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RE: how your life going? - SonicXD1 - 05-19-2023
atm my life sucks i am burntout becasue of collage i developt a anxiety disorder
and i cant leave the house without pain and discomfort. i have not seen my friends in over a year because the live where i used to study. my gf is living with me it was intended to be just to get our grip and move out but here i am no work no income and wish that everyday would be my last.
RE: how your life going? - Bobbydrax - 05-19-2023
i am a bit lost in my life. I wake up every day with no purpose
RE: how your life going? - juano76x - 05-20-2023
(12-19-2022, 02:40 PM)greyok Wrote: Good in many ways and bad in others. I am still single at an age where I could have adult children almost. I'm almost done with my bachelor degree and have a grad plan. I'm getting a promotion at work soon. I have a side business with good income alone plus my new job.
I'm very busy but can travel/see the sights/enjoy nightlife with by business. I work every day.
I am not from my current city and lost my social group a long time ago. I don't date but occasionally find an easy chick to screw or tip for release. I am definitely not ugly but the BS from women is so off-putting that I don't want to deal with most. Business arrangements are honestly preferable and I'm considering just becoming a donor or breeding and fleeing to reproduce.
Sounds like some people l know. What is your side business if l may ask?
(05-19-2023, 10:55 PM)Bobbydrax Wrote: i am a bit lost in my life. I wake up every day with no purpose
Why not design one. All it takes is your focus, pen and paper to write down the things you need, not want to achieve. Take time to find the gift that life has given you. Is always better to just a make a decision rather than making no decision. Otherwise, life becomes unpredictable that way because of stagnation. Just make choices, they don't have to be perfect choices. You will never know if it was the right choice until you exercise it .
For designing a clear purpose the structure is simple. It is divided into 2 parts, which what you enjoy and merging it with how it will help humanity in what way? For example, l would like to teach self-improvement to people to consolidate individual empowerment or l want to create my own game or teach gaming to make the world a more connected and fun experience.
RE: how your life going? - Bobbydrax - 05-20-2023
(05-20-2023, 12:21 AM)juano76x Wrote:(12-19-2022, 02:40 PM)greyok Wrote: Good in many ways and bad in others. I am still single at an age where I could have adult children almost. I'm almost done with my bachelor degree and have a grad plan. I'm getting a promotion at work soon. I have a side business with good income alone plus my new job.
I'm very busy but can travel/see the sights/enjoy nightlife with by business. I work every day.
I am not from my current city and lost my social group a long time ago. I don't date but occasionally find an easy chick to screw or tip for release. I am definitely not ugly but the BS from women is so off-putting that I don't want to deal with most. Business arrangements are honestly preferable and I'm considering just becoming a donor or breeding and fleeing to reproduce.
Sounds like some people l know. What is your side business if l may ask?
(05-19-2023, 10:55 PM)Bobbydrax Wrote: i am a bit lost in my life. I wake up every day with no purpose
Why not design one. All it takes is your focus, pen and paper to write down the things you need, not want to achieve. Take time to find the gift that life has given you. Is always better to just a make a decision rather than making no decision. Otherwise, life becomes unpredictable that way because of stagnation. Just make choices, they don't have to be perfect choices. You will never know if it was the right choice until you exercise it .
For designing a clear purpose the structure is simple. It is divided into 2 parts, which what you enjoy and merging it with how it will help humanity in what way? For example, l would like to teach self-improvement to people to consolidate individual empowerment or l want to create my own game or teach gaming to make the world a more connected and fun experience.
You are right but how can i do this when in few years im gonna have to start working to earn my money. And my job is going to be stressful asf. I should try to earn 2000€/months in side hustle to be really free and enjoy Life has its maximum, easier said than done
RE: how your life going? - greyok - 05-20-2023
(05-20-2023, 12:21 AM)juano76x Wrote: Sounds like some people l know. What is your side business if l may ask?
I have a few. I was a commercial truck driver for many years. I still have the same company. I was using it for food and package delivery. Not a great job at first glance, but the job itself is good. I drove around rich areas with no boss, going to all of the nice high rise apartments and to the downtown nightlife spots. It was like going out on the town every night but I was at work. I could listen to whatever I wanted and stop whenever. Put a lot of wear and tear on my car, though. I also contact on a few sites for tech and writing work. AI helps a ton with that (and with college). I'm actually planning on getting a master's degree in artificial intelligence as I found a program that's specific to the tools I use.
For now, though, I've been picking up overtime shifts at my job since I got a supervisory role a few months ago. I put a lot on the backburner so I can finish my degree. I sold my car and just have a motorcycle now, but it saves me a ton of cash. I stopped spending as much as I could and cook at home, do free stuff for fun, work more, and am in a decent routine. I have some female friends at work I'm slowly building things up with, but it's nothing like the fast easy money lifestyle I was used to. I had a lot of cash saved up and spent it all over the past 3 years or so. I slept with like 30 women, though.
I found out by circumstance that wellbutrin helps me a lot. I originally got prescribed it to help quit smoking. They give it to people with nicotine gum because it counteracts how cigarettes affect the brain. I feel a lot better, sleep less, and have more energy, so I went online to one of those sites that prescribe whatever to anyone legally (nothing narcotic) and got a prescription. It's helped a ton.
RE: how your life going? - ElijahGonzal - 07-11-2023
Everything is fine and I do my best to improve it as much as I can. I hope you feel well.
RE: how your life going? - seomarket - 07-12-2023
im doing really good,you have to love your self,and reguler physical activity,and praying is a wonderfull solution for stress depression and all kind of problem
RE: how your life going? - PADGERS3 - 08-03-2023
Suddenly a lot better than it was, but I'm still apprehensive of what the future holds
RE: how your life going? - novron99 - 11-25-2023
Could be going worse, slowly but steady.
RE: how your life going? - adamsgro - 11-25-2023
Not good honestly.
I can usually find the good in any scenario i am in, but this time I really don't know.
I have to come up with 75k CAD by end of December or I'm literally done for.(not exaggerated)
Been trying to SE stuff among other things, but I don't know how I will get to 75K.
Guess I'm just ranting here so at least someone knows about my plight and if I stop posting sometime in late December, I wish you all the best.