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RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - d4ggm4sk - 08-04-2021
Attraction is usually sexual in nature. since its a feeling, you cant really describe it, but its definately sexual.
youre like drawn to someone and you feel this strange feeling of desire of that person.
love and attraction arent the same thing.
you cant love someone you arent attracted to.
and you cant marry someone who is only a friend.
but you can be attracted to almost anyone!
even if youre not in love with them,
many relationships sadly die out because there isnt enough sexiness or attraction.
also many, for example myself, are really good at being sexy,
we may be a bit more of a player to others,
but we arent good at maintaining relationships and stay with the same person.
or like........... i know people are attracted to me, i can easily "mindfuck" someone with chemistry,
but I dont think is easy to stay with someone.
also, if youre curious but insecure about sex, Ive talked to many people who havent had sex with more than 1 or 2 persons
and they are maybe 30 or up. what I mean is, sex isnt always something people do all the time,
atleast not everyone, theres usually more common with a relationship than sex.
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - sunflower - 08-06-2021
(08-03-2021, 12:10 AM)Oni Wrote:(01-03-2021, 12:47 PM)Mr.Kurd Wrote: I think relationships based on needs and give/get balance. Sex is also one of needs that could be accomplished by marrage(Eastern culture and riligion rules) and relationships.
Another thing, Both parties should really understand that for everything you have to pay even while writing this post I'm paying using my time balance same for relationship it is not easy and you will have to pay which is not seen nowadays. They will only stay for a couple of months and can't handle all these fees.
Cinema also play a very important role. In movies they will show you only a few sides in relationships and not the reality. I mean when you start your relationsip based on the fantacy life in movies and waiting everyday your partner coming back home smiling and with a flower? 100% you will get shocked that this is not the reality
(01-03-2021, 02:53 AM)Oni Wrote: Some people aren't very sexual, whereas others are perpetually horny. Certain couples simply aren't compatible (based on their needs) and nobody wants to be in a non-reciprocal relation
According to the Sharia (Law), Muslims are allowed to practice polygyny. According to the Quran, a man may have up to four legal wives only if there is a fear of being unjust to non-married orphan girls. Even then, the husband is required to treat all wives equally.
I think this is kinda helpful in many ways,
A horny man especially if he was rich he will not go behind sex/porn if he had more wives. You know even for intercourse you have limits.
As Male/Female rate is around 1/8 this also another beinfit which reduce the un-marrid girls rate. so they are no longer away of a normal relationship
Most men fail to keep just one woman happy. Keeping four happy would be the equivalent of hell.
you are 100% correct!!!!!!!!
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - Lifeh - 09-09-2021
Intimacy is very important, but honestly been comfortable is the same.
Like i have back scars from acne and it makes me super uncomfortable to take my shirt off.. Yeah I've been depressed about it.
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - Spooky - 09-16-2021
I've mostly been a sexual horndog my whole life due to the abuse I experienced at a young age, but i'll tell you what. Abstinence from sex & porn have been the best thing I could've done for my mental health. My head is clear and am thinking with the head on my shoulders, not the one in my pants.
But to each their own. I know if I am lucky enough to marry a wifeable woman then there will certainly be some discussion about sex before we seal the deal. Of course nothing will be pressured, and it will 100% be concensual.
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - ziiark - 09-17-2021
For me, having sex is something very important in a relation. Its like, the way you give all your love to your partner, without this, you cant get a durable relation. Thats my opinion
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - Accident Man - 09-19-2021
It is as important as the people in the relationship deem it to be.
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - mothered - 09-19-2021
Quote:How Important Is Sex in a Relationship?Not as Important as being "happy" In a relationship - with or without sex.
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - scargo - 04-05-2022
no sex, no relationship, whats the point to have relations without sex
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - Drako - 04-05-2022
(04-05-2022, 04:11 AM)scargo Wrote: no sex, no relationship, whats the point to have relations without sex
This mf spittin
RE: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? - PYA - 04-08-2022
If theres no sex, you might as well just be "friends", intimacy is mandatory for a relationship IMO.
If two people don't keep that "Spark" alive it will slowly stagnate overtime, and grow dull. But then again I'm not one for monogamy either. So I avoid "relationships" like that overall. I usually have multiple people that are comfortable hanging around one another, and know everyone intimate, if they can't adopt that value, then its just not going to work out.