[Nacorpio]

Hello,

I just wanna tell you about how my life really is.
I wanna tell you what happens to me everyday in school.
It just feels like I have to say this... I don't know why.

I'm on a christmas holiday at the moment. I don't really have a lot to do.
I have 1 friend, because the other one that I had a couple of weeks ago
was a fucking liar. He has been talking shit about me and stuff.

Once when we were having art in school, the guys in my class (they're retarded)
came up to my table. One of the guys came up to me and pushed me to the table with my face down.
I got really scared (I'm not gonna lie). I didn't know what to do.
Everyone in the class room watched it, but there wasn't anyone who told them to stop.
And if I'd tell the teachers about it, I would get beat up the day after or so.
So, I didn't really know what to do. This is one of the things that is happening to me everyday at school.
I don't even feel safe at school anymore. I don't fit in anywhere, eventhough I'm just a normal guy.
It feels like I just wanna end my life here and now.
I've been so strong for the last few years, getting bullied everyday of these years. I know suicide is for cowards, but I don't really know what to do anymore. I can't really do shit about it. I've been trying to change my clothing style multiple times, but that doesn't work either. And it was the biggest mistake in my life. I wanna be myself, not a copy of someone else.
I just look like a regular guy, but I'm a little skinny.

What the fuck is the problem?

Is there anyone here that has gotten bullied, and what did you to stop it?
I wanna go the last few months in school without getting bullied.

Thank you.

[Zealotry]

I was bullied for several years. I know exactly how you feel.

Gain some confidence. Understand that they're losers and you're not.

If they do it again, turn around and start a fight. In the US (Dunno about Sweden), if you kick their ass in self defense, usually nothing will happen.

If they smash your face into the table, calmly look at them, punch them in the nose so hard it breaks, then smash it into the table yourself.

THAT is pain. THAT is how you stand up for yourself.

[Nacorpio]

I was bullied for several years. I know exactly how you feel.

Gain some confidence. Understand that they're losers and you're not.

If they do it again, turn around and start a fight. In the US (Dunno about Sweden), if you kick their ass in self defense, usually nothing will happen.

If they smash your face into the table, calmly look at them, punch them in the nose so hard it breaks, then smash it into the table yourself.

THAT is pain. THAT is how you stand up for yourself.

Thank you a lot for replying.
I'm gonna try to do this in the future.

Thank you once again. <3

[ICE_]

I used to get bullied, but then I got really fed up with it... one night I was thinking about it and I decided that enough was enough and that I would need to stand up for myself. The next day when the kid came up to me and started saying shit I punched him in the face as hard as I could (now, I'm fairly strong so it probably hurt). He fell instantly and then scrambled back to his feet, looked at me with pure anger and hit me in the stomach... it hurt... a lot... but I didn't stop, the hit just made me even more angry. I went agro, filled with adrenaline... he was sent to the hospital and had to get like 30 stitches. No lie, I hit him so many times that the next day my wrists hurt and I couldn't write... well, I never got bullied again... you need to stand up for yourself, If you tell a teacher than the kids will be detained and wont have a chance to beat you up, if you go the route I went and try to beat the shit out of them... make sure you can

[Nacorpio]

I used to get bullied, but then I got really fed up with it... one night I was thinking about it and I decided that enough was enough and that I would need to stand up for myself. The next day when the kid came up to me and started saying shit I punched him in the face as hard as I could (now, I'm fairly strong so it probably hurt). He fell instantly and then scrambled back to his feet, looked at me with pure anger and hit me in the stomach... it hurt... a lot... but I didn't stop, the hit just made me even more angry. I went agro, filled with adrenaline... he was sent to the hospital and had to get like 30 stitches. No lie, I hit him so many times that the next day my wrists hurt and I couldn't write... well, I never got bullied again... you need to stand up for yourself, If you tell a teacher than the kids will be detained and wont have a chance to beat you up, if you go the route I went and try to beat the shit out of them... make sure you can

Yes, but if the guys are bigger than you?
I know I have to stand up for myself, but I have no self confidence anymore.
If I would try to beat someone in the face, they would do the same and even worse to me.

[ICE_]

I used to get bullied, but then I got really fed up with it... one night I was thinking about it and I decided that enough was enough and that I would need to stand up for myself. The next day when the kid came up to me and started saying shit I punched him in the face as hard as I could (now, I'm fairly strong so it probably hurt). He fell instantly and then scrambled back to his feet, looked at me with pure anger and hit me in the stomach... it hurt... a lot... but I didn't stop, the hit just made me even more angry. I went agro, filled with adrenaline... he was sent to the hospital and had to get like 30 stitches. No lie, I hit him so many times that the next day my wrists hurt and I couldn't write... well, I never got bullied again... you need to stand up for yourself, If you tell a teacher than the kids will be detained and wont have a chance to beat you up, if you go the route I went and try to beat the shit out of them... make sure you can

Yes, but if the guys are bigger than you?
I know I have to stand up for myself, but I have no self confidence anymore.
If I would try to beat someone in the face, they would do the same and even worse to me.

Then idk what to tell you, build up some muscle or at least some fat... you have all winter break, go exercise your arms

[+Respawn]

I've been bullied for many years and even today... I'm just like you a normal guy nothing less.

You have to understand your stronger, better, and smarter then them. They're just losers trying to pick a fight with someone.

Next time someone even lays a single hand on you looking to pick a fight, feel the pain then let it loose punch the person and redo what he did to you.

[Nacorpio]

I've been bullied for many years and even today... I'm just like you a normal guy nothing less.

You have to understand your stronger, better, and smarter then them. They're just losers trying to pick a fight with someone.

Next time someone even lays a single hand on you looking to pick a fight, feel the pain then let it loose punch the person and redo what he did to you.

Thank you for the tips, I will definately try punching back.

[Eternity]

I am bullied everyday at school but not that kind of bullying that you are experiencing right now.

6-8 months ago i was diagnosed with Alexithymia which is a dysfunction which is thought to lead to unempathic and ineffective emotional response socially.
There is 2 types of Alexithymia the first one, is unemphatic and ineffective, that makes you disable to understand emotions for yourself and for others.
The second which is more rare makes you disable to understand your own emotions and basically increase your emotional intelligence so you will be able to understand other people's emotion better than the average human i have the second type(Or type 2).

When i first found out that i had this dysfunction i became more self aware of myself and starting to really think "What do i want to become?" and this lead to heavily depression for a while i didn't want to talk to people anymore since i didn't understand the point of having a conversation.
I was on my computer all day programming, watching movies and series, just to stretch out the time.

Of course no one noticed because of my social emotions didn't change one bit, which was in my head perfect.
I don't like people talking emotional to me because i frankly don't understand how to react to them.

A few weeks later the depression started to fade and i became more and more socially because i started to think "What should i do now?" and not "What do i want to become?" i started to see the world as it is now and not what it is in the future.

What i am trying to say here is to take actions and not just think of how depressed you are but start thinking about what you can do for others.

When you help other people you also help yourself by thinking "Ohh i helped that person now someone is grateful of me."

Now for the bully don't fight back that will only give him a reaction, try to instead talk seriously to him and ask "Why are you doing this to me?" in a calm way.
Remember that this isn't always the case since all people react differently to things.

So try figure out a way to get his attention and say in a different way.

I wish you the best and if you ever want to talk please feel free to add me on Skype: dittocum & Richard brasetvik

[Soul]

Yes, but if the guys are bigger than you?
I know I have to stand up for myself, but I have no self confidence anymore.
If I would try to beat someone in the face, they would do the same and even worse to me.

I used to be bullied from 6th - 8th grade. It was just me and a bunch of other kids, kinda being left out of majority, since we were all in the Academic Honors classes, and they were probably just highly jealous of us. As you can probably guess, we were also all super skinny and small. We didn't work out or play sports because we were studying all the time.

I guess it was fate that made me angry about it, so I stood alone when they bullied us. I stood up against them, even though I was half their size individually, and one against many as a group. But standing up is half the fight, and the other half is putting the skill behind you.

When I was in 6th grade, I could only do 13 pushups. That's right, a mere 13 pushups, and not even 1 pullup. They made fun of me. So I didn't cry about it or feel bad, I just told myself I'd come up stronger next year.. And in 7th grade I did 95 pushups and 14 pullups.
Working out didn't make me BIGGER or STRONGER (in terms of fighting), but it gave them something to talk about, something to ponder ("Is it a good idea to pick on a kid with that kind of DETERMINATION?")

Then in 8th grade, I took up Haganah, a Jewish form of self-defense derived from Krav Maga, but focused more on aggressive defense.
I highly suggest you start learning it. By the time I was 6 months into the course, I could fully take down a 300 lb man although I was just over 100 lbs.

The last thing I did was become confident. You don't want to show the bullies that you think it's a bad thing that they're bullying you. You want to walk with confidence, talk with confidence, do whatever the fuck you do with confidence, and just let this part of your life glaze over. Even if they're still talking trash about you and people are making fun of you, keep your chin up and work hard. Don't let their opinions and idiocies make you feel small or weak. You're not. You're a regular human just like them.

TL;DR:
Be determined to fight hard for what you want. If it's a strength contest, go outside and run everyday, do pushups every day.
Learn a form of martial arts. It REALLY does help you feel confident about yourself, and it can help you in real life situations as well. I highly suggest Haganah.
Finally, be yourself, but be confident. Boost your ego high up. Make yourself feel good by doing things you're good at. Learn some new things, take up a few sports, or even just study hard to gloat your 100 in front of the bullies with F's. They'll subconsciously know that you're going to be their boss one day.



Edit: And to this day, I'm happy where I am. Even though I'm 120 lbs, I can pump out 150 pushups in around 20 minutes, do over 150 pullups a day in less than 30 minutes, and 240 situps a day is my regular routine. I also run a mile in 5 minutes and play almost every sport as hobbies. All this from a kid who got bullied for being small and weak in 6th grade.