[violenc3]

First I want to say Thank you to the Administrators of Sinisterly for allowing me to join the community.

Quick Background, (Yes I am a dumbass for allowing myself to be in this Position in the first place. ) This dude been hanging out with "my girl" for a while now. I already knew wtf it was from the start, I can live with an open relationship.. But this dude and her swore they are only friends, Until I started finding evidence, texts, snaps, her going out when im sleeping, etc... But the dude finds it funny to come around, hang out, say underhanded shit like I dont realize, Drops us off groceries( because we are financially challenged at the moment) and leaves a belt behind the door tied up like it was for choking during sex. Asks if I want food when they go out and brings back a kids meal from McDonalds ( ill admit kinda funny), gives me resealed pack of gilette razor heads that are dulled the fuck out, I started getting messaged on social media by fake accounts, even had coworkers he knew keeping tabs on me at my new job until I had 2 quit because she wouldnt let me sleep until 4am and work was at 7. Again its my fault for staying in this situation . I would really appreciate any type of advice or recommendations. I have his name, address, dob, and a former employer. Again THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME JOIN THE COMMUNITY!

[morphios]

I would recommend to not do anything now.
Acting out on emotions tends to be the quickest and easiest way to slip up.
But that also only applies to me, you might be different.

[mothered]

Moved from The Lounge to Serious Discussion.

[violenc3]

I would recommend to not do anything now.
Acting out on emotions tends to be the quickest and easiest way to slip up.
But that also only applies to me, you might be different.

You are correct, I appreciate that perspective. The long game is always a good plan.

[Ninjavanish123]

I remember the most common revenge on a few forums was sending a shit load amounts of takeaways to his address that he is expected to pay ( from different phone numbers) small revenge but was funny to see but I agree play the long run however don't take his shit play him at his own game otherwise you may miss the opportunity to have revenge

[greyok]

You honestly sound jealous and paranoid. A lot of that could be totally unrelated. I get a ton of fake accounts online and coworkers will creep in you no matter what.

Just ask her if she wants an open relationship and let her know you feel jealous about the guy and just want to clear it up. Tell her it's ok if she does but you just want to know and stay honest with each other.

[LawDogUSA]

Oh man, I get your frustrations and need to want to act. But now is not the time. Step out of your life and look in, what would you tell someone in the same situation and be honest with yourself. And then think 10 years from now and look back, is it worth it to do anything? What did you actually lose? You can't go through life looking at when things go wrong, you plot and take revenge. This worth getting in trouble over, ruining your life over, probably not at all. You realized what was going on and what mistakes you made. If you were going to do anything, use the situation for what it's worth. You are getting free stuff, and assistance, unless you have a better situation , ride the wave of what you have, as long as you are comfortable. She's coming home to you, sounds like you understand/understood the relationship and what to expect. Use the situation to your advantage.

Revenge may sound good now, but you probably won't care much a year from now.

Keep us posted and let us know how you are doing.

G

[TrippiNonU]

If you got their phone number sign up for every gay dating site you can, sigh then up for snap email, sign them up for snail mail, posts of Angie's list and every forum like that about needing help tearing down a house you bought and tell them to be at his house 6am for 20 dollars an hour, make fake child molester flyers and post them all over his home/work area. Switch his license plate out with someone else's tag then remove registration stickers on the tag so it expired. (If your a real all hole you can throw a bag of dope under seat to) fuck his sister/ mother/grandmother/aunt/cousins. Got a huge zip tie and zip it around the drive train (when he is moving will make a terrible noise, when he stops to look it will stop) remove his lugs and gorilla glue then back on then 24 hours later flatten tires, locktight oil filter and drain plug. Phish his passwords for Facebook etc and then post all kinds of fucked up things. Clone his accounts and fill them with gay shit.

That should be enough to get you started

[Flgmtn99]

Move everything in the house to the left 1 inch

[Ehaltar]

If you got their phone number sign up for every gay dating site you can, sigh then up for snap email, sign them up for snail mail, posts of Angie's list and every forum like that about needing help tearing down a house you bought and tell them to be at his house 6am for 20  dollars an hour, make fake child molester flyers and post them all over his home/work area.  Switch his license plate out with someone else's tag then remove registration stickers on the tag so it expired. (If your a real all hole you can throw a bag of dope under seat to) fuck his sister/ mother/grandmother/aunt/cousins. Got a huge zip tie and zip it around the drive train (when he is moving will make a terrible noise, when he stops to look it will stop) remove his lugs and gorilla glue then back on then 24 hours later flatten tires, locktight oil filter and drain plug. Phish his passwords for Facebook etc and then post all kinds of fucked up things. Clone his accounts and fill them with gay shit.

That should be enough to get you started

I have the phone number of someone who abused my trust and stole 40 euros from me. I don't care much about the money itself, but I care about the fact that I made myself a fool and waited a few days before being blocked. Not to mention that he stole from a student.

I tried looking for scam websites to subscribe his phone number to, but couldnt find any.

CAn you help?