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Can you have sex with no strings attached? #1
I am a super sensitive person. So, I have NEVER been able to have sex with no strings attached. Yet, a lot of my gal pals can without any problem.

A few of them have one special guy who they want to build a life with and a d**k on the side. It doesn't seem to bother them at all.

As for me, I prefer being in a committed relationship where we both are faithful to each other.

Can you have sex with no strings attached?

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #2
Nope. I only have sex with someone when I am in a committed relationship with them. I think it would make me sick to my stomach and depressed if I slept with people I wasn't in a relationship with. I see sex as something that is supposed to be done with people who are very special to you.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #3
Sex is something that shows relationship and interest, you'd have to be near/have no emotions whatsoever to do that.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #4
I don't believe in sex without feelings. I think it's disgusting to do it with a stranger. I don't understand how some people are okay with it, it's like I'm betraying my own body by doing it with people I've no feelings for.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #5
I can have sex with no strings attached but i only have sex with girls i want to go out with but their feelings won't be the same for me.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #6
At any given time, yes I can.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #7
I think some people can, but I think it gets messy more often than not. Inevitably, someone will get attached or someone will get jealous without wanting to commit or something.

I've never been in that type of situation because I get attached. I prefer being with one person and being committed.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #8
It depends on who it's with. I've tried having sex with an ex and doing the whole no strings attached thing and it didn't work. I was worried he was going to get attached but it ended up being me. Stupids feels getting in the way and junk. So that ended harshly for me.
However, my best friend in the whole world and I had a nice fling that ended splendidly and neither of us got too attached. She even asked me at one point if I thought we should be worried. But nothing got in the way and it was the best 'beneficial' relationship I've ever had.
There's also this thing I have with my personality where I can detach my feelings for someone pretty easily now. At least it appears that way for a while. Sometimes the feels kick in years later and I find myself crying my bedroom wondering where five years of my life went.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #9
Yes, I spent most of my teenage life having no strings attached sex with my female classmates.

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RE: Can you have sex with no strings attached? #10
yes defiantly. I have felt sexual toward a girl and then the next day it was completely gone.

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