[Purphexyon]

I think I'm somewhat biased as I have transgender friends. They mentally identify as female. Physically they technically will always be male. But I guess there are some transgender girls where you just wouldn't ever know.

If she was post-OP... I wonder how this story would have turned out then.

The shock is totally understandable. Especially, when the poor guy gets that far with her >.<

I can see what you're saying, but I have to question that they will always technically be male. You may be right, but at the same time I feel that it's debatable. First off, what truly defines gender? This is something people could argue over forever. Secondly, the same material that makes a penis, makes a vagina. The genetic code in an individual (which can be shaped, altered, manipulated, "screwed-up" by a variety of factors) tells how that material is to be shaped. From what I understand being transgender or in this case transexual is actually more like a mutation (& no I'm not trying to call transgender/transexual people mutants or anything like that). Other than the shape/form of genetalia the only other physical factor is body chemistry. This can easily be adjusted via hormone therapy. Skin thickness & texture, body hair, body scents, etc all become altered over time. There are several "genetic women" (as some would say) who do not have ovaries, and have to go through hormone therapy to maintain a healthy hormone balance for several reasons. Anything that I haven't covered just seems to be too trivial to bother going into. For all intents & purposes a transexual female is female, both physically & mentally. Same goes for transexual males. Sorry for going on & on but I felt some people here really could use some education in this area, and I'm really into civil rights so it can be a sensitive subject for me. Thank you to whoever reads all this

[Sir]

I need to quote you in every post I make when we're in the same thread. It's like my religious obligation now.



And I gotta agree with Adorapuff, you giving up on dating because you found something you weren't interested in is a sharp example of immaturity and either you need to grow up
I like my eggrolls spicy.

It was an over exaggeration tbh lol. I'm definitely not giving up, more like hiatus.

[Mom]

It was an over exaggeration tbh lol. I'm definitely not giving up, more like hiatus.

Alright then.
Thought you were serious.
Got more aggressive because, honestly, I expect a lot from you Sir. Don't be disappointin' me.

[Dyme]

Sounds like a load of bullshit but I still would've pounded it and stuck my pen inside of him.

[Mom]

Sounds like a load of bullshit but I still would've pounded it and stuck my pen inside of him.

Me and Pens? Same page here.

[Мatt]

I can see what you're saying, but I have to question that they will always technically be male. You may be right, but at the same time I feel that it's debatable. First off, what truly defines gender? This is something people could argue over forever. Secondly, the same material that makes a penis, makes a vagina. The genetic code in an individual (which can be shaped, altered, manipulated, "screwed-up" by a variety of factors) tells how that material is to be shaped. From what I understand being transgender or in this case transexual is actually more like a mutation (& no I'm not trying to call transgender/transexual people mutants or anything like that). Other than the shape/form of genetalia the only other physical factor is body chemistry. This can easily be adjusted via hormone therapy. Skin thickness & texture, body hair, body scents, etc all become altered over time. There are several "genetic women" (as some would say) who do not have ovaries, and have to go through hormone therapy to maintain a healthy hormone balance for several reasons. Anything that I haven't covered just seems to be too trivial to bother going into. For all intents & purposes a transexual female is female, both physically & mentally. Same goes for transexual males. Sorry for going on & on but I felt some people here really could use some education in this area, and I'm really into civil rights so it can be a sensitive subject for me. Thank you to whoever reads all this

This. All of fucking this. Probably the most inciteful thing I've read.

But back to OP, I'm really sorry man. Sucks, maybe, but I'm sure you've heard the "other girls in the sea" expression. I wouldn't give it all up for that one incident though man. You seem like you really know what you're doing with the ladies and a well dressed and mannered young guy, which I'm sure is why your name here is "Sir." But don't get too upset about it. Do your thing and just enjoy life. Maybe try a different bar or pool hall to go and hang out at. Mix it up.

[Boudica]

I can see what you're saying, but I have to question that they will always technically be male. You may be right, but at the same time I feel that it's debatable. First off, what truly defines gender? This is something people could argue over forever. Secondly, the same material that makes a penis, makes a vagina. The genetic code in an individual (which can be shaped, altered, manipulated, "screwed-up" by a variety of factors) tells how that material is to be shaped. From what I understand being transgender or in this case transexual is actually more like a mutation (& no I'm not trying to call transgender/transexual people mutants or anything like that). Other than the shape/form of genetalia the only other physical factor is body chemistry. This can easily be adjusted via hormone therapy. Skin thickness & texture, body hair, body scents, etc all become altered over time. There are several "genetic women" (as some would say) who do not have ovaries, and have to go through hormone therapy to maintain a healthy hormone balance for several reasons. Anything that I haven't covered just seems to be too trivial to bother going into. For all intents & purposes a transexual female is female, both physically & mentally. Same goes for transexual males. Sorry for going on & on but I felt some people here really could use some education in this area, and I'm really into civil rights so it can be a sensitive subject for me. Thank you to whoever reads all this

I was thinking along the lines of genetics. For example, in some cases males can develop naturally large muscles with little effort... However, you have a damn good point. So I'm going to retract that thought xD You're right, physically and mentally they are female. I've heard a lot about a few processes for "the op". Makes me glad I was born female though xD

[lux]

I was thinking along the lines of genetics. For example, in some cases males can develop naturally large muscles with little effort... However, you have a damn good point. So I'm going to retract that thought xD You're right, physically and mentally they are female. I've heard a lot about a few processes for "the op". Makes me glad I was born female though xD

Don't they like cut some bits off and invert it? O.o

[Tracefl0w]

Dude, you're lucky enough that girl or what he/she is said the truth to you

lol, she or in general it was a transgender... Ugh, I don't want the same fate, no, God, please, save me from such dating....

You do realize that this thread is 6 years old and you're grave digging?

@mothered I'd suggest that you close this thread so no further grave digging occurs.

[mothered]

Dude, you're lucky enough that girl or what he/she is said the truth to you

lol, she or in general it was a transgender... Ugh, I don't want the same fate, no, God, please, save me from such dating....

You do realize that this thread is 6 years old and you're grave digging?

@mothered I'd suggest that you close this thread so no further grave digging occurs.

It's now active once again, and has become an open discussion.

Given the thread Is not specifically tied to the OP In a manner of request or advice, It can remain as Is.