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RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-17-2013
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RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-17-2013
(04-17-2013, 12:09 AM)Exploits Wrote: :lol::lol::lol: said like a "CHAMP" lol HC for life!!!!!!!
One amazing thing about the forum is it will never leave you
She gives good head.............................................................................................................................................filling info too. :lol:
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Wisher - 04-17-2013
... gosh.
You're not making much sense. It could be because you are distraught, ot it could be my English or my different culture.
Let's see... from what you say, I infer you and her are supposed to be in a serious relationship: you share money, you live together, etcetera. Yet all this seems to be building from an argument, a couple of situations and two text messages?
That's a no-no. Come on, you are adults. Text messages can be easily misunderstood, can have a lot of different meanings, specially if your mind is set in one particular context and hers in another. There could have been an emergency, or something totally inoccent. No girl will switch out of a serious relationship for a boy she has met just a week ago, so the 'other guy' thing does not make much sense from the baginning.
If she is in a flight, then there's nothing you can do right now. I wouldn't recommend spamming her phone with SMS, either. Wait till the flight lands, you are calm, and phone her, so you both can have a quiet, long chat, as expected of two people commited in a serious relationship. She said in her text "she had to leave". Did something happen? Does she need any help? Even if she intends to leave you as a romantical partner, sending you a text message and boarding a plane is NOT the way to do it, and is definitely NOT fair for you. You have a right to talk to her and know what happens, and she has a right to explain herself, without accusations from one or the other.
Every couple has arguments, and I really hope this is not what you fear, it has all been a misunderstanding and you'll be able to post back soon telling us everything is back to normal ^_^
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Wisher - 04-17-2013
... gosh.
You're not making much sense. It could be because you are distraught, ot it could be my English or my different culture.
Let's see... from what you say, I infer you and her are supposed to be in a serious relationship: you share money, you live together, etcetera. Yet all this seems to be building from an argument, a couple of situations and two text messages?
That's a no-no. Come on, you are adults. Text messages can be easily misunderstood, can have a lot of different meanings, specially if your mind is set in one particular context and hers in another. There could have been an emergency, or something totally inoccent. No girl will switch out of a serious relationship for a boy she has met just a week ago, so the 'other guy' thing does not make much sense from the baginning.
If she is in a flight, then there's nothing you can do right now. I wouldn't recommend spamming her phone with SMS, either. Wait till the flight lands, you are calm, and phone her, so you both can have a quiet, long chat, as expected of two people commited in a serious relationship. She said in her text "she had to leave". Did something happen? Does she need any help? Even if she intends to leave you as a romantical partner, sending you a text message and boarding a plane is NOT the way to do it, and is definitely NOT fair for you. You have a right to talk to her and know what happens, and she has a right to explain herself, without accusations from one or the other.
Every couple has arguments, and I really hope this is not what you fear, it has all been a misunderstanding and you'll be able to post back soon telling us everything is back to normal ^_^
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Psycho_Coder - 04-17-2013
Whatever it is with you and your GF , I would say only one thing never become too DESPERATE (See my Signature)
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RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Psycho_Coder - 04-17-2013
Whatever it is with you and your GF , I would say only one thing never become too DESPERATE (See my Signature)
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RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-17-2013
(04-17-2013, 08:44 AM)Wisher Wrote: ... gosh.
You're not making much sense. It could be because you are distraught, ot it could be my English or my different culture.
Let's see... from what you say, I infer you and her are supposed to be in a serious relationship: you share money, you live together, etcetera. Yet all this seems to be building from an argument, a couple of situations and two text messages?
That's a no-no. Come on, you are adults. Text messages can be easily misunderstood, can have a lot of different meanings, specially if your mind is set in one particular context and hers in another. There could have been an emergency, or something totally inoccent. No girl will switch out of a serious relationship for a boy she has met just a week ago, so the 'other guy' thing does not make much sense from the baginning.
If she is in a flight, then there's nothing you can do right now. I wouldn't recommend spamming her phone with SMS, either. Wait till the flight lands, you are calm, and phone her, so you both can have a quiet, long chat, as expected of two people commited in a serious relationship. She said in her text "she had to leave". Did something happen? Does she need any help? Even if she intends to leave you as a romantical partner, sending you a text message and boarding a plane is NOT the way to do it, and is definitely NOT fair for you. You have a right to talk to her and know what happens, and she has a right to explain herself, without accusations from one or the other.
Every couple has arguments, and I really hope this is not what you fear, it has all been a misunderstanding and you'll be able to post back soon telling us everything is back to normal ^_^
Well the two text messages were just so that she could tell me she was gone. We don't settle things over texts, we handle them ..usually, but this time, she decided to just disappear, with no warning, just said she's on the plane.
I hope so too, man! Thanks a lot for your words. (:
..and yeah, when I posted this, my heart was pounding, my mind was racing, hah, I just couldn't put my words out. This was more of a rambling than anything else.
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-17-2013
(04-17-2013, 08:44 AM)Wisher Wrote: ... gosh.
You're not making much sense. It could be because you are distraught, ot it could be my English or my different culture.
Let's see... from what you say, I infer you and her are supposed to be in a serious relationship: you share money, you live together, etcetera. Yet all this seems to be building from an argument, a couple of situations and two text messages?
That's a no-no. Come on, you are adults. Text messages can be easily misunderstood, can have a lot of different meanings, specially if your mind is set in one particular context and hers in another. There could have been an emergency, or something totally inoccent. No girl will switch out of a serious relationship for a boy she has met just a week ago, so the 'other guy' thing does not make much sense from the baginning.
If she is in a flight, then there's nothing you can do right now. I wouldn't recommend spamming her phone with SMS, either. Wait till the flight lands, you are calm, and phone her, so you both can have a quiet, long chat, as expected of two people commited in a serious relationship. She said in her text "she had to leave". Did something happen? Does she need any help? Even if she intends to leave you as a romantical partner, sending you a text message and boarding a plane is NOT the way to do it, and is definitely NOT fair for you. You have a right to talk to her and know what happens, and she has a right to explain herself, without accusations from one or the other.
Every couple has arguments, and I really hope this is not what you fear, it has all been a misunderstanding and you'll be able to post back soon telling us everything is back to normal ^_^
Well the two text messages were just so that she could tell me she was gone. We don't settle things over texts, we handle them ..usually, but this time, she decided to just disappear, with no warning, just said she's on the plane.
I hope so too, man! Thanks a lot for your words. (:
..and yeah, when I posted this, my heart was pounding, my mind was racing, hah, I just couldn't put my words out. This was more of a rambling than anything else.
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-19-2013
(04-18-2013, 09:13 PM)Ballstoyou Wrote: If she would leave this easily for something like that. you not being around for a small period of time only for your grandmother to help. then she shouldn't be worth it. there are plenty of girls out there. and there are alot of people going through the same thing. if she comes back and it was a mis understanding. joy. if not though. you will heal. time will heal it. trust me
Well to update everyone, we talked things out, & it was just a matter of a new city, new plans, new everything ..with her not having anyone out here, she didn't know how much she could handle, & I wasn't really emotionally there for her.
So we decided we'll go back to our own lives, & just start dating again, rather than sharing our lives. (: At least until I get done with basic, & everything. (:
Thanks all for your support! I appreciate it a lot!
RE: Relationship advice? (In seriousness, please) - Aut•ono•mous - 04-19-2013
(04-18-2013, 09:13 PM)Ballstoyou Wrote: If she would leave this easily for something like that. you not being around for a small period of time only for your grandmother to help. then she shouldn't be worth it. there are plenty of girls out there. and there are alot of people going through the same thing. if she comes back and it was a mis understanding. joy. if not though. you will heal. time will heal it. trust me
Well to update everyone, we talked things out, & it was just a matter of a new city, new plans, new everything ..with her not having anyone out here, she didn't know how much she could handle, & I wasn't really emotionally there for her.
So we decided we'll go back to our own lives, & just start dating again, rather than sharing our lives. (: At least until I get done with basic, & everything. (:
Thanks all for your support! I appreciate it a lot!