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What wrong with her being transgender. She's a girl just like any cis girl. She didn't say she had a penis. Would you rather her tell you after you had the best sex of your life (assuming shes post op? This isn't her fault that you are done dating, it's yours.
As for the rest of you. She not he not "she" not h(im)er. Ashley not Ash. Trans or transgender not tranny.
Honestly, she didn't tell you that far in. She told you at the relatively right time.
I'm trans by the the way.

I can agree with what you're saying. But she really should of told him earlier on, but then again if she looks feminine enough to 'trick you' and not realize. Maybe it isn't a big deal. But I think he should return to talk to her. Then again the reaction is understandable but also a little unreasonable. And props to you for sharing that. <3