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RE: How to make my life fun? - mothered - 05-02-2018
(05-02-2018, 06:26 AM)reGEN Wrote: Maybe he means that he requires more effort to start a relationship because the "first impression" part is harder?
Judging by this comment, definitely so.
Quote:having a girlfriend is very hard for me
My post was more so based on the fact that appearance Isn't a significant contributing factor In establishing a relationship.
RE: How to make my life fun? - Telybell - 05-16-2018
Maybe thinking about what you want and what you need to do in order to make it happen in a systematic manner can help you. Here's a set of questions that might be suitable to your needs.
1. The Goal: What change would you like to make in your life now?
2. The Specific Steps: What specifically do you need to do this week in order to start to make that happen? 3. The Reality Check: What inner or outer obstacles might get in the way of you taking those steps this week?
4. Dealing with Obstacles: How will you deal with the obstacles that may come up this week?
5. The Motivation Check: Are you committed to doing what’s necessary to meet your goal this week?
This list is taken from a short paper aimed at therapists trying to help their clients to set and achieve goals, but I think it's applicable to the general public also.
source: http://docshare01.docshare.tips/files/25570/255701189.pdf