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Please help... - Inori - 09-30-2014

Yeah, I'm well and truly fucked.
Last year, at my old school, there was a.. "complication" that led to me and another kid getting suspended and almost arrested.
This year, at our new school, he has a bit of a gang put together and they've started harassing me.
Today on my geo trip, the other kid that got suspended told the rest of his gang about last year so I had 5 six-foot+ scary black guys giving me shit about it and threatening me.
I'm fearing for my life right now. What the hell do I do??

RE: Please help... - Anima Templi - 09-30-2014

Talk to the school teacher(s)/board or the police?

It's a tough situation man, but depending on your age, it might be 'easy' to stop it.

RE: Please help... - shadowwolf91 - 09-30-2014

I agree (even though I am against snitching), talk to a teacher or some other administrator about this. If an altercation does occur remember there is no shame in fighting dirty.

RE: Please help... - Spirit - 09-30-2014

It might make you look like a "pussy", but talking to a staff member normally helps.
They'll still talk behind your back, but they'll be afraid of getting suspended.

RE: Please help... - bluedog.tar.gz - 09-30-2014

1. Notify the teacher about your current situation.
2. Ask the dude what's up with him, why is he actually doing this? Confront him with this, don't be like a little bitch in this, its important to stand straight and ask straight forward keeping eye contact. Don't make it forced or such or exaggerated.

RE: Please help... - Inori - 09-30-2014

(09-30-2014, 08:44 PM)Anima Templi Wrote: Talk to the school teacher(s)/board or the police?

It's a tough situation man, but depending on your age, it might be 'easy' to stop it.
(09-30-2014, 09:39 PM)shadowwolf91 Wrote: I agree (even though I am against snitching), talk to a teacher or some other administrator about this. If an altercation does occur remember there is no shame in fighting dirty.
(09-30-2014, 09:46 PM)Spirit Wrote: It might make you look like a "pussy", but talking to a staff member normally helps.
They'll still talk behind your back, but they'll be afraid of getting suspended.
(09-30-2014, 09:50 PM)bluedog.tar.gz Wrote: 1. Notify the teacher about your current situation.
2. Ask the dude what's up with him, why is he actually doing this? Confront him with this, don't be like a little bitch in this, its important to stand straight and ask straight forward keeping eye contact. Don't make it forced or such or exaggerated.

Thanks a ton guys. I'll talk to my VP if anything develops.

RE: Please help... - Spirit - 09-30-2014

(09-30-2014, 09:50 PM)bluedog.tar.gz Wrote: 1. Notify the teacher about your current situation.
2. Ask the dude what's up with him, why is he actually doing this? Confront him with this, don't be like a little bitch in this, its important to stand straight and ask straight forward keeping eye contact. Don't make it forced or such or exaggerated.

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Believe it or not, I confronted someone who was causing issues with me once and I ended up making him feel bad about it and he just stopped. Just don't make it sound like you're looking for a fight.

RE: Please help... - h3r0 - 09-30-2014

First fight I was in I was in 3rd-4th grade. Guy said he was going to kick the shit out of me, huge Armenian kid, a big ass 5th grader had like 60lbs on me. I wasn't going to bother but then he referenced my sisters that also went to the same school. I agreed to meet him. Confronted him, immediately threw my backpack at him before he could say anything. This was followed by punching him in the throat. Either way he went down and cried. He brought his mom to school with him for the next week. People like this are cowards and that's why they act as such. The older you get the harder it is and the more dangerous it is to deal with these types of people. Confront him and avoid violence and if all else fails throw your backpack hahah.

RE: Please help... - gh05t3d - 09-30-2014

Before you proceed with all the suggestions above,use your cellular to get proof of your accusation. Video will be an irrefutable proof and when they deny any wrong doing they will look like azzholes.

RE: Please help... - Legolas - 10-01-2014

+1 for @Anima Templi @bluedog.tar.gz and @Spirit.

Talking to someone is the best you have to do. "Someone" can be :
1. Your teacher.
2. Your school principal.
3. Police.
4. Your family.

Sometimes, speaking to someone is harder than fighting.

Personally, i prefer and use dialogue to solve my problems. Violence begets violence. No, i am not a p*ssy. I believe that using arguments to solve your problems is by far the best solution. + Try becoming master of repartee/retort.


Yes, i'd like to "cut some asses". But, it'd be against all the history and worth of Karate. Karate is only for real special circumstances and the people who really know Karate, they use it only for Self-defense.


Ip Man's Wing Chun Rules of Conduct :
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P.S.1 An open minded person never fights. He will solve his problems using the dialogue and arguments. However, he should know and use any material art in special circumstances only.

P.S.2 " Never put passion in front of principle, even if you win, you'll lose. " - Mr. Miyagi.