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I used to make 70k as a bartender but was so miserable

I fully understand where you're coming from.

Work-wise financially, I was In a similar position and Irrespective of the excellent pay, I was literally forcing myself to attend work and felt terrible each and every weekday. Happiness Isn't about how much you have, but rather how much you enjoy It.

I'm going to get an easy job working from home for 10 bucks an hour and chill

The best decision you've made.