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RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Oni - 08-27-2015
(08-27-2015, 05:58 PM)SilkSnake Wrote: I told my girlfriend it was her fault that I cheated on her because when she was living under my roof she had the audacity to go and fuck some other dude.
That type of shit doesn't settle well when the dude she fucked is a popular head at the club we frequented. I say she cheated on me first, because all that matters about cheating is how the one being cheated on looks like a tool in front of all other people.
We got in a relationship after. I lost my virginity to this girl and I wasn't going to hold honor to someone who didn't have a whole lot of honor in the first place.
She told me "it's like a race to see who cheats first" and I wasn't going to be that one.
I still don't entirely trust her. I'm not sure if she's just as naive as me in some ways or maybe she pretends to be. Idk
A race to cheat? Sounds like STDs.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Inori - 08-27-2015
(08-27-2015, 08:57 PM)Oni Wrote: A race to cheat? Sounds like STDs.
or MW2
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Khris - 08-28-2015
(08-27-2015, 01:42 AM)Jinx Wrote: You're full of shit.
Nah, I really couldn't find myself attached enough to one person to actually care.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Satan - 08-29-2015
(08-28-2015, 09:52 PM)Khris Wrote: Nah, I really couldn't find myself attached enough to one person to actually care.
How emo and edgy.
Have aspergers or something?
My brother does and claims the same, yet was all emotional and whatnot when his last girlfriend left him.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Earth - 08-29-2015
As I said on here a few times in different situations not about relationships but it still goes the same. Everybody deserves a second chance (minus murderers or very bad criminals).
So that being said I would give a second chance but I cannot forgive immediately but maybe over time but I for sure will not forget it.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Khris - 08-29-2015
(08-29-2015, 01:42 AM)Jinx Wrote: How emo and edgy.
Have aspergers or something?
My brother does and claims the same, yet was all emotional and whatnot when his last girlfriend left him.
LOL, Aspergers doesnt exist. In all seriousness, I came to that conclusion based on the "symptoms", seems more of a personality type than a disorder lol.
And I know it sounds quite edgy, but I don't mean to come off that way. And it's the opposite of emo. (emo derives from emotional, that was a demonstration of lack of emotion)
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Satan - 08-29-2015
(08-29-2015, 02:02 AM)Khris Wrote: LOL, Aspergers doesnt exist. In all seriousness, I came to that conclusion based on the "symptoms", seems more of a personality type than a disorder lol.
And I know it sounds quite edgy, but I don't mean to come off that way. And it's the opposite of emo. (emo derives from emotional, that was a demonstration of lack of emotion)
I think you think anyone's going to find your " lack of emotion" cool.
Just irritating.
Can tell you from experience, doesn't help anything, and won't push anything away.
You don't wanna be looked at with that sort of pity.
Eats you up inside, it does.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Nil - 08-29-2015
Cheating shows a complete lack of respect for your partner. It doesn't get much more disrespectful than that. I see no reason for another chance. In fact, I cringe at those who stay with partners who have cheated. I'd throw them to the curb without a second thought.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - mothered - 08-29-2015
(08-29-2015, 05:04 AM)God Wrote: Cheating shows a complete lack of respect for your partner. It doesn't get much more disrespectful than that. I see no reason for another chance. In fact, I cringe at those who stay with partners who have cheated. I'd throw them to the curb without a second thought.
In my views, you've hit the nail on the head.
I'm enjoying viewing all thoughts and opinions posted thus far, Irrespective of those In favor and those not. I have an IRL debate going, and all comments are of help. In fact, my debate has Intensified Into somewhat of a friendly argument between all Involved. All part of the fun I guess.
RE: Cheated On, Would You Forgive Your Partner? - Oni - 08-29-2015
(08-29-2015, 05:04 AM)God Wrote: Cheating shows a complete lack of respect for your partner. It doesn't get much more disrespectful than that. I see no reason for another chance. In fact, I cringe at those who stay with partners who have cheated. I'd throw them to the curb without a second thought.
I know a couple of guys that cheat. The sad part is, generally the girls they are with aren't much better people.
