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RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Zodiac - 07-10-2016
(07-10-2016, 06:38 PM)Kissu Wrote:Yeah, it's just unneeded.(07-10-2016, 06:37 PM)Nath Wrote: I wouldn't mind. However I really don't want to go through the stress of arguing and whatever. I mean if I find the right girl then great.That's true, arguing is the worst thing especially when it's over something dumb. Like the what do you want to eat argument :/
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - amanwaa - 12-11-2019
First of All, Nothing is Permanent in this world, so, please go ahead and enjoy your life.......... just like me and others.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Hysho - 12-14-2019
I've dated 2 guys online. One was so cool and everything wished we didn't break up.
The other was sort of manipulative????
After these to relationships, I would rather just date IRL instead of online
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - mothered - 12-14-2019
(12-14-2019, 03:19 AM)Hysho Wrote: I've dated 2 guys online. One was so cool and everything wished we didn't break up.
The other was sort of manipulative????
After these to relationships, I would rather just date IRL instead of online
In my younger days, I've had long-lasting relationships via online dating, but I have to agree that IRL Is the way to go.
Physically meeting for the very first time, can determine a lot more about a person than a few Images and text on the PC screen.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Hysho - 12-14-2019
(12-14-2019, 03:24 AM)mothered Wrote:Yeah! First guy, I dated he was cute and everything I just really wanted to meet him but he lived up in Canada.(12-14-2019, 03:19 AM)Hysho Wrote: I've dated 2 guys online. One was so cool and everything wished we didn't break up.
The other was sort of manipulative????
After these to relationships, I would rather just date IRL instead of online
In my younger days, I've had long-lasting relationships via online dating, but I have to agree that IRL Is the way to go.
Physically meeting for the very first time, can determine a lot more about a person than a few Images and text on the PC screen.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Jiggly - 12-14-2019
(12-14-2019, 03:31 AM)Hysho Wrote:(12-14-2019, 03:24 AM)mothered Wrote:Yeah! First guy, I dated he was cute and everything I just really wanted to meet him but he lived up in Canada.(12-14-2019, 03:19 AM)Hysho Wrote: I've dated 2 guys online. One was so cool and everything wished we didn't break up.
The other was sort of manipulative????
After these to relationships, I would rather just date IRL instead of online
In my younger days, I've had long-lasting relationships via online dating, but I have to agree that IRL Is the way to go.
Physically meeting for the very first time, can determine a lot more about a person than a few Images and text on the PC screen.
I'd argue there are different challenges to online/long distance relationships than in real life. I will say, online dating lead me to someone much more well suited, though they were the other side of an ocean. You can just as easily find terrible people online, as you can in person. One positive of online dating, is that you will more than likely meet people through similar interests (such as video games, on a common website etc). In real life, you'll often meet people through the pure chance of being in the same place at the same time. I've found my friendships online share more common interests, than any in real life.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Defeat - 12-14-2019
(12-14-2019, 12:05 PM)Jiggly Wrote:I agree. I've seen some friends get wrecked by ldr. They were travelling back and forth across the border a few times a year and they usually lose the spark. It's bound to happen I think.(12-14-2019, 03:31 AM)Hysho Wrote:(12-14-2019, 03:24 AM)mothered Wrote: In my younger days, I've had long-lasting relationships via online dating, but I have to agree that IRL Is the way to go.Yeah! First guy, I dated he was cute and everything I just really wanted to meet him but he lived up in Canada.
Physically meeting for the very first time, can determine a lot more about a person than a few Images and text on the PC screen.
I'd argue there are different challenges to online/long distance relationships than in real life. I will say, online dating lead me to someone much more well suited, though they were the other side of an ocean. You can just as easily find terrible people online, as you can in person. One positive of online dating, is that you will more than likely meet people through similar interests (such as video games, on a common website etc). In real life, you'll often meet people through the pure chance of being in the same place at the same time. I've found my friendships online share more common interests, than any in real life.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - zn0 - 12-14-2019
I've only had girlfriends IRL but since I'm single now I'm considering online dating. I've always known in the back of my mind that I'll most likely meet my soulmate through the internet as that's where I spend most of my time, problem is just the distance.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Jiggly - 12-14-2019
(12-14-2019, 12:40 PM)Strait McCool Wrote:(12-14-2019, 12:05 PM)Jiggly Wrote:I agree. I've seen some friends get wrecked by ldr. They were travelling back and forth across the border a few times a year and they usually lose the spark. It's bound to happen I think.(12-14-2019, 03:31 AM)Hysho Wrote: Yeah! First guy, I dated he was cute and everything I just really wanted to meet him but he lived up in Canada.
I'd argue there are different challenges to online/long distance relationships than in real life. I will say, online dating lead me to someone much more well suited, though they were the other side of an ocean. You can just as easily find terrible people online, as you can in person. One positive of online dating, is that you will more than likely meet people through similar interests (such as video games, on a common website etc). In real life, you'll often meet people through the pure chance of being in the same place at the same time. I've found my friendships online share more common interests, than any in real life.
Strangely, I recall studying long distance relationships as a module in my psychology class. There were a few key things that would impact the success of an ldr (know what date you were going to meet up next among others things). Personally, I know the "bound to happen" isn't always true, as I've been in a 6.5 year long ldr myself. However, I wouldn't advise anyone get into an ldr, or if you do, try to keep it within the same country borders.
RE: Do you want to be in a relationship? - Bobll - 12-15-2019
I absolutely agree with you. In a dispute, truth is sometimes bornWink Yes, I absolutely want to be in a relationship and now I am establishing communication and relationships with one woman whom I met after one day I went to the site hoping to find a good service for online dating and saw her there. We started a conversation that grew into a relationship. And I'm happy with that.