[LawDogUSA]

To my respected brothers and sisters,

This is going to be my best attempt with the people and place I trust. Please don't look at me like a sissy or wuss. This is wearing a hole in my heart and breaking down my soul. I fought in other countries, I found on some of the meanest streets of the US. But there's something different when it comes to someone you loved for over 20 years and had 3 beautiful children with. To find out that everything you have and put it in is starting to be eating away like a cancer, and I kept trying to hold on and salvage to no avail. Married 20years, together for more, 3 beautiful children, I provided for them by 2 jobs and a business. Never afraid to tell them all daily I loved them. I kid you not I still have clothes from high school, to make the sacrifice, that they could always have before me in every aspect. Built us all a solid future, that would provide us with enough money to take care of our children and one day grand children and enough to leave them a decent amount to sustain them in life.

It began to crash and burn, I fought, counseling (which I was the only one to go, she talked herself and our kids out). I took care of myself physically and mentally because the writing was on the wall. I began trying to save our money and finding out what I could. In 2017 we had moved back to Illinois from Florida and she landed a fantastic sales job, I had put plenty of years in to semi retired and be the stay at home Dad. When we moved back I took my relestate investments, paid off all debit, except 2 cars and a mortgage, in which I put 50k down, so no need for mortgage insurance. Things were looking ok, but still not great. Without more boring details, by 2019 we had accumulated massive debit, and valuables were removed to a secret storage facility. She load one CC with 25k, another with 9k, took off her wedding ring to go on business trips, began disappearing and showing up home at 3am drunk as can be, later found out secret trips, dinners. I couldn't afford to even buy my kids lunch's for school and had to use the food pantrys. Mind you are regular income was around 100k. Then I thought divorce was coming, but nope, a civil stay away order was issued barring me for my house and children. WTF! It doesn't end.

They didn't want the dog so tied him to a street pole, I had minor clothes, she took my wallet and cellphone, the day this happened, took my papers even thought we still shared a checking account, I still kept my money being deirect deposited.

She underpaid on my car payments, cost huge fines, she stole all my paperwork and passwords and took and hide my pension money, those loaded credit cards, she took her name off and underpaid on those resulting in serious fines, cut off my vehicle insurance, which I got funded for. Forwarded my mail numerous times. Her sales job requires her to travel and book hotels, has etc. She gets reimbursement for, put all on my cards and kept the money for herself, hid every other accounts we had. And yes had been taking stuff and putting it in these secret storage fees. Get proof that there has been a manager she has been sniffing around with at her work which is sexual harassment, for me. My credit is destroyed, I can't pay my pills. I'm a disabled veteran/cop and only get so much each month. She has an attorney, I did, but can't afford one anymore. There is so much more. I say this all cause a lot of people think the men are the dead beats. She has refused I see my youngest son on his last 2 birthdays. It's bad and continues getting worse. She lies to the courts....she took my kids, moved out and enrolled them I'll n other schools, never told anyone. Theymoved out in June and we didn't know until November. I filed for the divorce, screz that. Now she is furious! Never let me see any of them over Christmas break and now we have Coronavirus. I did get the civil order dropped of course and was awarded the house due to the lies. A lot of my stuff is gone, accounts are gone, family posession are gone. Oh she opened more cards in my name and filled them up. They are milking this so, I get more and more screwed.

I spent decades helping people and now I need help. Time is running out. I spoke with some trust worthy peeps her and we all agreed I should post.

What could I use? Access to her Gmail accounts. She has a work laptop, But I believe her personal email is done through her phone. She has an Android Google phone, any bank accounts or tracking where she put accounts, access to her cellphone would be primo. She does all online banking. These Credit Cards, what can be done, anything guys? Any help, I'm so desperate, no where to turn. I can try PIs to figure out this civil suits and supposedly they can do computer stuff to, but it's a fortune. Plus revenge. There's many things to be done I'm sure.

Brothers and Sisters, I need your help. I will pay what I can and do what work I can do. I'm a fair man also. Any help, advice, or words of wisdom. I need support to. Man, there's days I feel so defeated. It bad, very bad. No one, I mean no one deserves this. I have never know women to use their kids as pawns. I bought my kids Christmas presents. She stays with her sister in law. We met at the library and my 7 year old son opened his gifts, and the would not let them being them home with him. Do you know what it's like to have your son crying because they won't let him bring them home to play with. I was crushed he was crushed, and the ex or sis in law had no care as long as it hurt me. What is a good man to do. I ask that you help, support, advise, anything to help a fellow brother out. Please. I truly love and respect you all. My our minds and talents lead us to victory. Thank you

Respectfully Submitted,

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