[Shebang]

Everyone in your life is an extra, you can't be too nice, because there are very very very few people who will return the same level of kindness, you need to focus on your own happiness, if you make everyone else happy you'll never have any time for yourself, plus, if you don't go for it, you may never get a chance with her, and then you're left with doubt; "what if I had asked her to prom, how would life have been.." at least if you ask her you can never regret not asking her and letting the opportunity slide.

If you want something there will always be others who want it too, what makes them any more entitled to get it than yourself? Would they show you the same kindness? Probably not.

Personally my morals follow this rule.

1. Would they do the same for me?
2. Are they a good person in general?

If the answer is yes to both then I would let them have what it is they want, if not I would take it for myself.

In a world of dog eat dog, you gotta be the one who eats.

Thanks for the posts, but this is a little.. outdated.

To sum up what happened, I essentially ended up at home being terribly sick, and missed my opportunity, which sucked. However, we were talking a few days ago and I found out that she does have feelings for me. Not sure how to move further at this point (since, you know, she has a prom date), but I'll try and figure it out.

[Oni]

Thanks for the posts, but this is a little.. outdated.

To sum up what happened, I essentially ended up at home being terribly sick, and missed my opportunity, which sucked. However, we were talking a few days ago and I found out that she does have feelings for me. Not sure how to move further at this point (since, you know, she has a prom date), but I'll try and figure it out.

She can cancel or not show up if she really likes you. Or, you can wait. You better make your move, though.

[Contingency]

Thanks for the posts, but this is a little.. outdated.

To sum up what happened, I essentially ended up at home being terribly sick, and missed my opportunity, which sucked. However, we were talking a few days ago and I found out that she does have feelings for me. Not sure how to move further at this point (since, you know, she has a prom date), but I'll try and figure it out.

I ditched my date for a girl who I had more feelings for, all is fair in love and war.

[Oni]

I ditched my date for a girl who I had more feelings for, all is fair in love and war.

It's only fair if you do, I think. It's rather unpleasant for the other party, but better than leading them on.

[Contingency]

It's only fair if you do, I think. It's rather unpleasant for the other party, but better than leading them on.

Agreed, plus I wasn't an asshole about it, she was cool with it.

[Shebang]

She can cancel or not show up if she really likes you. Or, you can wait. You better make your move, though.

Its still something we have yet to fully discuss, since every time we've hung out this weekend there hasn't exactly been a good time or place. With the coming school week I imagine we'll talk about it.

[Civil]

Its still something we have yet to fully discuss, since every time we've hung out this weekend there hasn't exactly been a good time or place. With the coming school week I imagine we'll talk about it.

If she's admitted she likes YOU what the hell are you holding back for matey?

[Shebang]

If she's admitted she likes YOU what the hell are you holding back for matey?

To be honest I was having trouble figuring out if I should try and do anything (in retrospect, not sure why).

[Civil]

To be honest I was having trouble figuring out if I should try and do anything (in retrospect, not sure why).

dude she admitted to having feelings for you, act in the impulse! focus on RIGHT NOW! She has feelings for YOU, that means YOU is what will make her happy right now! You said before you didn't want to make yourself happy by sacrificing someone elses happiness, but you aren't, because that guy doesn't have a chance with her RIGHT NOW because of her feelings for you, so don't let the moment pass! #MotivationalSinisterPosts2014

[Shebang]

So, because you guys totally need some closure on this story (since my life is so interesting), we have a date tomorrow

Thanks for the help!