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RE: Are you happy? - mothered - 10-12-2021
(10-09-2021, 08:52 AM)ghostboy Wrote: I can relate. I've made a few bad investments recently expecting a decent payoff but it didn't go as planned. I'm borderline homeless at this point but i've landed a decent paying job with my work experience. I'm in the city so there's more work then I could ask for, and i'm thankfully not too old.Well done with getting yourself back on track.
In terms of age, once you reach your 50s, It Is extremely difficult to find a job, Irrespective of experience. Many employers prefer people In their 20s-30s, particularly for longevity of employment.
RE: Are you happy? - Mr.Kurd - 10-12-2021
I'm not that guy who called Happy in the Iron Man movie xD
Well, I'm happy but it goes up and down .. Situations changing, future unclear so little bit confusion yet. Just trusing what Allah will bring for me.
RE: Are you happy? - imnojabroni - 10-13-2021
There is nothing to be unhappy about
RE: Are you happy? - Confidential - 10-13-2021
lol nah it feels like i'm just surviving instead of living
RE: Are you happy? - mothered - 10-13-2021
(10-13-2021, 08:30 AM)Confidential Wrote: lol nah it feels like i'm just surviving instead of livingWhile In lockdown, the government In my country said something similar - "we exist, but we're not living".
After 2 months of hard lockdown, they're planning to ease restrictions In the weeks to come.
RE: Are you happy? - Swimming Bird - 10-15-2021
Happiness is 100% relative. When someone says they are happy, it is relative to previous experience or other points of comparison. It takes a bad day, to appreciate a good one.
RE: Are you happy? - fi3ld - 10-15-2021
Happy for some reasons, sad for other reasons, angry for some reasons, calm for other reasons, ...
Happiness is overrated brother,
all emotions are chemicals and they provide certain functionality and go,
so there's no I'm happy so I'm not sad ... (at least that's my perspective)
They co-exist for different reasons (in some cases the same).
Happiness is a choice eventually.
But if you here mean by happiness, satisfaction about one's own life. Yes
RE: Are you happy? - mothered - 10-15-2021
(10-15-2021, 02:33 AM)fi3ld Wrote: Happiness is a choice eventually.That sums It all up.
We're accountable and responsible for how we feel, think and react. If you're unhappy, you only have yourself to blame.
RE: Are you happy? - Accident Man - 10-15-2021
(10-15-2021, 10:53 AM)mothered Wrote:You are responsible for the effort, not the outcome.(10-15-2021, 02:33 AM)fi3ld Wrote: Happiness is a choice eventually.That sums It all up.
We're accountable and responsible for how we feel, think and react. If you're unhappy, you only have yourself to blame.
RE: Are you happy? - mothered - 10-15-2021
(10-15-2021, 04:12 PM)Party Pete Wrote:If your effort leads to an unfavorable outcome, then you're responsible for that result.(10-15-2021, 10:53 AM)mothered Wrote:You are responsible for the effort, not the outcome.(10-15-2021, 02:33 AM)fi3ld Wrote: Happiness is a choice eventually.That sums It all up.
We're accountable and responsible for how we feel, think and react. If you're unhappy, you only have yourself to blame.