[Defeat]

Moose -- That is very confusing.  Let me just say something, I don't think she GAVE you and your Family Covid, you said it wasn't on purpose, and there is a divide with Covid, people care about it and others don't,  But Moose you said some important things, you came back from vacation you started to speak with her again, but ghosted her, and then you say that she was a cool chick.

Moose are you sure you don't still like her and value her as a friend at least.  I hope I'm not out of line, but I want the best you!  it sounded like you sabotaged the relationship with a pretty cool chick, based on catching Covid which she did not give on purpose.  You should not have been upset Moose, that's not fair to her and to you Moose.  No relationship is easy, they all take work and communication.  I can honestly say that out of all the women I know, not many fall into that pretty cool chick category.  I haven't met too many that I could say are pretty cool. 

Moose from what you wrote, you didn't treat her fairly, and that's fine if you want her out of your life.  But man, I would go get her, and hang with her, if she's cool, she's cool, and that's a woman to be with. Try it and work on it.  Would you rather go through life, knowing you had a cool chick and let her go, like you would or would not regret ghosting and leaving her.  What do you have to lose?  If there are relationship things going on with you, you can either work on them or not, OP stated that too, you have to want to change and get better at what it is that's going on.  Sounds like a cool chick to try it with.

Moose - I will always have your back!  And I have done things and let some very good ones go.  I had no interest after this divorce of mine started.  But I bumped into a pretty cool chick (and I remember you called her a cool chick when you referenced her) and this cool chick became my best friend, and more, now she's a royal pain in the ass don't get me wrong, but she's still a cool chick and I can be me and she's sticking by me.

OP made reference to helping people, and me and my lady can be complete opposite in things, but I help her and she helps me, tremendously, we are helping each other, each step of the way,..... and its one day at a time.

I don't like being alone, like in life, there's nothing wrong either way, but there's a huge comfort in her, I'm glad she's here.  She loves me for who I am......and she SEs the shit out of everything!

Only here saying these things to help, it just caught my attention what you said.  And whatever makes you Happy is cool by me. 

G

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Kaz - this isn't stupid or a teen problem.  You even said it matters to you, so it matters to us.  This is a little tough, and it sounds like you really like her and she's into you also.  Guys are always going to hit on women, do you trust her?  Sounds like you do, and if you want to continue with this relationship, you have to trust her, but she and you will make mistakes, but you can't dwell on things that will probably never happen, what good does that do you, its wasting your thoughts and time, trashing your sleep and it may all be for nothing.  How about you turn that worry into hope, hope on positive things.

Out of all the guys in the world, who does she come to, YOU!  And if it feels right to you, then you have to try.  Better to try than not, relationships aren't easy to line up.  Don't compare the past to this one, its unique.  Some worry is ok and normal, but it can't consume you and the relationship, worry because you care about her, and that's what being in a relationship is about.  There are some people who are in a relationship and don't give a shit.  Shes coming home to you Bro!  Thats an awesome feeling, so enjoy the good with her.

We are here for you Bro - G

Hey Law. Thank you for the post. It's always refreshing seeing your posts. It's been quite some time since I spoke to her. I've sent her a message and will see if she responds. At the very least she'd be a decent friend to have. And I agree, not many cool chicks out there that's for sure.

COVID's definitely done a great job of keeping people apart. Don't let it ruin your relationship too.

Looks like it's too late.
@lawdogusa I reached out, she did not respond but looked at my IG story. All good, onto the next.
Ps. @mothered can you move this to serious discussions?