[Yuji]

Generally speaking, the loss as a result of divorce costs Is calculated on everything- house, solicitor fees, account savings and so forth.

And then there's the emotional scarring which can take years to heal, If ever.

No in the US if the spouse cannot get a divorce lawyer they will get one and you will pay for it in the end.

That's what I was referring to- divorce costs payable by the partner.

From a male's standpoint, It's not right at all. If the spouse cannot afford a lawyer, that's her problem.

No it's considered "fair". It's because some wo(men) are stay at homes and had no income their entire lives, so they have to have a divorce lawyer if it gets messy.

[mothered]

No in the US if the spouse cannot get a divorce lawyer they will get one and you will pay for it in the end.

That's what I was referring to- divorce costs payable by the partner.

From a male's standpoint, It's not right at all. If the spouse cannot afford a lawyer, that's her problem.

No it's considered "fair". It's because some wo(men) are stay at homes and had no income their entire lives, so they have to have a divorce lawyer if it gets messy.

Speaking for women, It's their decision to be stay-at-home moms their "entire" lives.

Once the kids are old enough and begin schooling, the mother can easily find employment during school hours.

[natifix]

Well in my case, I fucked up and let her have her way. I loved my wife that much, and wanted to have a family and did the best I could. She was never happy with it, and always had a wandering eye. I knew all along, it was my fault for not seeing it. I didn't trust my intuition.

[mothered]

Well in my case, I fucked up and let her have her way. I loved my wife that much, and wanted to have a family and did the best I could. She was never happy with it, and always had a wandering eye. I knew all along, it was my fault for not seeing it. I didn't trust my intuition.

I'm sorry to hear that. You're not the only one, I fully understand.

You cannot change history, but you can change what happens from that/this point onward.

[natifix]

Exactly, if I can survive catastrophe, so can anyone. Im glad its all over. Its been 15 years since I got married, or more. Time is nice. when you loose track of it that is.

[toonblue]

Exactly, if I can survive catastrophe, so can anyone. Im glad its all over. Its been 15 years since I got married, or more. Time is nice. when you loose track of it that is.

Time is the only thing that allows you to just get over it sometimes. I know how you feel brother.