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RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - Judas - 08-27-2018
While I see your point, and agree with it to a certain degree, I believe your theory is flawed.
For a poor person, money = happiness, simply because most of, or at least the most important, issues they have in their life could be solved by having money.
For example being able to put food on the table, paying rent, etc.
But as you aquire more wealth, the issues in your life that don't link to money will become more apparent, and thus money will be less detrimental to wheter or not you are happy.
The size of the issue is in the eye's of the beholder.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - Xanders - 08-27-2018
(08-27-2018, 09:01 PM)Judas Wrote: The size of the issue is in the eye's of the beholder.
Yeah you're definitely right, it's in the eye of the beholder. I'm a poor guy, so money definitely puts a smile on my face.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - M00N66 - 08-27-2018
(08-26-2018, 10:16 PM)Divian Wrote: "Money can't buy happiness"Money makes everything better. People who say that are usually progressive and unemployed single moms.
I hate when common folk say this! Like, how can you say this when you aren't even in the position of having a boat load of money. I feel like
in order for you to say that you'd have to be making millions and have a bunch of assets. Other wise you aren't in any position to say that.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - Xanders - 08-27-2018
(08-27-2018, 10:55 PM)M00N66 Wrote:(08-26-2018, 10:16 PM)Divian Wrote: "Money can't buy happiness"Money makes everything better. People who say that are usually progressive and unemployed single moms.
I hate when common folk say this! Like, how can you say this when you aren't even in the position of having a boat load of money. I feel like
in order for you to say that you'd have to be making millions and have a bunch of assets. Other wise you aren't in any position to say that.
Lol, It's really one of those subjective "eye of the beholder" type shit.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - mothered - 08-28-2018
(08-27-2018, 08:52 PM)Divian Wrote:(08-27-2018, 04:15 AM)mothered Wrote:(08-27-2018, 03:35 AM)Aeolian Wrote: I've come across/met some fairly wealthy people who are spiraling downhill. The money they have isn't assisting at all.
I definitely agree with this.
Many years ago (20+), a close relative won the lottery and due to the Influx of funds, he had no Idea on how to live a normal and healthy lifestyle. He subsequently suffered stress and anxiety- namely due to the sudden change In life.
From a different viewpoint, what solidifies the fact that money can't buy happiness, Is those who're suffering a terminal Illness. No matter how much money they may have, It cannot do anything to their condition.
True but I still believe that the saying originated from a rich mans tongue which then became the saying of everyone else.
Don't get me wrong, If you have everything going for you (good health, the same with your relationship and so forth), money will certainly buy happiness- particularly when a huge mortgage and financial hardship Is part of the equation.
Nothing beats the liberty of not having financial concerns. But on the flip side, It cannot do a single thing when you've told you have 3 months to live.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - Xanders - 08-29-2018
(08-28-2018, 03:54 AM)mothered Wrote:(08-27-2018, 08:52 PM)Divian Wrote:(08-27-2018, 04:15 AM)mothered Wrote: I definitely agree with this.
Many years ago (20+), a close relative won the lottery and due to the Influx of funds, he had no Idea on how to live a normal and healthy lifestyle. He subsequently suffered stress and anxiety- namely due to the sudden change In life.
From a different viewpoint, what solidifies the fact that money can't buy happiness, Is those who're suffering a terminal Illness. No matter how much money they may have, It cannot do anything to their condition.
True but I still believe that the saying originated from a rich mans tongue which then became the saying of everyone else.
Don't get me wrong, If you have everything going for you (good health, the same with your relationship and so forth), money will certainly buy happiness- particularly when a huge mortgage and financial hardship Is part of the equation.
Nothing beats the liberty of not having financial concerns. But on the flip side, It cannot do a single thing when you've told you have 3 months to live.
You're definitely not wrong about that. To a poor man, financial liberty is all. So In my case, yes money equates to happiness. I live in a community where this phrase is said and regurgitated
over and over again.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - mothered - 08-29-2018
(08-29-2018, 02:19 PM)Divian Wrote:(08-28-2018, 03:54 AM)mothered Wrote:(08-27-2018, 08:52 PM)Divian Wrote: True but I still believe that the saying originated from a rich mans tongue which then became the saying of everyone else.
Don't get me wrong, If you have everything going for you (good health, the same with your relationship and so forth), money will certainly buy happiness- particularly when a huge mortgage and financial hardship Is part of the equation.
Nothing beats the liberty of not having financial concerns. But on the flip side, It cannot do a single thing when you've told you have 3 months to live.
You're definitely not wrong about that. To a poor man, financial liberty is all. So In my case, yes money equates to happiness. I live in a community where this phrase is said and regurgitated
over and over again.
I've known a few people that have terminated their marriage due to financial Issues, and one person even contemplated suicide.
Money can certainly make or break you.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - LaunchedFireFly - 08-29-2018
It doesn't seem like money is what creates happiness. Sure, when someone receives money, they can do things that create temporary happiness but there is also the aspect of providing. A man who buys himself an expensive meal will be satisfied for the day, but a man who buys his family a meal, will be satisfied for life. This is because the money from happiness comes for providing for others. It's comes from the good that can be done with it. Money is a heavy tool, if used correctly, it can build cities, if used poorly, it can ruin lives forever.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - M00N66 - 08-30-2018
(08-29-2018, 11:52 PM)LaunchedFireFly Wrote: A man who buys himself an expensive meal will be satisfied for the day, but a man who buys his family a meal, will be satisfied for life.
Until the legal system takes both hypothetical meals away from him, leaving him with no kids to feed it to, an ungrateful ex-wife, constant depression, a developed drinking issue, and a strong desire for the money he once had.
RE: I hate this saying (Rant) - Num5kull - 08-30-2018
You don't need money to be happy,
But it certainly helps when rent day comes around
lol