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I hope this will point you to the right direction.

My advice is you should forget about Java. I've built a website before and trust me, never needed Java there.

If you wanna get a job as a web developer, you should focus only on these.

Web Building
HTML, CSS (a must)
Client Scripting - JavaScript and the DOM
Server Scripting - ASP, PHP
XML and SQL


I don't understand why you've a hard time deciding between PHP and Java, unless you don't wanna be a web developer?

Because web dev is one of the most cases Java is used for jobwise (server side!). I really would like to see any other Java job advertisments than those for Java EE, but it is hard to find any (at least in my country).
Read my previous post. I don't want to write everything again.

(Besides: I've build a website before and trust me, never needed any PHP there - what now?)