[Defeat]

I'm completely done with her, thanks guys.

[zorrophreak]

I don't think I am, but I can see it not being a red flag as well.

So I've been dating my girl for months now, we've known each other for years. I posted a throwback of us a few months ago and she literally instantly texts "your caption can be taken as anything, like we're not dating". It was a pretty casual caption and we weren't serious at the time tbh... A few weeks ago, I posted a clearly romantic pic of us and she tells me she loves it. This is the 3rd time I've had no problem showing her off on my social media. She simply won't do the same and her reason when I asked out of curiousity was "you have all the good pics of us". That's what triggered lol because whenever I take a pic she likes, she tells me to send it to her so she has a copy. I don't get it tbh...like her close family and friends know me, we've met and everything. A part of me thinks it's to let guys slide into her DMs on instagram and another part just says it's no biggie. Idk why, but this shit's been bugging me.

I've temporarily broken up with her over something else, but I'm not sure I'll go back tbh.

Monitoring and spying is only bad if you get caught. I think you're just a little worried for nothing, but if you're concerned and you do decide to return to her...do some monitoring if you can. If you can't, trust is an option!

[mothered]

There's a lot more to a relationship than pics.

Does she reciprocate In any other way? Does she demonstrate Interest, emotion and/or affection at any point to Indicate a bond between you both?

[Bloody Eye]

She simply won't do the same and her reason when I asked out of curiousity was "you have all the good pics of us". That's what triggered lol because whenever I take a pic she likes, she tells me to send it to her so she has a copy. I don't get it tbh...like her close family and friends know me, we've met and everything. A part of me thinks it's to let guys slide into her DMs on instagram and another part just says it's no biggie.

I'd be careful, personally.

[DarkMuse]

Drop her lol. I was in a relationship like that once. Honestly, it sounds like you're into her more than she is into you. She might be using you as a buffer until she can find someone else.

I know that may seem harsh but if she's acting like you say she is, it's not worth it. I would keep an eye on her, catch any lies, etc. Don't get fucked over, there's plenty of females out there and one rotten apple will only make you neurotic and insecure.

[Defeat]

Drop her lol. I was in a relationship like that once. Honestly, it sounds like you're into her more than she is into you. She might be using you as a buffer until she can find someone else.

I know that may seem harsh but if she's acting like you say she is, it's not worth it. I would keep an eye on her, catch any lies, etc. Don't get fucked over, there's plenty of females out there and one rotten apple will only make you neurotic and insecure.

Yeah that's probably for the best. I did some snooping and found out she was following a friend of mine from high school and ofc I was like oh hey how do you guys know each other and she blatantly lied to me about it. Since the break I've realized all the personality flaws and how I was only physically attracted to her. Welp, onto the next.

[DarkMuse]

Drop her lol. I was in a relationship like that once. Honestly, it sounds like you're into her more than she is into you. She might be using you as a buffer until she can find someone else.

I know that may seem harsh but if she's acting like you say she is, it's not worth it. I would keep an eye on her, catch any lies, etc. Don't get fucked over, there's plenty of females out there and one rotten apple will only make you neurotic and insecure.

Yeah that's probably for the best. I did some snooping and found out she was following a friend of mine from high school and ofc I was like oh hey how do you guys know each other and she blatantly lied to me about it.  Since the break I've realized all the personality flaws and how I was only physically attracted to her.  Welp, onto the next.

That's the spirit!

[Defeat]

There's a lot more to a relationship than pics.

Does she reciprocate In any other way? Does she demonstrate Interest, emotion and/or affection at any point to Indicate a bond between you both?

I agree completely. It's really not the pictures that pissed me off, it's just the hypocrisy that came with it. I was instantly critiqued for not making it super obvious we were a couple the first picture I put up and it's silly. The first month was great, but it only went downhill slowly afterwards

[Bloody Eye]

Honestly, it sounds like you're into her more than she is into you. She might be using you as a buffer until she can find someone else.

This most likely.

[mothered]

I agree completely.  It's really not the pictures that pissed me off, it's just the hypocrisy that came with it.  I was instantly critiqued for not making it super obvious we were a couple the first picture I put up and it's silly.  The first month was great, but it only went downhill slowly afterwards

Something has happened along the way- from the first point of your relationship, to where It stands today, hence she's disinterested.

A relationship Is a joint commitment, that Is, a bond between the two. It shouldn't require "effort" on your part to try and attract Interest from your partner. She's either attached/attracted, or she's not. If It's the latter, then be It as It may and get on with your life by seeking a partner who can reciprocate equally.