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RE: Relationship Issues? - lux - 03-30-2014
If you've 'known' her exclusively online for a year; then the blunt truth is she's bored of you. I've known BreShiE for a year. And that nigga's dead to me (I'm joking @BreShiE I love you). I met my girlfriend online, fell in love with her the same day I met her. But then a month later, I really did meet her in person. Go get yourself a local girl so you can have that closure.
RE: Relationship Issues? - w00t - 03-30-2014
(03-30-2014, 03:41 PM)Duubz Wrote: Even so, this isn't an online-dating thing only. People get cheated on all the time. It's probably happened to even the best of us.
My point was that it isn't really cheating. I've had one or two dates with people I'd met both online and in person, neither of us expected to be exclusive at that point.
RE: Relationship Issues? - Jiggly - 03-31-2014
You mentioned that you are struggling to get hold of her... Are you able to contact anyone she knows, to check what's going on?
My Dad went through a rough time dating a lady from another country. They met up, fell in love and such. They eventually made plans for her and her kid to move in with him in this country. Her kid chickened out which complicated things and then one day poof. She stopped talking to him. Completely. No reasons, or goodbyes etc. A lot of people are talking about age. I can see why since you are young, but this stuff feels like a big deal even at that age. People can do this to you whether you are 13 or 45 (no references to people's actual ages here btw - just generalising).
I hope for your sake that she get's in contact with you. It can be a mistake. There's no point worrying too much until you truly know the facts. there is a big lack of things that you know for sure. I hope it turns out all ok. The answer won't be here on SL (though I'm sure you know that).
Oh and wow. Thanks guys, I feel so talked about right now XD
P.S. Oni. I love you, you absolute weirdo.
RE: Relationship Issues? - Equinox - 03-31-2014
(03-31-2014, 12:56 AM)Jiggly Wrote: The answer won't be here on SL (though I'm sure you know that).
I do indeed know that, whilst I wish SL had all of life's answers, it doesn't. This isn't much of a cry for help but more of asking for advice.
Re: RE: Relationship Issues? - Oni - 03-31-2014
(03-30-2014, 03:32 PM)w00t Wrote: To be blunt, you really shouldn't expect online relationships to be exlusive.
Why not?
RE: Relationship Issues? - Jiggly - 03-31-2014
(03-31-2014, 03:33 AM)Oni Wrote: Why not?
I'd quite like to know more myself.
RE: Relationship Issues? - dopest - 03-31-2014
damn, i know how all that feels brother.
a worried relationship is not a good one. don't stress it till you talk with her about it.
if she's cheating you, and i'm not saying she is because i sure as hell don't know, don't be afraid to cut it off.
once someone cheats, it's rare they change..
if i were you, i'd just try to get a hold of her and converse with her about it. if she gets defensive it's probably a sign..
best of luck bro, if you need more help don't hesitate shooting me a pm.
RE: Relationship Issues? - Oni - 03-31-2014
(03-31-2014, 04:40 AM)dopest Wrote: damn, i know how all that feels brother.
a worried relationship is not a good one. don't stress it till you talk with her about it.
if she's cheating you, and i'm not saying she is because i sure as hell don't know, don't be afraid to cut it off.
once someone cheats, it's rare they change..
if i were you, i'd just try to get a hold of her and converse with her about it. if she gets defensive it's probably a sign..
best of luck bro, if you need more help don't hesitate shooting me a pm.
You would have such decent grammar if you just capitalized things...
RE: Relationship Issues? - dopest - 03-31-2014
(03-31-2014, 05:03 AM)Oni Wrote: You would have such decent grammar if you just capitalized things...
Haha, my bad bro.
RE: Relationship Issues? - Hellborn - 03-31-2014
On another note, TITTIES!