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RE: I am now depressed. - Blue - 11-10-2013
(11-10-2013, 07:55 AM)Oni Wrote: But if she doesn't care about you, it will be just as bad as if you dated someone you didn't care about. This girl you are ridiculously obsessed with, might not share your feelings, and probably doesn't care how you feel.
But she did at one point... I am sure. The are still deep down.. Deep down in her. I want to make her love me again. I will.
RE: I am now depressed. - w00t - 11-10-2013
Let me say what Oni hinted at, but is too kind to say.
Find a new girl. This one doesn't like you. There's literally billions of others, one of them is bound to suit your fancy. Until then, just have lots of meaningless sex like everyone else.
RE: I am now depressed. - Blue - 11-10-2013
(11-10-2013, 08:16 AM)w00t Wrote: Let me say what Oni hinted at, but is too kind to say.
Find a new girl. This one doesn't like you. There's literally billions of others, one of them is bound to suit your fancy. Until then, just have lots of meaningless sex like everyone else.
Yes of course I will do that. But I prefer to stay out of a relationship to do that. Sure I have a lot of " friends with benefits. " some that have boyfriends. I have plenty of girls I can bang. But that is not the point. I live in a small southern town. I mean serious? No girls around here that I find cute and like at the same time live around here. She was the only girl. She is like an open book. I love that. I miss her. I mean, I have moved on but she is always in the back of my mind. I have had like 4 girlfriends after her. But non of them are her. I broke up with her a week before I was going to her house on thanksgiving. I can't believe I did that. I was immature and stupid.
RE: I am now depressed. - w00t - 11-10-2013
Move? And if you're too young to move, then my advice becomes doubly true.
RE: I am now depressed. - foxhound - 11-10-2013
hello wow what a coincidence, my girl left me too, and she also is now,a after 3 months in with another guy....so i know how you feel.... and i don't have any advice i don't know what to do, obviously the guys here and in the whole world, who say to us that "well its like that, we just need to get another chick and move on" and bla bla bla but i can't understand that...i use to think that if you fight hard for something you could get it, but now i give up, recently, after 3 months of loneliness and pain, a few days ago she send me and mail and ask me to call her, after 3 months of total silence of course, and in the talk she says that she is already with other guy and....what you do you do in this situation? i close that email account, which was the only way of talking with her, because i never had a Facebook or other social network accounts, and we live far from each other, so no shared friend or places....what do you do if you cannot forget ? if you can not let go and at the same time is all lost now.... in the beginning she was cold and way, and everybody say to me that she would never be with me...but i ask her out and fight for months...i used to work in the hostel she was living in....so i make everything i could to make her happy...always help her, always heard her, finally after months she become my girlfriend , and in that moment i promised me that i would never give up with the goals i really care....and now I'm forced to give up in the reason to never give up xD
The only thing that get my attentions off is trying to fud my trojan but, all day long is only she in my mind and if a go outside i believe she is everywhere, cannot eat, sleep, exercise...
i now know the true and is......she a bitch....and i am stupid....
ps: i really think only time can heal something like this....and weed helps too...my weed won't left me xD
RE: I am now depressed. - Eclipse - 11-10-2013
I'm sorry about your situation Blue, but I agree with w00t. Wait until you find someone special. If you really cannot live without your Ex., then try and get her back, but only if you're sure it won't just crash and burn.
RE: I am now depressed. - Nyx - 11-10-2013
(11-10-2013, 06:33 AM)Blue Wrote:Girls. Girls make me depressed. So this is the 2nd time this girl has done it to me.
So, her and a boy will break up. Then she'll come to me then she will find another guy.
Then she will go to him. That is pretty much the shortened version of the story. So, Yeah I am depressed.
Your signature says you're the sexiest of them all, so you were just too good for her buddy! Hope you start feeling better man!
RE: I am now depressed. - Feat - 11-10-2013
So you're a rebound?
RE: I am now depressed. - Blue - 11-10-2013
(11-10-2013, 07:34 PM)Feat Wrote: So you're a rebound?
No. No I am not.
RE: I am now depressed. - Purphexyon - 11-10-2013
I wish I had something good to say here, but I know there's prolly no point to try, so instead I'll just give you a hug *big hugs*. I hope you're able to get through this.