[Yuji]

We all knew each other in the ethnic community.

Oh...peer pressure. Just say you work or have a appointment around that day on that day if you really don't want to go. Don't go off on a sour note, she probably invited you to enjoy the event. (I don't know her personally, but most people aren't spiteful are they?)

Exactly.  I told them I'm down to go.  While we're in the area, we can do some exploring too in the next province  

Sounds like fun. Guessing Canada? Stay away from Quebec, those jerks