(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: But when it's presented in the way you present feedback, I wonder if it's actually worthwhile reading any of it.
You had no complaints when I complimented your work earlier. So that is invalid. As both that and this is worded the same way. Oh right, I forgot. One of them complimented you and one of them pointed out the things you failed at. Right...
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: You're the only one on a high horse here. Come on, you didn't think I'd look back at your designs.
Do that and bury your own side of this cause, and admit that you are being childish. We are discussing your work here, not the works of everyone else and most certainly not mine. A fact is a fact, my work could be the worst on this earth but it wouldn't change that fact. You can hate me as much as you want, disagree with me as much you want or make as many excuses as you want to cover your ego. It won't change a thing. Whenever or not it was on accident, the UB that started this thread has a poor attempt at depth, one that equals a beginner level artist. It is even worse that you said that you don't want depth in it, while it has depth, just a very poor version of it.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: You argue almost every piece of feedback given to you, you even argued that criticism and opinion were different and that opinion was worthless.
You seem to have a one-sided view on the case, not surprising as you are trying to cover your ego here. Of course, feedback is worthless when it is directly invalid. If someone say something along these lines; "I like it, but maybe the brown'ish color could be a dark green instead?" Then I look it up and the so called "brown'ish color" is green, then said feedback is worthless because it is invalid. Then I normally tell them that it already is green and as them to elaborate on their feedback a bit more, so they can explain why they said that better. (Maybe they come to the conclusion that they wanted it to a different shade of green for example.) That is how feedback is done in a professional setting, as well as a educational setting. It is worth talking about all feedback, to get the best possible feedback.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: You basically argued that you didn't give a shit about what people had to think because it was useless.
You are so far from the point that I doubt you can get any further. For starters, ever since I was young, I never really cared for the opinions of others about my person. However, I have always had a keen interest in how others view the world around them and I have a keen interest in understanding that. So when someone give me their opinion, I ask about it and force them to explain why they have said opinion. If they cannot do that (and most can) then their opinion isn't thought about and they don't really think too deeply about it. Such interest don't interest me. (That or if someone give me feedback that is directly "bad" on a general basis. A example would be if someone said I should use pure and strong colors on every element on a web design.) So no, I do not find the opinions of others useless and I do take them into consideration. Then again, this isn't the point of this thread, as we are going off-topic.
I'd gladly explain this further to you, so that you can understand it. Though I severely doubt that someone of the "newer generation" of artists would understand it. Considering the fact that their memo could just as well be; "my ego before all opinions of others".
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: Because from down here, I respect people's opinions and I do actually make changed based on them.
So far you have only "respected" the opinions that go your way. That or from a friend. Hence, you do not care for the opinions of strangers, a trait which is awful for a artist that seeks new horizons.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: Its just that the way you present you're criticism makes you seem like someone who is narcissistic, takes any opportunity to rip on other people as much as you can, and a hypocrite.
Whatever you call honesty to feel better. The fact remains, I am being honest, which is the best and quickest way to improve for those that can handle it. For those that can't, well they normally go and argue about facts to cover their ego. As I explained over, I have never said that someone's opinion is wrong. I have said that their view on a fact is wrong however, because the fact prove them wrong. (Nothing wrong in that though.) An opinion cannot be wrong or right, that is a given fact and I have stated that already. However, the fact here is that your denying a proven fact because you are trying to save skin. I say that because you are trying to put the focus of this debate (which is about YOUR design) over on me to save your own ego.
We are discussing YOUR work here, not me as a human being. Then again, as I said, you are tying to save skin. So when you are done acting like a 4 year old, let's go back to the topic on hand which is your work and that awful attempt on depth. (Until then I will enjoy as you bury your own point for me, saving me some work.)
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: You hate the fact that regardless of what the world looks like to you in your ivory tower, people still give you criticism that you don't like, and if you don't like it then you will argue til the other party just can't be bothered anymore.
So you are a mind reader now? Can you tell me what I plan to have for dinner tomorrow too? (Seriously, I am curios because you just claimed to know exactly what I am thinking about regarding this topic.) No, I do not hate that. In-fact I do not directly hate anyone or anything, I don't like to waste time on it. (Okay, I might hate fish. Shush.) As explained above, I "argue" the opinions of others because I want them to give their reasons behind it. (Actually, this is the reason I argue right now). I do that because I am more interested in the person behind the opinion, rather than the opinion. Art and design is a form of speech that govern emotions and thoughts.
Hence, knowing people better is a good way to know how to "hit them the right way" with a artwork or a design. I haven't outright stated that the opinion of someone else is wrong, now have I? I have stated that if facts prove them wrong, then their opinion doesn't matter in the real world. (If your opinion is that the sky is rainbow colored, then in all honesty, that doesn't matter in the real world.) You are also mistaken on another thing. I do like criticism, because I do love change more than most things. I love improvement and seeing it in others and myself, I have done that since I was about 9 years old. (Which is also when I stopped "throwing tantrums" as you stated.)
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: I just dong see why i should listen or respect you or anything you say with your attitude, if anyone should be brought down from their high horse it should be you.
You shouldn't respect it, nor should like it. It is the truth, and the truth isn't always liked by everyone. It doesn't demand respect, it just is. Also, before you make another smart remark that I "on my high horse". I'd like to notify you that I am regarded by friends, family and some doctors to be near incapable of thinking about myself first in the majority of cases. I fear death, because I do not want to hurt others. I fear failure because I do not want to be a burden to others. I fear a lot of things, none because of myself. I do not care for my own life, nor my own opinions, I care for the lives and opinions of those around me which is why (as I stated above) I am so interest in the people behind opinions.
Though I'll say this, I do not care if you hate me or want me gone from everywhere. I'll still offer my view, and help if that is needed, to you or anyone that ask.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: I tried to tolerate you, I really tried but I can't stand the way you talk to people.
If you cannot tolerate the truth when it is laid out infront of you, then you might have a problem. Newsflash, the world is a horrible place.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: And nor can a lot of people here.
So you are talking on the behalf of everyone here then? (Or at least "a lot".) That or (more likely this) are you just taking that upon yourself because you think you are so capable of reading people that you can tell exactly what they are thinking. I have stated earlier and I have stated since I started interacting with others online. I do not care if you hate me, despise me, want me dead or anything else really. If you tell me to die, I will thank you, if tell me you love me, I will thank you. Because at least you are being honest with me, which is all I ask for. Though do not take that chance from others by talking on their behalf without their consent. Only idiots or children does that.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: Don't get what you want.
My life has been like that, nothing went as I planned nor did I go all that well. That is the truth to it, it is horrible, but it is the truth. (Because at least one of us can tolerate it, right?) That led me to not expect things to go my way. In-fact, no matter what I do I plan that the worst possible scenario will happen. (If I am wrong, I get a surprise, if I am right I don't get my hopes up.) So no, I am not upset that I don't get it my way. That is yet again, wrong I am afraid.
(08-31-2016, 12:26 AM)Erudite Wrote: I'm sure you are a wonderful designer when it comes to other areas, I have no doubts you can design a splendid logo or banner, and I'm sure your criticism can be found useful to people that can tolerate you. I'm sure there is value in some of what you say, but the way you present your opinions makes people view you as what I described above. Just thought you should know.
Now you are just taking it from the book. Ending with a positive note, right? The basic form of "I am actually a fair and good guy" despite the fact that you have just spent several posts slinging negative and spiteful comments towards me for no other reason than the fact that I was being honest with my own opinion and a fact. You decided to be spiteful, and go as far as to ruin it for others just to cover your own ego. For once, can you just be honest about the case? Instead of trying to make others think better of you? Honesty is so much better. You are of the newer generation artist, that is painfully obvious, that or you have been affected by them. If you take 7-9 years back in time and look at GFX sites then, my feedback would be considered "too kind". However, while it is harsh because it is the truth, it is also the most effective.
It is effective because it is the truth, if you cannot "tolerate" that then you have no hope to grow as an artist.