!  You got me at peace.  With that, lead on Mothered!  Let's have a good time through it all!

It's a new day, a good one,

G!!!

I truly thank you for your kind words.

I'm just so glad the Issues you were facing have significantly Improved, and you're well and truly travelling In the right direction. Always remember: Live life on your terms.

[Mr.Kurd]

This is what I love about this place, the diversity that can come up out of the blue, to redirect my mind to other things,and truly import things for me, that I have sometimes come to ignore, because I have lost a sense of control and experienced pain, not the physical kind, call it a broken heart, worry, sadness, etc............but that's on me,  do I own my body, I would say no, we rent them and control what we can or think we can, and it will fail us one day.  But, our spirit, our presence, our energy....our SOUL..we own and it resides inside our body, as we make our way through life. 

My soul, was created by God, in a way I can't explain or understand so easily, but at times I can as it's so simple.  Call it a blessing or curse, but I will find the good in everything and everyone, the positive is there, it just may not be clear, time may not have passed long enough to see it, but it comes.  Maybe it's my perception, but it's who I am and what I am.

Sometimes we have decisions to make and hard ones, we ask God for guidance, what decision to make, and I hear so often "whatever decision I want to, because God will be here either way, and we will deal with it, and keep at it until we are done and on to the next.

So we have control and own those decisions, what good has come out of being sad, or unhappy, angry etc.  I look back in my past and can't say anything I thought was bad,  was as bad as it seemed at the time.

I have used your smile analogy often, because I have seen and know how just a smile can have an impact on the world, how the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

And I can honestly say, everyone who has posted above me, has had a significant impact on my life and making it better and greater, and I have passed the awesome impact onto many, in a time where darkness could have reigned in my life, and dread would followed.  Not so, and how honored am I to have been so blessed by you all.

That I promise, to carry on that awesomeness, to others.  And I can't explain how great of an impact you all have had on my life, you did, I can't thank you enough.  How great the future will be.  Let's keep doing what we do!

G

I am glad you enjoy the forum. Especially happy discussing different aspects and topics away from Tech.

Also, you mentioned two important points, that I wanted to mention as well. Yes, We can name our body as a physical view we have been given to go through the lifes journey. Yet, We can't answer why do we feel what we feel? In. ex if this body is just a physical material why heart breaks? ( According to research heart break is real and these breaks occurs in muscle tissues )

To mention that in my religion Prophet informed us:
“Indeed in the body there is a peace of flesh, if it is reformed, the whole body becomes good, and if it is spoilt, then the whole body becomes spoilt. Indeed it is the Heart.”

I take this as a proof that the body is not just a dead material used/controlled by soul. it is more way important and affects our lifes and interfer with decisions you make.

Second thing you mentioned was about decisions we make. I totally agree with you that if we don't own our body. yet, we do own our decision and, we will have to take responsibility of them.

Off Topic, I'm glad you feel much better than before. Good luck.

[Mr.Kurd]

This is what I love about this place, the diversity that can come up out of the blue, to redirect my mind to other things,and truly import things for me, that I have sometimes come to ignore, because I have lost a sense of control and experienced pain, not the physical kind, call it a broken heart, worry, sadness, etc............but that's on me,  do I own my body, I would say no, we rent them and control what we can or think we can, and it will fail us one day.  But, our spirit, our presence, our energy....our SOUL..we own and it resides inside our body, as we make our way through life. 

My soul, was created by God, in a way I can't explain or understand so easily, but at times I can as it's so simple.  Call it a blessing or curse, but I will find the good in everything and everyone, the positive is there, it just may not be clear, time may not have passed long enough to see it, but it comes.  Maybe it's my perception, but it's who I am and what I am.

Sometimes we have decisions to make and hard ones, we ask God for guidance, what decision to make, and I hear so often "whatever decision I want to, because God will be here either way, and we will deal with it, and keep at it until we are done and on to the next.

So we have control and own those decisions, what good has come out of being sad, or unhappy, angry etc.  I look back in my past and can't say anything I thought was bad,  was as bad as it seemed at the time.

I have used your smile analogy often, because I have seen and know how just a smile can have an impact on the world, how the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

And I can honestly say, everyone who has posted above me, has had a significant impact on my life and making it better and greater, and I have passed the awesome impact onto many, in a time where darkness could have reigned in my life, and dread would followed.  Not so, and how honored am I to have been so blessed by you all.

That I promise, to carry on that awesomeness, to others.  And I can't explain how great of an impact you all have had on my life, you did, I can't thank you enough.  How great the future will be.  Let's keep doing what we do!

G

What a lovely thing to say! Kurd definitely brings some interesting topics, and there is a fairly diverse range of viewpoints and cultures on this board. Not everyone notices it, as most users are likely American, British (or one of the other colonies I kid). Lots of people will get involved in these discussions.

Kurd is also very open about his culture, religious beliefs and things he's learning about. Great person to chat to. His English in the early days wasn't as clean as it is now. He's made incredible progress.

The smile analogy can be cliche, but I think it's so true. I can think of a dozen times when it's made me feel better, and then I've smiled at a stranger later in the day for one reason or another.

it is very kind of you to say that Boudica. I'm always thankful to this community for giving me a gateway to learn more about different cultures, religions and values of others not to forget my start here with a very bad grammer and gradually learning with you guys.

Again, without your support I can't really write these type of topics. I always know that some of you are here to read them otherwise I wouldn't have energy to write. You, Oni and Mothered .. many others actually. Thank you, you are the source of my motivations behind writing.