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What do i do.... - Pidiot - 01-25-2014
So today i was playing basketball and this cute girl was rollerblading by and i knew friends that were close to her so they hooked me up and now i'm talking to her but now my ex girlfriend wants to get back with me and i don't know what to do i mean like the cute girl i barely know her and my ex i know her very well but also with my ex we had some problems i can't get over. I'm not looking for someone to tell me oh you should do this and ill do it i just want to know what you guys think about this.
THANKS,
Truth
RE: What do i do.... - Equinox - 01-25-2014
This is what we humans call "love".
The truth, no pun intended, about love is that it is a fragmented emotion. We can think we know exactly what the emotion is but we will never know the answer. Finding the answer is the answer to life in which would probably cause us to perish from our own knowledge. However I can say this;
Your heart doesn't tell you who you love or don't. It's your brain. You can say what you want, but if you had no brain you can't say you love one. Your body would not function. Biology aside, we can only believe what we think.
If you truly love the girl you are with now, you wouldn't need an answer to this question. You would have one. If you still love your ex-girlfriend, that's okay. You can still love her and the same girl. Now typically girls are not happy about this BUT that is jealousy. If you can show that you love one over the other you can be with one. There is a difference between liking and loving one however.
Love is only what we define it to be. What do we define it as?
You can only say that you positively know if you were in the minds of everyone in the world.
Whoever you think most of and do the most for is the one you love most.
Now this is where people go wrong. Don't ask "What does love do for me?". That is already a fucked up path. You ask "What can I do for love?". What does that mean? It means that what can you do to continue being happy, or start if you have depression like me, yet still supply and generate the feelings you have for the girl.
Cheating is wrong, if you go down that path, something is wrong with you.
Your life is only what you make it so make it good. Everyone has a love of their life. Secret or not, you do. Whoever that may be, it's quite possible it's with the girl you are with or were with. Easy way to tell? There is none. You have to know before even thinking of asking that question.
Keep in mind, women are not toys. They're not any type of one. They're not sex toys or pleasure toys. They are creatures that are delicate and beatiful.
Call me a fag, I don't care.
RE: What do i do.... - Pidiot - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 05:48 AM)Duubz Wrote: This is what we humans call "love".
The truth, no pun intended, about love is that it is a fragmented emotion. We can think we know exactly what the emotion is but we will never know the answer. Finding the answer is the answer to life in which would probably cause us to perish from our own knowledge. However I can say this;
Your heart doesn't tell you who you love or don't. It's your brain. You can say what you want, but if you had no brain you can't say you love one. Your body would not function. Biology aside, we can only believe what we think.
If you truly love the girl you are with now, you wouldn't need an answer to this question. You would have one. If you still love your ex-girlfriend, that's okay. You can still love her and the same girl. Now typically girls are not happy about this BUT that is jealousy. If you can show that you love one over the other you can be with one. There is a difference between liking and loving one however.
Love is only what we define it to be. What do we define it as?
You can only say that you positively know if you were in the minds of everyone in the world.
Whoever you think most of and do the most for is the one you love most.
Now this is where people go wrong. Don't ask "What does love do for me?". That is already a fucked up path. You ask "What can I do for love?". What does that mean? It means that what can you do to continue being happy, or start if you have depression like me, yet still supply and generate the feelings you have for the girl.
Cheating is wrong, if you go down that path, something is wrong with you.
Your life is only what you make it so make it good. Everyone has a love of their life. Secret or not, you do. Whoever that may be, it's quite possible it's with the girl you are with or were with. Easy way to tell? There is none. You have to know before even thinking of asking that question.
Keep in mind, women are not toys. They're not any type of one. They're not sex toys or pleasure toys. They are creatures that are delicate and beatiful.
Call me a fag, I don't care.
Why would anyone call you a fag?
RE: What do i do.... - Equinox - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 05:53 AM)Truth Wrote: Why would anyone call you a fag?
Because people think because of things I say like that I am gay. And I'm not.
RE: What do i do.... - Pidiot - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 05:54 AM)Duubz Wrote: Because people think because of things I say like that I am gay. And I'm not.
Your just more mature than them
RE: What do i do.... - Bannedshee - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 05:55 AM)Truth Wrote: Your just more mature than them
No he is indeed a faggot.
OP: get to know the cute girl better, if it doesnt work out, get back with your ex.
RE: What do i do.... - Pidiot - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 06:02 AM)Banshee Wrote: No he is indeed a faggot.
OP: get to know the cute girl better, if it doesnt work out, get back with your ex.
Thats mean..
Alright thanks for the advice
RE: What do i do.... - Equinox - 01-25-2014
(01-25-2014, 05:48 AM)Duubz Wrote: Call me a fag, I don't care.
(01-25-2014, 06:02 AM)Banshee Wrote: No he is indeed a faggot.
(01-25-2014, 05:48 AM)Duubz Wrote: Call me a fag, I don't care.
(01-25-2014, 05:48 AM)Duubz Wrote: Call me a fag, I don't care.
RE: What do i do.... - w00t - 01-25-2014
Shag them both. Contrary to what seems to be common belief in teens, hooking up with two people doesn't mean you're cheating on them
RE: What do i do.... - lux - 01-25-2014
There's a reason she's you ex right? So explore the new girl. (If you know what I mean)