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RE: Debate: relationships - cr33pyguy - 02-07-2014

(02-07-2014, 01:23 PM)Sparky Wrote: Sparks is lonely. This thread makes him depressed. Tongue

Awww... :'(
Don't cry sparksy.

(02-07-2014, 01:54 PM)Oni Wrote: I feel that toleration and acceptance are a part of love. If you can't tolerate/accept the other person, then there is a problem.

very true. So rather than love and toleration being separate aspects, toleration follows love.
But in this case, what happens when some foreign factor is added to the "equation", causing for one of the sides lose their toleration? I guess that's when it all falls apart, right?


RE: Debate: relationships - Equinox - 02-07-2014

(02-06-2014, 07:49 PM)cr33pyguy Wrote: The main question is, what keeps couples together?

Love. I'd fire off about this but I made a post on it so I will be searching for that and quote it here.


RE: Debate: relationships - cr33pyguy - 02-07-2014

(02-07-2014, 04:34 PM)Duubz Wrote: Love. I'd fire off about this but I made a post on it so I will be searching for that and quote it here.

All right.


RE: Debate: relationships - Equinox - 02-07-2014

(01-25-2014, 05:48 AM)Duubz Wrote: This is what we humans call "love".

The truth, no pun intended, about love is that it is a fragmented emotion. We can think we know exactly what the emotion is but we will never know the answer. Finding the answer is the answer to life in which would probably cause us to perish from our own knowledge. However I can say this;

Your heart doesn't tell you who you love or don't. It's your brain. You can say what you want, but if you had no brain you can't say you love one. Your body would not function. Biology aside, we can only believe what we think.

If you truly love the girl you are with now, you wouldn't need an answer to this question. You would have one. If you still love your ex-girlfriend, that's okay. You can still love her and the same girl. Now typically girls are not happy about this BUT that is jealousy. If you can show that you love one over the other you can be with one. There is a difference between liking and loving one however.

Love is only what we define it to be. What do we define it as?
You can only say that you positively know if you were in the minds of everyone in the world.

Whoever you think most of and do the most for is the one you love most.

Now this is where people go wrong. Don't ask "What does love do for me?". That is already a fucked up path. You ask "What can I do for love?". What does that mean? It means that what can you do to continue being happy, or start if you have depression like me, yet still supply and generate the feelings you have for the girl.

Cheating is wrong, if you go down that path, something is wrong with you.

Your life is only what you make it so make it good. Everyone has a love of their life. Secret or not, you do. Whoever that may be, it's quite possible it's with the girl you are with or were with. Easy way to tell? There is none. You have to know before even thinking of asking that question.

Keep in mind, women are not toys. They're not any type of one. They're not sex toys or pleasure toys. They are creatures that are delicate and beatiful.

Call me a fag, I don't care.



RE: Debate: relationships - LeoTheLone - 02-07-2014

(02-07-2014, 01:23 PM)Sparky Wrote: Sparks is lonely. This thread makes him depressed. Tongue

I will love you sparky. Aways love you. <3


RE: Debate: relationships - cr33pyguy - 02-09-2014


Why would I call you a fag for writing an essay on love.

Anyway, it's a great way to sum up love. However, at this point I'd like to say, that you did define love - you still had a lot of talk about the love of your life being the girl you were with - if this is the case, clearly love wasn't the most important thing in keeping that relationship together, as the relationship failed even though there was love.