[|| Dragonjack ||]

"The guys shouldn't have brought his kid into a fucking bar and let him roam around without an adult"

I agree on this.

[Greed]

Nice read, you couldn't have smucked his face

[Jessie Andrews]

Guys, I didn't write it. I just copied off of another forum and posted it here to see what you guys would think of it.

Where was this found ? I would like to see the results on other sites as well.
The guys shouldn't have brought his kid into a fucking bar and let him roam around without an adult.

It's on another forum I regularly visit - won't tell you what forum it was but I shall provide the replies.

Spoiler:

tldr



did he touch your penis?

Seem's you were right. At least from my perspective. Your reactions seem logical except maybe trying to get him to hit you and calling the woman a slut. While she may well have been a slut she could also have been his wife and she had little to do with it so a bit of a low blow to her more than him.

Otherwise well done, your boss should be proud...

It would be funny if this was some elaborate test set up by your boss to test your manhood though.

Yeah you did the right thing, it's always good to take care of the kids even though their parents can be terrible, despicable people.

I think you're a cool guy, so don't take this the wrong way, but if I was that guy, I would have clocked you.

Taking my kid by the hand and leading him out of the bathroom with his zipper down would have come across to me as extremely suspicious. Then you go and criticize the man's parenting methods, and insult his girlfriend/wife/friend. You also get right up in his face and call him a motherfucker, right after telling him to watch his mouth around the child.

If I was a parent of a child, and had to spend all my time and money supporting him/her, and I finally get a chance to go out with a woman for some food at a nice restaurant, I sure as well wouldn't want to bring my kid. This man was probably obligated to bring the kid, because he couldn't find a babysitter, or something else came up. I feel that having the kid accompanying me on my date would be a giant cockblock by itself, so once the child finally says "I have to go to the bathroom", I would just let the damn kid go by himself. The man probably was extremely relieved to get the damn kid out of his hair for a few minutes while he talked to the woman.

Then a man like you walks up to him holding his kids hand, pretending to be the nice, caring guy but really just wants to start a fight to prove something. Gets right up in his face, acting high and mighty, and begging to get punched.

Were you trying to teach the man a lesson? Or trying to show him that you weren't a pedo? Or did you just need to let off some steam and this man seemed like the easiest target? Because it sure as hell wasn't for the sake of the child.

That's just my opinion though. I'm sure that your actions were rationalized at that point in time, although maybe now you're thinking if whether you were actually as justified as you think (hence this thread).

Should have asked him if it was any weirder than teaching your kid to ask complete strangers to do his zipper for him.

He didn't teach his kid that of course, but that'll sure get him off your ass real quick when it occurs to him what exactly happened.

Maybe it pissed you off to see this guy get offended when clearly he was being a half-assed parentand totally deserved it.

I see it all the time. One perfect example is my son's mom. Looking over her facebook, you'd swear that she was an attentive loving mother, but the truth is that I can count the number of times she's come to visit in the last year on one hand. Her facebook posing seriously pisses me off, but I always let it go for my son's sake. If we fought about it, he'd be the one to suffer in the end. It's better to just keep my opinion to myself.

This case was different, though. I probably would have done the same in your shoes.

ITT: OP once again shows off his true character, apologists scramble to make him look like a hero.

I dont think you did anything wrong. You were in a difficult situation, especially with people being all hypersensitive about pedos and what not (for a good reason of course) but it makes it awkward even when youre not a pedo and faced with a little kid alone in a bathroom with you wanting you to touch him near his privates. Hell, even if you had said fuck it this kid needs help and im not molesting him at all and no one had walked in at the time even him just saying "the man in the bathroom helped me put my pants on" would send the father into a panicked rage.

You tried to be polite about it, he was an asshole, you tried to walk away, he was more of an asshole, you tried to walk away again, then he was even more of an asshole, and you finally snapped. Not even snapped, just lost a bit of tact and composure and put him in his fucking place. This guy is an asshole clearly and probably treats people like this all the fucking time.

I try to be non violent and havent been the first one to throw a punch in fucking years (havent even been in a fight in almost two i think), but i totally get what you mean about sometimes you just want some asshole to take a swing at you so they can get the asskicking they deserve. Maybe thats not really the correct way to think, but i can sympathize with it for sure, And at least its better than being the one to start the violence, even if thats a bit of a rationalization.

I definitely would've told him to go ask his dad for help, if I said anything at all. I probably would've just walked out, he was obviously there with someone. I sure as fuck would never walk out of a bathroom holding a random kid's hand, couldn't you have just said "Come with me" or something? If I were the father I would've thought wtf too, then when you got in my face I'd assault you. But your intentions were good, just looked extremely weird.

The father is a joker and you stood your ground. I wouldn't zip up some kid's fly either.

You did the right thing. He sounds like a shitty father who doesn't want to admit it.

i'm just glad to hear it was OP and not [other user] in that bathroom. i hate to think what he would have done the sick fuck.

akwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaard !!!

You sound in the right OP. That guy was an asshole towards you for no real good reason. If he felt like a bad parent because of that then he should think to himself "hey, maybe I'm a bad parent and should change my actions" but nooo he takes it out on poor old OP.

I applaud you conduct sir, and frankly I think you did the dad good showing him what a sniveling little shit he is.

[Red_CnC]

You're right and he's wrong, doesn't need two people to discuss it.
I hate ignorant people.

[Google]

You're right and he's wrong, doesn't need two people to discuss it.
I hate ignorant people.

Same. And the worst thing is: They think they are right.

[Demo]

The right, for sure

[Red_CnC]

Same. And the worst thing is: They think they are right.

And they're very frustrating when they start speaking as if they're better than you.

[Tree]

I don't think he should be embarrassed (he obviously was) that his kid couldn't pull his zipper up, it's his damn kid. Helping your son zipping his zipper is a typical thing for a father to do anyway so I don't think anyone would give him shit for it, assuming that's the thing that he was worried about. He also sounds like a douche so he's wrong.

[Google]

And they're very frustrating when they start speaking as if they're better than you.

Haha lol. Dis is le moi. Sometimed it is true, but all humans are the same.

[Red_CnC]

Haha lol. Dis is le moi. Sometimed it is true, but all humans are the same.

I care to disagree, there are many people who know when they're wrong and aren't afraid to admit it.