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kali.

its usefull plus i can just run windows 10 in vm

Seems you're doing the exact opposite of what the developers of Kali intended. Kali does not receive security updates as often as mainline linux distros, along with the default primary user being root leaving a massive security hole incase of malicious software.

let me rephrase, its not useful for security, its useful because it has many tools and can is useful for pretesting and running tools

Request is saying you're using Kali for the wrong reason. Kali is much less an everyday-use operating system and much more a toolset that you pull out every other thursday when you need it. It's like a swiss army knife, you use it when you need it, but you don't use a swiss army knife to make a tuna casserole in the kitchen.