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My Life is Being Destroyed by a Horrible Divorce any help or advice is needed badly! filter_list
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RE: My Life is Being Destroyed by a Horrible Divorce any help or advice is needed badly! #21
Nothing I say will make it better but, learn to meditate. Honestly. Search for Samadhi - yogic practrice. This is the only source you will find peace in your life: Inside yourself. Your children, wife, are not your own. Sorry to say it like that but its the dead truth. Nobody owns anybody, not even our children. The sad honest truth is, you are not alone. I've been there. There are others too. I was there as a child and I was there as an adult. Its taken me years, to get over the losses and the sacrifices I made just make my stomach wrech into the worst pain I have ever felt. At least the kids are yours. And as long as you can connect as an adult with them, everything will be fine. You do not need the wife, you deserve better. She has some issues internally and like most people, seek to find resolve externally. Meaning thru substance, material, possessions. Living a life in need is a life of suffering.

What my experience taught me is, you cannot trust anyone. I have no friends, no family, not worth having at least. The toxicity and stench is undeniable, so I HAD to leave... for my own health. I had to learn that the whole time I was putting her and the kids first, was not the way. That is simply an unsustainable relationship dynamic. Most of our culture, is trained to be employees, and sheep... we do as others do. It is time YOU, wake up. FOR YOU. Im sorry, there is just no easy way to walk this path, no easy way to identify it for another, no easy way to say it to his or her face. This is mostly why I have very little contact with people now. I feel for you. I really do, my heart has been broken for goin on twenty years now and I still struggle to let go, because of how much I love... how much I loved our family, our children (so I thought), how happy I was to make the sacrifices to put them first, because THEY, were my point of joy. My source of life. The worst thing is, when society and others, moch you and tell ya your a dead beat piece of shit daddy... who can't please his wife... Nothing hurts more than the accusations that are NOT true.

Best thing for you is to get a few books, move to a location where you are alone, and stay single for at LEAST 5 years before dating again!!! I cannot stress that enough!
Some good read are:

meditation and the ART of dying
the power of now
becoming supernaturual
and start your own research AND practice into
wikipedia Samadhi

Start to learn about the law of attraction and your abilty to influence Quanta, attract what you desire. I encourage and CHALLENGE you to humbly do your homework into changing the way you think, control your thinking, control your feeling, and seek your god given destiny.

I have had it all, forever, Ive had enough. I emplore you to have your identity revealed to you, thru self discovery. So you can start to achieve your destiny. Your TRUE purpose here on planet Earth.

'Learn to let go of what you cannot'

Best thing I have for you man is to learn to meditate and you will INSTANTLY remove that feeling in your dantian, your gut. that feeling that makes you sick and want to puke or jump off a bridge. I don't know how to teach you, but I can tell you it has to do with your mind and mind body connection, simply being at peace and rest, and focusing on your breathing... deep, slow, in and out. when your mind enters pre rem, and you are mind awake body asleep, you will have powerful experiences, information channeling to you. You will learn to attract it, as it is all around you. When you can attract it, you will heal from all this. Best way I can describe. Your mind is liek a radio transeiver... hone in your freq... learn about charaks, the dantian, and root chakra and Aim to have a GROUNDING experience. Nothing else has helped me reaslize my source, or nature. Nothing else helped me instantly feel better. Nothing else helped me to realize the truth. That the past, nor future exist, and all you have is now. So learn to be in that moment. Im sorry brother. for your loss and suffering. I really truly am. I can relate all too well.

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RE: My Life is Being Destroyed by a Horrible Divorce any help or advice is needed badly! - by AtomCell - 10-11-2020, 10:38 PM



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