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Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - pvnk - 03-10-2016
However it will put you out of your misery so it's not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. Sure, your family will be devastated but you'll be deceased and it won't matter to you.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - Customer - 03-10-2016
Some people don't think of this, and I guess it's the ones that have no care whatsoever.
If someone commits suicide, the last thing everyone will remember about them is that.
I couldn't do that to my family or friends anyway. "Remember Custu? Oh yeah didn't he unfortunately commit sudoku?"
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - pvnk - 03-10-2016
People call you Custu irl? wow!!
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - Cyber Warrior - 03-10-2016
I think that those who are thinking about suicide are mentally weak, and don't have enough strength to deal with the problems. As you said, their family suffers the most.
It's always easier to just die..
That's just my opinion.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - pvnk - 03-10-2016
(03-10-2016, 08:30 PM)Cyber Warrior Wrote: I think that those who are thinking about suicide are mentally weak, and don't have enough strength to deal with the problems. As you said, their family suffers the most.
It's always easier to just die..
That's just my opinion.
Is it easy to point a gun to your own head and pull the trigger? Idk.
It's might not always be about strength.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - swatterhat - 03-10-2016
Sometimes. Dying is the only option.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - pvnk - 03-10-2016
Suicide is a laughing matter. Just not to the ones affected.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - DarkMuse - 03-11-2016
You know, suicide is a tricky thing. Ultimately, if the person is willing to commit suicide, they are at their absolute wit's end. The last thing on their mind is others. That may sound selfish to some, but ultimately it is their life and their decision. You can't force guilt onto a suicidal person and continually expect positive results.
Some people believe that it's the suicidal person's fault for not trying to get help but asking for help isn't easy for everyone. Some don't want to be a bother, some have tried and nothing has worked out for them. It's not always a matter of asking for help but the kindness that comes from offering that will make a difference to the individual.
Furthermore, suicide can be 100% biological meaning that it is not just a selfish choice, rather, an uncontrollable urge brought upon by a number of things. Medication can even cause severe suicidal thoughts not to mention depression, anxiety, etc.
I want to close this by saying that if anyone is feeling suicidal or down or whatever they might be having problems with that I and a lot of others here are there for you. We've all seen/heard/experienced some shit and a new perspective might be helpful. We're a community here and we take care of our own.
You don't have to have a good night, but have a night at least.
-DarkMuse
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - m0dem - 03-11-2016
(03-11-2016, 04:52 AM)DarkMuse Wrote: You know, suicide is a tricky thing. Ultimately, if the person is willing to commit suicide, they are at their absolute wit's end. The last thing on their mind is others. That may sound selfish to some, but ultimately it is their life and their decision. You can't force guilt onto a suicidal person and continually expect positive results.
Some people believe that it's the suicidal person's fault for not trying to get help but asking for help isn't easy for everyone. Some don't want to be a bother, some have tried and nothing has worked out for them. It's not always a matter of asking for help but the kindness that comes from offering that will make a difference to the individual.
Furthermore, suicide can be 100% biological meaning that it is not just a selfish choice, rather, an uncontrollable urge brought upon by a number of things. Medication can even cause severe suicidal thoughts not to mention depression, anxiety, etc.
I want to close this by saying that if anyone is feeling suicidal or down or whatever they might be having problems with that I and a lot of others here are there for you. We've all seen/heard/experienced some shit and a new perspective might be helpful. We're a community here and we take care of our own.
You don't have to have a good night, but have a night at least.
-DarkMuse
That was cool.
RE: Suicide only hurts your friends and family. - Oni - 03-11-2016
Suicide is sad. Don't do it. Call a hotline if you have to, there are people that care.
(03-10-2016, 08:22 PM)Customer Wrote: Some people don't think of this, and I guess it's the ones that have no care whatsoever.
If someone commits suicide, the last thing everyone will remember about them is that.
I couldn't do that to my family or friends anyway. "Remember Custu? Oh yeah didn't he unfortunately commit sudoku?"
Sudoku? Do you mean Seppuku, Custer?