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Having to miss christmas and new year :( - Byakuya Kuchiki - 12-04-2018
Hi guys,
Unfortuantly back in 2013 I was diagnosed with Stomach cancer. This was dealt with and resolved within a year of intense treatment.
Well back in October I was told the genes in my stomach has been turned on again and just had an operation to get parts of my stomach taken out.
Now because of this I am now not working or anything and now having to miss christmas and new years due to no money as I'm spending currently over 120 quid a month just travelling to/from uni, hospitals ect.
My uni has honored me because I'm currently the only person who has ever continued to study while going through treatment.
Looks like I can't get anything for my family or that now as I've legit ran out of money just to fund me travelling to hospitals ect. Which is a shame cause this is the first time I've ever experenced such horrors.
I did set up a go fund me thread just to be able to see if anyone would support me through this hard time just to be able to buy gifts for my family as a way to try keep me happy through this difficult time to make everyone happy around me but unfortunately no avail.
So that's my christmas ruined by an illness that I have no control over :'(
RE: Having to miss christmas and new year :( - mothered - 12-05-2018
Due to the sensitivity of this thread, I've moved It from The Lounge forum to here.
I'm sorry to hear of your unfortunate turn of events. I do hope things Improve In the not too distant future.
RE: Having to miss christmas and new year :( - S3000 - 08-07-2019
I wish you well FAM..life isn't designed to be a bed of roses,might be sunny here/might be rainy at the other end, just hang in there..
Either way, it's not permanent..
RE: Having to miss christmas and new year :( - mothered - 08-08-2019
This thread Is around 7 months old, but given you're active as recent as yesterday, I do hope things have significantly Improved.
RE: Having to miss christmas and new year :( - Byakuya Kuchiki - 08-11-2019
Hi there,
I'm doing okayish, ie still alive. I have a few more sessions to go and then I'll be going for surgery.
However I have learnt something new according to the goverment. They claim that I'm not disabled right now because and one of the sole reasons I'm not disabled is because I didnt attempt to kill myself in a 30 minute appointment.
But I'm taking them to court for that so that's on september but apart from that I'm doing okayish
RE: Having to miss christmas and new year :( - mothered - 08-12-2019
(08-11-2019, 09:09 PM)Byakuya Kuchiki Wrote: However I have learnt something new according to the goverment. They claim that I'm not disabled right now because and one of the sole reasons I'm not disabled is because I didnt attempt to kill myself in a 30 minute appointment.
Unless I'm very much mistaken, I believe one's disability Is calculated on percentage and If It doesn't meet the requirements, the claim Is declined.