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Relationship advice - H3RR3S - 08-30-2024
Hello everyone
I’ve been together almost 3 years with my girlfriend and we don’t live together yet.
We wen’t on a vacation and the first days went fine we had a lot of fun and laughed a lot. But after a few days I noticed I’m not having as much fun together anymore and when she want’s to cuddle or hold me I back up faster.
Now the thing is she’s one of the greatest woman out there, she works during the week and also in the weekend. She offers to pay a lot for me, never goes out clubbing or drinking and I’m her first actual boyfriend.
This is a really though situation would appreciate some advise.
RE: Relationship advice - Pathetic - 08-30-2024
yikes, im a little surprised to see a kind of post like this on this forum lmfao but uh my advice would be to get to the center of the problem of why your backing away from her, maybe you dont like the attention or maybe you dont like that you dont feel like the "man" in the relationship considering you mentioned she mostly pays for you
RE: Relationship advice - ApolloArt - 08-30-2024
It sounds like you're in a tough situation, and it's clear that you care about your girlfriend and want to do what's right. It's normal for relationships to go through different phases, and sometimes the excitement fades as you get more comfortable with each other. However, if you're feeling distant or less interested, it's important to think about why. It could be just a rough patch, or maybe your feelings have changed. The best thing you can do is talk to your girlfriend openly about how you're feeling. She sounds like a great person, and she deserves to know what's going on. Be gentle but honest in your conversation. Also, take some time to think about what you really want in this relationship. Sometimes, taking a little space to reflect can help you figure out your feelings. Remember, it's okay for feelings to change over time, and it's important to handle the situation with care and respect for both of you.
RE: Relationship advice - tuna555 - 09-06-2024
Women and Men are wired totally differently and they never think the same as we do
If you love/fancy her then stay...if not..then move on...it's that simple really mate
RE: Relationship advice - Plague - 09-09-2024
Maybe your no longer a str8 male? Maybe you are turning into an AI
RE: Relationship advice - Oni - 09-09-2024
Maybe you just didn't want intimacy in that moment, doesn't necessarily mean you don't like her. Unless you actually don't like her, which you seem conflicted about. If you spent a lot of time together in a short period, I can see the novelty wearing off and you might not want to spend every second with her.
RE: Relationship advice - madg - 10-03-2024
One option is to think of ways how to talk to her, or question her how she feels, what are her goals. What are you goals? Do you wanna fuck around or settle down? Approach the situation coldblooded. Don't let the emotions influence you. We all get tired of same thing over and over again and eventually everyone wants something fresh, something new. For woman I guess it's a bit different. As soon as they feel safe, they settle. We man, are animals. Our nature is to fuck around. But that's why man are the kings, we make a decision to stick around and be responsible for one woman. At end of the day it's a logical decision. Are your goals aligning? Are you both ready to settle down? Basically a business deal for a life time.
Another option is go fuck few hookers and see how you feel about your girlfriend than. And take it to the grave.