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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #21
Damn, what the fuck did I just read? Sorry for my ignorance but wow...

Anyways, its really a lose for you both considering he/she must've thought that you'd be ok and not freak out..only for you to leave and remove him/her on facebook. None the less that is one hell of a situation.

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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #22
Dude, you do realize you got off with a tranny, right?

Anyways, sucks for both of you. poor it.

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Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #23
What wrong with her being transgendered. She's a girl just like any cis girl. She didn't say she had a penis. Would you rather her tell you after you had the best sex of your life (assuming shes post op? This isn't her fault that you are done dating, it's yours.
As for the rest of you. She not he not "she" not h(im)er. Ashley not Ash. Trans or transgender not tranny.
Honestly, she didn't tell you that far in. She told you at the relatively right time.
I'm trans by the the way.
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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #24
Although i understand the reason you were shocked and why you would want to avoid meeting her/him again, i don't really think you should avoid your usual bar because of it. And just like Lux I think you should just go that place and maybe give a warning to the others just in case, and when you bump into him/her, maybe apologize. You never know a persons story and maybe if things aren't that weird you might get an awesome new friend.


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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #25
(11-07-2013, 04:38 PM)Putin Wrote: What wrong with her being transgender. She's a girl just like any cis girl. She didn't say she had a penis. Would you rather her tell you after you had the best sex of your life (assuming shes post op? This isn't her fault that you are done dating, it's yours.
As for the rest of you. She not he not "she" not h(im)er. Ashley not Ash. Trans or transgender not tranny.
Honestly, she didn't tell you that far in. She told you at the relatively right time.
I'm trans by the the way.

I can agree with what you're saying. But she really should of told him earlier on, but then again if she looks feminine enough to 'trick you' and not realize. Maybe it isn't a big deal. But I think he should return to talk to her. Then again the reaction is understandable but also a little unreasonable. And props to you for sharing that. <3

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Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #26
(11-07-2013, 06:40 PM)Lux Wrote: I can agree with what you're saying. But she really should of told him earlier on, but then again if she looks feminine enough to 'trick you' and not realize. Maybe it isn't a big deal. But I think he should return to talk to her. Then again the reaction is understandable but also a little unreasonable. And props to you for sharing that. <3

She passes as a female. If she is pre op then it's a different story, but saying 'I'm transgender' doesn't mean pre op.

I also don't see the need to out her to everyone. Depending on where you are, she could end up dead.
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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #27
Wow that sucks. Hopefully you will meet someone else. One without an egg roll.

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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #28
(11-07-2013, 07:43 PM)Sparks Wrote: Wow that sucks. Hopefully you will meet someone else. One without an egg roll.

I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't compare egg rolls with genitalia...


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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #29
(11-07-2013, 04:38 PM)Putin Wrote: What wrong with her being transgendered. She's a girl just like any cis girl. She didn't say she had a penis. Would you rather her tell you after you had the best sex of your life (assuming shes post op? This isn't her fault that you are done dating, it's yours.
As for the rest of you. She not he not "she" not h(im)er. Ashley not Ash. Trans or transgender not tranny.
Honestly, she didn't tell you that far in. She told you at the relatively right time.
I'm trans by the the way.

I need to quote you in every post I make when we're in the same thread. It's like my religious obligation now.


As for you Sir..... You're a better man than I then.
I would not have resisted the urge to put my penis into something. I detect things with it. It's gotta go everywhere!
Meng, pre-op or post-op, I'll jump in the sack either way, expand your horizons, see how the grass is on the other side, insert more metaphorical shit here.
And I gotta agree with Adorapuff, you giving up on dating because you found something you weren't interested in is a sharp example of immaturity and either you need to grow up or you shouldn't be dating anyways.
There's lotsa shit going on in the world, can't let it affect you too much. There's lotsa fish in the sea, bound to be one not to your taste.

Fun Fact: Most of the world likes penises.... So... All the cool kids are doin' it.

(11-07-2013, 07:43 PM)Sparks Wrote: Wow that sucks. Hopefully you will meet someone else. One without an egg roll.

I like my eggrolls spicy.
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RE: Why I'm giving up on dating, and people in general... #30
(10-16-2013, 02:58 PM)Ichi Wrote: I actually feel more sad for the other person than I feel for you. Mainly because I mean its a worse case for that person.

I agree. Life is hard for transgender people. I've known a few in my life. If you don't want to be with a woman like that, it's understandable, but using words like tranny & calling her a dude or whatever are really not cool. I notice a lot of hateful words are spouted on this forum (both in joking & in seriousness), and I don't expect that to change, but the pain & humiliation that a typical transgender person goes through is nothing to make light of, & something that drives you so hard to the point of changing your sexual organs (among other things) should be treated with a little more respect than that. Im certainly not picking on you or anything, I am sorry that you had to deal with an akward situation like that, but I would say just chalk it up to it being a weird situation for everyone & move on.

(11-07-2013, 03:58 PM)Aidan Wrote: Dude, you do realize you got off with a tranny, right?

Anyways, sucks for both of you. poor it.

Are you serious??

(10-16-2013, 03:15 PM)Jiggly Wrote: Nom bacon.

Not to her she's not Tongue But yeah, everyone's got an opinion so I won't say you're wrong :')

I'll gladly say that he's wrong. I don't really get mad about a whole lot of things but I'm so sick of hearing these type of comments from people & seeing the pain that it causes someone while the other person, who prolly didn't have nearly as much pain in their life just laugh about it & shrug it off. I mean I'm not telling you (Sir) how to think or feel, but seriously...this was just totally inappropriate.
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