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RE: What should I do ? :( - Feat - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 02:39 AM)Diamond Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:35 AM)Harvey Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:16 AM)Diamond Wrote: Exactly, me and her have been friends for years & this was the farthest we have been with each other.. I am just confused on how to get out of the friend zone :cry:
Well, she obviously has some kind of feelings for you right? I mean, she's not taking her shirt off if ya'll are just friends. How did you go from being intimate to the topic of "let's be firends"?
We talked about it this morning after everything happened. Even this morning she was sleeping in my bed while we were holding hands (might sound gay but I don't give a fuck). She does have feelings for me, I know that. But the thing is she is best friends with my sister & she says if me and her dated that it would ruin the friendship between her & my sister..
It could possibly be your sisters fault, as I've nearly fucked my brother over before. I'm overprotective of my sibling(s), so maybe your sister said something to her :kiddingme:
RE: What should I do ? :( - Sin - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 02:40 AM)Feat Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:39 AM)Diamond Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:35 AM)Harvey Wrote: Well, she obviously has some kind of feelings for you right? I mean, she's not taking her shirt off if ya'll are just friends. How did you go from being intimate to the topic of "let's be firends"?
We talked about it this morning after everything happened. Even this morning she was sleeping in my bed while we were holding hands (might sound gay but I don't give a fuck). She does have feelings for me, I know that. But the thing is she is best friends with my sister & she says if me and her dated that it would ruin the friendship between her & my sister..
It could possibly be your sisters fault, as I've nearly fucked my brother over before. I'm overprotective of my sibling(s), so maybe your sister said something to her :kiddingme:
My sister in the past has told me she doesn't care of we date, just not to hurt. But I don't think my sister knows how much this girl means to me..
RE: What should I do ? :( - Feat - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 02:43 AM)Diamond Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:40 AM)Feat Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:39 AM)Diamond Wrote: We talked about it this morning after everything happened. Even this morning she was sleeping in my bed while we were holding hands (might sound gay but I don't give a fuck). She does have feelings for me, I know that. But the thing is she is best friends with my sister & she says if me and her dated that it would ruin the friendship between her & my sister..
It could possibly be your sisters fault, as I've nearly fucked my brother over before. I'm overprotective of my sibling(s), so maybe your sister said something to her :kiddingme:
My sister in the past has told me she doesn't care of we date, just not to hurt. But I don't think my sister knows how much this girl means to me..
I suggest you talk with your sister honestly, I feel like she might be cockblocking you.
RE: What should I do ? :( - Sin - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 02:44 AM)Feat Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:43 AM)Diamond Wrote:(09-09-2013, 02:40 AM)Feat Wrote: It could possibly be your sisters fault, as I've nearly fucked my brother over before. I'm overprotective of my sibling(s), so maybe your sister said something to her :kiddingme:
My sister in the past has told me she doesn't care of we date, just not to hurt. But I don't think my sister knows how much this girl means to me..
I suggest you talk with your sister honestly, I feel like she might be cockblocking you.
I hate that other people can't be happy because someone else is unhappy :grumpy:
RE: What should I do ? :( - Guardian - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 02:39 AM)Diamond Wrote: We talked about it this morning after everything happened. Even this morning she was sleeping in my bed while we were holding hands (might sound gay but I don't give a fuck). She does have feelings for me, I know that. But the thing is she is best friends with my sister & she says if me and her dated that it would ruin the friendship between her & my sister..
Do NOT allow yourself to be placed in the friend zone. You will be stuck there forever, and it will be a pain in the ass to to get out. Its a girl, they're always confusing in the head. No matter what she says, if she took her shirt off, she is in to you.
The sister thin? Bogus. I actually married one of my friend's sister, and it works out perfectly.
RE: What should I do ? :( - Crimin4L - 09-09-2013
This is what you got to do. Make sure you guys are alone and tell her, Its me or your boyfriend. Don't say it exactly like that but make her chose. Say that you have been having strong feelings for her lately and she needs to pick between you or her boyfriend. Make her feel a little bad for you by saying "its not fair that you are playing with my emotions."
If you do this I am pretty sure it will work, but it may not. If she does decide to pick her boyfriend then forget her. Trust me, its better to find out the hard way instead of being lead on for years thinking that maybe one day it will happen. Take your chances, that's what life is about
RE: What should I do ? :( - OversouL - 09-09-2013
Maybe you're just having an infatuation. :L
RE: What should I do ? :( - Divine - 09-09-2013
She said she wanted to be "best friends"... maybe she meant fuck buddy?
RE: What should I do ? :( - Hoodie - 09-09-2013
1) There is nothing called the friend zone, it's a figment of your imagination.
2) Don't let it slide like that, you'll regret not taking it to the next level
3) If your sister is okay with it, she knows damn well the consequences, you should do it.
4) Stop being Beta, get her naked, fuck her, and make her yours. Be an Alpha.
RE: What should I do ? :( - Sin - 09-09-2013
(09-09-2013, 11:35 PM)Soul Wrote: She said she wanted to be "best friends"... maybe she meant fuck buddy?
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING !
Maybe "best friends" is her way of saying, we can flirt and other shit. She said she has a thing for me and always has..