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mmoney problems - Sugar_chill - 12-23-2019
I been trying looking on here an looking for ways to make even a little bit of money so that I don't nearly have the issues I am now still having an getting worse. twice my car been repo and likely now lost what we had in the car that we didn't get out. they want there money on top of 3 to 4 other people I owe. not really getting food alot of the time or small portions. its not like I'm not working but, it all goes to paying my Bill's an I'm at a loss. it's so bad that I get hit on an off certain days cause, Family starts shit or trying just to get it done with an apparently not the right way when I got work in the morning and have to rest up
RE: mmoney problems - Mom - 12-23-2019
Gonna have to be real and say more good ways of making money are not just publicly known. If they were, everyone would do it and the well would dry up. It's just how it shakes down. You do have my sincere apologies, as worthless as they are, for what you're going through. Sadly, outside of charity, I'm not sure something here can help with things of such grand scale.
Here's to hoping I'm wrong.
RE: mmoney problems - FreightTrain - 12-23-2019
Seems like you've already dug yourself into a hole because you never fixed your original problems. You were likely already struggling financially, then asked friends/family for money to help you out. They helped, but you didn't help yourself to fix those original issues. My only advice, go pick up a second job and bust your ass. If food is one of your current struggles, get a second job at a restaurant. There's decent money in serving, long hours available in most kitchens, and you'll get discounts/free food. Yeah you'll be tired and exhausted, but so is the majority of the rest of the world and basically every successful person. It's up to you to change your life.
RE: mmoney problems - phyrrus9 - 12-23-2019
(12-23-2019, 03:23 PM)Sugar_chill Wrote: I been trying looking on here an looking for ways to make even a little bit of money so that I don't nearly have the issues I am now still having an getting worse. twice my car been repo and likely now lost what we had in the car that we didn't get out. they want there money on top of 3 to 4 other people I owe. not really getting food alot of the time or small portions. its not like I'm not working but, it all goes to paying my Bill's an I'm at a loss. it's so bad that I get hit on an off certain days cause, Family starts shit or trying just to get it done with an apparently not the right way when I got work in the morning and have to rest up
You're learning the hard lesson that at some point it's time to walk away.
Have you looked into doing tech work? I actually made a thread where I released the code I use to search all of CL USA to find new work (but didn't give my keywords or spamfilter).
https://sinister.ly/Thread-CraigslistSearch-Search-all-of-craigslist-USA-for-job-leads
RE: mmoney problems - mothered - 12-24-2019
I've been there and done that, and certainly know what you're going through. It may not seem like It now, but things will Improve.
I suggest consolidating all your debts Into a single loan, and focus on paying It off as quickly as possible. Make whatever sacrifices that need to be done along the way.
RE: mmoney problems - Sugar_chill - 12-24-2019
I been doing that an have one loan all ready an to the people previous replied if your not getting the shit beat out of you for not being able to make enough then dont
smart remark
RE: mmoney problems - mothered - 12-25-2019
(12-24-2019, 10:51 PM)Sugar_chill Wrote: I been doing that an have one loan all ready
The lender would've approved the loan based on your Income, and the fact that repayments can be made each week/month.
Are you not able to fulfill the requirements?
RE: mmoney problems - CLWalker - 11-02-2020
I've been there and it feels like crap to feel like you're alone in the entire world and everything turns out to be wrong for you. Now, I'm a totally different person because I pushed myself to the limit and believed that I can get out of this hole. I got a second job as a waiter, got a loan, paid off all my debts, and slowly returned the money. There are a lot of 15 minute loans from direct lenders, so this wasn't an issue. I know it seems cliche, but I did it, and even though there were dozens of sleepless nights, I made it work and look at me now, happy, with a good job and no more self-destructive thoughts.
RE: mmoney problems - Oliver88 - 11-16-2020
lack of money is the norm, you have to survive somehow. My mother always taught me to be grateful for what you have. It doesn't always work, but it's easier this way.
RE: mmoney problems - Johny_Bonny - 01-19-2021
I think most of the population suffers from the same problems now . A year ago, I wanted to buy a new car, but because of the coronavirus, I lost my job and all my plans were ruined. Besides, I had just started paying off my mortgage and I understood that if I will skip the payment I will be in big trouble. I really didn't know what to do in such a situation so I decided to contact Mortgage Broker London, who helped me solve this problem. I've now found a new well-paid job and I'm no longer worried about paying off my mortgage, but this year really brought a lot of problems into my life.