[Boudica]

I can understand your feelings. A lot of people go through that (not to diminish what it's like for you), but focus on where you want to go and what you want to do in life, and then you'll find yourself looking back at this in 10 years, and wondering why it bothered you so much.

[Defeat]

Don't stress over it man. She just wasn't the one.

I've long gotten over the whole ordeal. I barely see here nowadays so it's been pretty good lately

[Jubaied]

So... this is pretty serious.  My ex is now engaged.  I'm not really upset, in fact, I wish nothing but the best for her.  Somehow I still do feel like shit because this is the guy she was talking to while we were together... If you were here when I first joined, you remember me complaining about this same girl.  Breaking up with her was the best thing that happened to me so it doesn't negatively affect me, but fuck, idk how it hit me like this :/  Like I knew it wouldn't go far with us, but to think I'm the guy that was minimizing it and she had another desperate fuck trying to ruin our relationship and now they're getting super serious.  IDK WTF this thread is about.  Just venting.  I'll probs feel better soon.

Let them get married and hope that karma hits them, if she fucked with you give it a couple years or even more. One day something will happen and whatever that something is, you will be very pleased about it.

[Defeat]

So... this is pretty serious.  My ex is now engaged.  I'm not really upset, in fact, I wish nothing but the best for her.  Somehow I still do feel like shit because this is the guy she was talking to while we were together... If you were here when I first joined, you remember me complaining about this same girl.  Breaking up with her was the best thing that happened to me so it doesn't negatively affect me, but fuck, idk how it hit me like this :/  Like I knew it wouldn't go far with us, but to think I'm the guy that was minimizing it and she had another desperate fuck trying to ruin our relationship and now they're getting super serious.  IDK WTF this thread is about.  Just venting.  I'll probs feel better soon.

Let them get married and hope that karma hits them, if she fucked with you give it a couple years or even more. One day something will happen and whatever that something is, you will be very pleased about it.

I honestly don't want that for her. My issues with her are in the past, best of luck to them .

[singlehandlogic]

For me, Ive been through similar yet very different circumstances but nonetheless the same outcome. learning self love first, and letting go of the idea of "the one" and that all my life would change only for the better was the best thing I did. It was an expectation that was making me terribly miserable. I have some real issues in some relationship areas, and can attest that some people are better off letting go and never having got close in the first place. It sux being a loner, and a nomad... with no home or woman to make one with... but tbh, its healthier for me to be happy and alone rather than miserable and with someone. Especially if that someone isn't good for you.... Keep your chin up man. Just focus on your good looks and charms and keep at your school and stay away from drugs and all that crap that is eating up the big chunky Charlie... I consider myself lucky. I look forward to being alone and single now. But the depression is there, wanting a connection and to be with someone to share laughs, etc... it gets to ya, so be sure to just remind yourself of your goal and that you can achieve it and you don't need anyone, to be complete, happy in life, or as I like to say, at peace with the way things are... and be grateful for the love you have received from others. My heart goes out to you. Hoping you feel better soon.

[Defeat]

For me, Ive been through similar yet very different circumstances but nonetheless the same outcome. learning self love first, and letting go of the idea of "the one" and that all my life would change only for the better was the best thing I did. It was an expectation that was making me terribly miserable. I have some real issues in some relationship areas, and can attest that some people are better off letting go and never having got close in the first place. It sux being a loner, and a nomad... with no home or woman to make one with... but tbh, its healthier for me to be happy and alone rather than miserable and with someone. Especially if that someone isn't good for you.... Keep your chin up man. Just focus on your good looks and charms and keep at your school and stay away from drugs and all that crap that is eating up the big chunky Charlie... I consider myself lucky. I look forward to being alone and single now. But the depression is there, wanting a connection and to be with someone to share laughs, etc... it gets to ya, so be sure to just remind yourself of your goal and that you can achieve it and you don't need anyone, to be complete, happy in life, or as I like to say, at peace with  the way things are... and be grateful for the love you have received from others. My heart goes out to you. Hoping you feel better soon.

I really appreciate these words man. Seriously, thank you.

[Dupersayinz]

Man when I lost the love of my life (she cheated) I lost it. But I focused on bettering myself, I now have a baby with a waaaaay cooler chick! Cant wait the day till shes me and her holding hands pushing a stroller.

[mothered]

Man when I lost the love of my life (she cheated) I lost it. But I focused on bettering myself, I now have a baby with a waaaaay cooler chick!

This clearly demonstrates that everything happens for a reason.

It may be very difficult at the time of terminating the relationship, but I'm a firm believer that It's all for the better In the long run.

[Vultra]

although it's been a couple of months, How have you been? I remember when my ex broke up and for me, it was the best thing to do since, I was immature as fuck. I hope you end up being happy and feeling good again .

[Defeat]

I've been great! She recently moved along with her family. I think we were on decent terms. My anger went away long before she left so I'm really happy with how things went.