[pandandesign]

Ok, I have just found out that my wife hangs out with a guy whom I didn't know. She said she just went to dinner with him and had a short conversation. That just had made me really mad or perhaps I was just jealous that she hung out with a guy. I didn't mind if she hung out with a group of friends but she and this guys alone. That made me really angry and I did talk to her about this. Was I being overreact or should I just let it go? Please give me some advices.

[Exotic]

I think you need to learn to trust your wife.

[Skitstep]

I think jealousy is very normal and should be watched closely. The cheating rate these days is absolutely insane. I can understand your jealousy OP, but just talk to her about it in a nice calm way. If it's really bothering you, tell her to comfort you a little bit on the subject. But whatever you do, don't assume unless you have proof and don't get mad at her for it.

[Jesvper]

Dinner?

I believe dinner is more of an intimate outing.
You had every right to talk to her about it, I'd be upset if my partner went to dinner with another man.

If you believe the guy is getting out of hand simply talk to him, be kind and gentlemen like. If he's a complete cocky douche for your wife then escalate it to a beat down, throw him over a bridge and resume your happy life with the wife.

[Illuminati]

Depends on the circumstances. Haven't had this happen so I couldn't personally say.

[Eternal Minds]

I don't know, it'll be fine if she just hangs out with the guy, but dinner and stuff?

[Skitstep]

I don't know, it'll be fine if she just hangs out with the guy, but dinner and stuff?

That's what I said - I could care less about her hanging out with him (Not at his house alone or anything) but when it comes to going to dinner with him and what not, I'm not about that..