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RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - RonaIdo - 12-07-2023
I've only ever gone 50/50 on stuff.
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - DollSwap - 12-08-2023
We try to pay 50/50 but my boyfriend earns more so usually he still has money by the time I become broke and he ends up paying for other things
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - MVD01 - 12-08-2023
It depends on their financial situation.
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - maemaeboo - 12-08-2023
No, unless they are a sugar daddy then all bets are off
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - zezee3210 - 12-08-2023
If u feel like paying just pay but a more balanced relation is also possible. One time you pay another time she pays. In a healthy relation I dont see the problem in who pays
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - athelas16 - 12-08-2023
The idea that one gender should be responsible for paying for everything in a relationship is an outdated and stereotypical notion. In modern relationships, the expectation is usually for partners to share expenses and contribute based on their financial means. Financial dynamics in a relationship should be discussed openly and agreed upon by both partners.
Equality and mutual respect are crucial in any healthy relationship. Financial responsibilities, including expenses for dates, household bills, and other shared costs, should ideally be discussed and agreed upon by both individuals. This can involve sharing expenses equally, dividing them based on income percentages, or finding a system that works for both partners.
It's important for individuals in a relationship to communicate openly about their financial expectations, values, and goals. This helps ensure that both partners feel comfortable and respected in their financial contributions to the relationship. Every relationship is unique, so finding a balance that works for both individuals involved is key to a successful and harmonious partnership.
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - Nfhskel - 12-08-2023
Split until married or switch off paying
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - starchytwink - 12-08-2023
in a gay relationship so i guess we both pay..? lol
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - Postaboy45 - 12-09-2023
Depends on if she has enough to offer to be worth it...
Is she putting in any work ? That's my question
RE: Should guys pay for everything in a relationship? - jdavy799 - 12-09-2023
I’m a very traditional man and believe the man should pay for everything but that’s society these days