[Satan]

So today i was playing basketball and this cute girl was rollerblading by and i knew friends that were close to her so they hooked me up and now i'm talking to her but now my ex girlfriend wants to get back with me and i don't know what to do i mean like the cute girl i barely know her and my ex i know her very well but also with my ex we had some problems i can't get over. I'm not looking for someone to tell me oh you should do this and ill do it i just want to know what you guys think about this.

THANKS,
Truth

Exes are exes for a reason. Unless you left them quite some time ago, more than a few years, you're still probably going to get those same problems.

Imho, go for the new girl. From experience, if it doesn't work out once, it probably won't ever with someone who you've dated before.

[mig4ng]

Rule no 1, Don't give second chances to ex's

[cr33pyguy]

There's a reason she's you ex right? So explore the new girl. (If you know what I mean)

This.

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Also, I would like to notify you that what we call love is a highly complex biological and psychological process.

For this post I am going to assume that you play the male gender role (somewhat dominant, etc.)

So, the thing about the male gender role is that you are not objected to choose, unless the case is that multiple players of the female gender role (yes, they can be male) are interested in you on an equal level. In the psychological part of the process of "love" the one playing the female gender role picks who they want, while the one playing the male gender role has to "impress" his/her counter part. In other words, go "impress" them, and see which one does more to get you.

The female gender role tries to find the most "valuable" counterpart. This means that you shouldn't give yourself to them, but they need to chase you to get to you.

[Customer]

Fuck them both.

Don't be a betafag.