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Gold [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Printable Version

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[Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - miso - 07-26-2020

hello everyone, im pretty sure people that are reading this thread are familliar with the Sinister.ly discord server, if you aren't, you should check it out (check in the header, theres a Discord link)

Quick Introduction to the Discord Server of Sinister.ly (for people that don't know how the discord is like)
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The discord server is where members can talk to each other about things that they enjoy or just share things they like, and its really fun. Theres an anime channel aswell as a music channel where you can post animes you watch or music you like.
It is also (i'd say) the most active part of sinister.ly, you can have a quick talk with staff of even just have a normal discussion with other members of sinister.ly. And thats the part that i really enjoy about the discord, that is how i found
some common interests between me & other members aswell as learning a few things (i started playing Doom because of @Skullmeat , big thanks to him again, i play it regularly since ^D^). People can also help each other & give advices on different things.

The "memers" in the server
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Please note that i have nothing against most "memers", the one that i have problems with will recognise themselves.

The "memers" are the funny guys, its when people shitpost memes while Oni is offline & its really fun, i was one of them before i left & i really enjoyed it, made a few friends
and just had a great time laughing with other members of the community.

They normally make people want to talk in the chat or react to the memes that are posted, and it revives the server a bit.

Why did i leave then?
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Like I said in the title, i said that i've left but im planning to comeback, but i still don't know when.

I left because i was getting called out for being in emote servers, which i don't know why it is seen as a bad thing but ok i guess. Then i just get called out for being a closet weeb (a weeb hiding their love for anime), Which i am not because i said multiple times
that i only watched like 3-4 anime, and even the terb "weeb" just makes me cringe, my closest irl friend loves anime yet i rarily ever bring up that he's a weeb (when i call him one, its normally for a joke).

I said it numerous times that im not one nor like to be called as such, but it kept going, so i decided to leave.

I also had some times to think about a few things and that made me even less want to comeback. Sinister.ly has a great community, but i just don't want to deal with people like that when im just trying to have some fun.

Afterwards
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after i've left, i got some friends going to me and asking why i left, which is fine, Oni was like one of the first to come to me & i really appreciate it.

However, i didn't tell some people just because of me not feeling really safe around them or just not wanting to, but forced anyway, i told that person off and just to not do it again.

TL;DR: Yes i'll comeback, idk when, read the whole thing if you want to know why i left but don't try to pressure me just to get the slightest of information because im you're friend, im not a fucking criminal getting asked questions to why did i do this or that, im human.

If you think that im just saying bullshit then ok cool just say in the replys ill make sure to like them

To the person that made me leave: You step over the line, i already had to message you in dms for not stalking someone, which you did and i like that, however, don't try to make me come as what im not Smile
PS: In the morning i like to make myself some toast as well as giving my cat some fish Wink2 , you?

Thanks to the people that messaged me since i left

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Dismas - 07-26-2020

We have rules against harassment, but staff/Prestige agreed @"miyaKo" didn't do anything wrong. You're welcome back whenever, and it's not like we're forcing you to talk to anyone. You're overreacting and that's your decision.

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Request - 07-26-2020

Hey Miso. I understand that I violated your privacy by looking into your information to make a joke. Maybe I went to far in your terms. I want you to know that I meant no harm. You were a funny character and someone I enjoyed talking to, and I really didn't mean for you to take this to heart.

I don't want to force you to come back, but from the bottom of my heart, I really am sorry.

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Boudica - 07-26-2020

Jokes, no matter how well-intended, can go wrong. It's important to recognise when someone isn't happy and just step away. Equally, it's important to consider what the jokestar actually meant.
For me. the term 'weeb' holds zero offense, and is akin to stating someone enjoys music/art. It might not be entirely correct, but it's not derogatory in this day and age.

Those are merely my own two cents. I'd never want to tell anyone their feelings are invalid, but just to consider the mindset on both sides, that led to the fallout.

I sincerely hope you guys work it out and are able to move forward - I really enjoyed the banter in the Discord.

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - mothered - 07-26-2020

We're a supportive and understanding community, without any malicious or derogatory Intent towards each other.

There's no cause for hostility or animosity, so lay your cards on the table In an adult-like fashion and simply sort out your differences. As per above, @"miyaKo" has done his part, so @"miso"- the ball Is In your court.

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Defeat - 07-26-2020

Interesting, I'm thinking of joining the sin fam on discord, see you on there <3

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - fsociety - 07-26-2020

i donot know why i always feel discord boring , telegram is always very attractive to me ...

but one thing i like in discord the we can seprate everything like according to the catogories..

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Vanfuzzy - 07-26-2020

Just turn your computer off.

smh.

RE: [Discord]: I left & im comming back, dunno when. (just leave me the fuck alone) - Mr.Kurd - 07-26-2020

I hope you sort this out as you just said "I'm Human", We all are and make mistakes!!

Most of time what we know is less or more than what we expect... This will make kind of unknown reaction to both sides.


Welcome back, anytime you want to. we will be there and waiting.