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RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - theshaynee - 01-14-2014
I am normally a pretty jealous person. I think it depends on how the person acts as well. If they can't seem to stop looking at other people like that it would start to affect me and cause me to feel insecure. I would hate that and start to resent them. So, no, I don't think it would ever work out for me.
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - rosa - 01-14-2014
Frankly, I've never been with someone like that and if I were, I don't know for sure how long I would stick around. Have you spoken to him about it, if not you should gather courage and do so. I think what he does is quite rude, not to mention he's not even descreet about it.
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - Fallen - 01-14-2014
Quote: Everywhere we go, it seems like he is checking out every single girl?
Off topic, how in the world did you achieve the Grammar Freak award?
Your grammar isn't near standards.
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On topic, I would possibly be able to tolerate it.
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - True2marie - 01-15-2014
I have never been with a man who always checks other females out (in my presence).
To me, this is a sign of disrespect and shows he lacks self control.
If I did have to deal with it, I'd confront him asap. Then, if he didn't cut it out, I'd bounce.
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - Not SpaceGhost - 01-16-2014
(01-13-2014, 09:33 AM)htr693 Wrote: Talk to him about it, that's your easiest answer.
It is entirely natural for everyone to check other people out. There is a way of doing it discreetly and tactfully though. Tell him that it bothers you a bit when he stares so much, and see what he says.
My ex and I used to find people for each other and make a game of it. We had a lot of trust, and we both knew that if it's ok to look, neither of us would stray from each other. We had a good understanding.
Good luck.
You forgot the part of the story where one day she agreed with one of your picks and left
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - Singularity - 01-16-2014
Well I mean if he is checking someone out that is fine, but he shouldnt be staring.
If it would be a quick glance that is normal.
RE: Could you be with someone who constantly checks other people out? - dopest - 01-27-2014
I personally wouldn't be able to go through that, as I'm more of the jealous type.
Being in a relationship, I feel like the two should only have interest in each other. Yes it's nature to be interested in people, but if one is to be in a relationship, I think they should be loyal to the one person.
If one is single, have at it. That's just my opinion though.
Honestly, if it bothers you, have a discussion with him.
Depending on how long you both have been with one another, I believe he'd take it well.
I feel your pain though, I've had girlfriends check out other guys quite a few times, I always discuss about the situation.
Then again, I'm one to work out problems before they become a bigger problem.
Best of luck to you with your situation, I'm sure everyone can relate at one point atleast.
If you need any help thinking of what to say, don't hesitate PM'ing me as I'd be glad to help.