[BlueCat]

So, My girlfriend has just came out to me that she thinks she's pregnant she said that she did not cheat on me and that it was before we got together....

it hurts like to hear that, But I love her and I'm going to stand by her side the whole way

your thoughts on this

[Spirit]

Dude, you're like 16. Don't do it. That is NOT your child, you're going to fuck yourself over badly.

[L0aD1nG]

Dude, you're like 16. Don't do it. That is NOT your child, you're going to fuck yourself over badly.

EXACTLY!

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Sooner or later you are going to regret this buddy. Thats my opinion, and I totally agree with the @Spirit 's one.

[h3r0]

I have a friend, he wanted to travel the world.. live his life. Got his GF preggers and now he lives in a trailer in the small town he grew up in. If you are going to be there for her good for you, but I don't think it's a wise idea. Better off pushing her down the stairs.

[gh05t3d]

i have to agree with the other opinions,is admirable you want to be there for her but the responsibility and outcome is going to be huge. you will have to put on hold your life/lifestyle/studies/ and everything. And.....before you know it (BAM) you got her pregnant too. Be there as support but be careful mate

[L0aD1nG]

i have to agree with the other opinions,is admirable you want to be there for her but the responsibility and outcome is going to be huge. you will have to put on hold your life/lifestyle/studies/ and everything. And.....before you know it (BAM) you got her pregnant too. Be there as support but be careful mate

Yea probably the most correct, post so far.

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What about giving her that pill (if she agree) to stop pregnacy?
.Just a thought.

[The Real Slim Shady]

I gather that if she got pregnant before you were together - It would be safe to say that it probably wasn't the night before? which means there was some time between that event and when she realized she was pregnant you couldnt have been together more than say... 2 months? And since she's sure its not yours she either knew before you hooked up - or you two havent actually hooked up.

I'd get out before it's an issue. You do not want to be a teenage dad to a kid thats not yours. It'll ruin your life as others have pointed out.

Not that what you are suggesting isnt noble - But taking care of 2 other peoples mistake should not fall on you simply because you started dating someone.

[geyu29]

You should not be talking to us, dont you have a family to talk to?
If you don't, then ask friends instead.

Her getting pregnant is the least of your problem, if you dont even have a job a home, life will be tough.
Dont expect to get handouts.

And get a dna test for god sakes (as jack benny would say), the way you have formed your sentence seems to me that you either have not been together long, or that she did a one time side job.

[Razer896]

What you did is extremely unusual and worthy of respect. I can't believe they can do that today. True love. My girlfriend got pregnant too, but there were no surprises with it. But gosh, she's having a hard time. She even sleeps with difficulties at night. I decided to buy her a maternity pillow. I hope this makes her time easier.

This thread is like 5 years old.

[mothered]

What you did is extremely unusual and worthy of respect. I can't believe they can do that today. True love. My girlfriend got pregnant too, but there were no surprises with it. But gosh, she's having a hard time. She even sleeps with difficulties at night. I decided to buy her a maternity pillow. I hope this makes her time easier.

This thread Is dated late 2014. Less nine months of pregnancy, the child will be well and truly over 3 years old.

Please read what this board considers grave digging.