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How to make my life fun? - Vitas - 04-30-2018
I don't know why but all the time I do something it gets boring and boring the more I do it. I tried doing many things and not sticking to a thing but I always got bored. Sorry for my english cause english is not my primary language. I'm also not handsome so having a girlfriend is very hard for me I have a few friends because I'am an introvert. Any activities that would make my life fun?
Any suggestion to make my life fun?
Thank you for your responds!!
RE: How to make my life fun? - mothered - 04-30-2018
(04-30-2018, 08:11 AM)Vitas Wrote: I don't know why but all the time I do something it gets boring and boring the more I do it.
That's because you've yet to find an Interest that you're truly passionate about.
When you awake of a morning and cannot wait to pursue your Interest(s), that's when you know It's for you.
RE: How to make my life fun? - Oni - 04-30-2018
Try out new activities. Go to events you're curious about. You're going to try a lot of things you aren't passionate about, before you find something you are.
RE: How to make my life fun? - Synthx - 04-30-2018
Look man, I haven't dated a girl since I was in the 7th grade, and I'm a Senior in High School now. I feel you on the girlfriend thing. As far as something you want interest in, just keep looking, look up stuff online and see what others are doing, and see if there is anything that interests you.
RE: How to make my life fun? - mothered - 05-01-2018
(04-30-2018, 01:55 PM)Oni Wrote: You're going to try a lot of things you aren't passionate about, before you find something you are.
Very well put.
It will be a trial and error scenario but when a suitable Interest comes to hand, It'll speak for Itself.
RE: How to make my life fun? - Blue - 05-01-2018
Me personally my life is only fun because of my friends, we don’t party as much, but we used too, now all we do is chill with each other and just crack jokes all day, play games on our phone, they smoke some of them if they aren’t on probation like me lol. If your into drugs and all that it can make a day fun but if you have an addictive personality I would stay away from anything and everything excepct weed maybe. I’m a bit of a loner so being alone for me is nothing. Having a girlfriend is overrated go fuck sum till you click with somebody. This is coming from somebody who lives in a small town so take it with a grain of salt.
RE: How to make my life fun? - Qlova - 05-01-2018
Two of my favourite past times that don't include leaving the house are music and youtube. Both can motivate you and inspire you to be more creative, whilst also passing time and making you feel good.
I guess I would class myself as an introvert and I have became more introverted as I've got older, losing touch with big groups of friends and many people as I prefer just a small circle of close friends. It's important to get out and do stuff and as you chill with your friends you'll talk about stuff you like and it all starts from here. Find a mutual interest and have fun. The girlfriend thing will fall in place when the time is right, just have fun for now
RE: How to make my life fun? - sleaze - 05-01-2018
Well uh, if I'm not on my computer I'm out driving. Building a racecar will consume your wallet and time so it's a fairly good idea if you're committed and enjoy driving / are somewhere with enjoyable roads.
RE: How to make my life fun? - mothered - 05-02-2018
(04-30-2018, 08:11 AM)Vitas Wrote: I'm also not handsome so having a girlfriend is very hard for me
That's Immaterial.
In terms of a solid relationship, It's "who you are" as a person (that counts), not how females perceive you by appearance. Most relationships die due to communication breakdowns and/or lack of affection. Being a good looking guy who lacks such qualities, will most likely find himself putting pen to paper to finalize his divorce.
RE: How to make my life fun? - reGEN - 05-02-2018
(05-02-2018, 05:38 AM)mothered Wrote:(04-30-2018, 08:11 AM)Vitas Wrote: I'm also not handsome so having a girlfriend is very hard for me
That's Immaterial.
In terms of a solid relationship, It's "who you are" as a person (that counts), not how females perceive you by appearance. Most relationships die due to communication breakdowns and/or lack of affection. Being a good looking guy who lacks such qualities, will most likely find himself putting pen to paper to finalize his divorce.
Maybe he means that he requires more effort to start a relationship because the "first impression" part is harder? But meeting people and making friends in general should be a nice thing whether it's entirely focused on dating or not. If it's not meant to be then you've at least made a friend so there's really nothing to lose.
