Need relationship advice!

cum · 11-24-2015, 05:55 PM

Okay so guys or girls, i need your help.. I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and we are a fun cute and amazing couple, i love her and she loves me, we don't really have any issues with each-other or anything but today something happened and it worries me. She told me she doesn't feel the same connection as we had when we first started dating, now im hoping its just that maybe the routine that we have is getting old to her and hopefully i can do something to make her feel that same connection again.So if you have been threw this can u give me some ideas of how to surprise her, or something new to make her feel that connection? (NO SEX RELATED IDEAS PLEASE)

PS-Give me real advice please, i don't wanna mess our relationship up and i want her to feel the connection like she did when we first got together!

Chroma · 11-24-2015, 05:59 PM

Alright, I've had this issue before. And, it's fairly easy to resolve. First, sit down and talk to her. Just, talk. You want to figure out what's wrong, I know you said she isn't feeling the same connection anymore, and all of that. But, it could be something deeper than that, and you really want to figure out how deep it goes. Second, do some fun stuff with her! I don't know where you live, your town or anything. But, like where I live there is some really fun things to do around here, that are free. So, if you're not making a ton of money, and you don't have any ideas in store. Go online and search up some fun, free things to do in your area. It'll get boring to her after a while if it's the same old thing, so why not spice it up? Third, I don't know how old you are, or how old she is, and I don't know how you or her feel about this, but involve something sexual in the relationship, it'll make things fun for you AND her, which is very important if she's getting bored of the same old thing in your relationship. I wish you the best of luck with you and your lady friend, good luck friend!

EDIT: I just noticed you said nothing sex related, however my statement stands. It doesn't need to be full on fucking, just start low.

cum · 11-24-2015, 06:40 PM

(11-24-2015, 05:59 PM)Aim Wrote: Alright, I've had this issue before. And, it's fairly easy to resolve. First, sit down and talk to her. Just, talk. You want to figure out what's wrong, I know you said she isn't feeling the same connection anymore, and all of that. But, it could be something deeper than that, and you really want to figure out how deep it goes. Second, do some fun stuff with her! I don't know where you live, your town or anything. But, like where I live there is some really fun things to do around here, that are free. So, if you're not making a ton of money, and you don't have any ideas in store. Go online and search up some fun, free things to do in your area. It'll get boring to her after a while if it's the same old thing, so why not spice it up? Third, I don't know how old you are, or how old she is, and I don't know how you or her feel about this, but involve something sexual in the relationship, it'll make things fun for you AND her, which is very important if she's getting bored of the same old thing in your relationship. I wish you the best of luck with you and your lady friend, good luck friend!

EDIT: I just noticed you said nothing sex related, however my statement stands. It doesn't need to be full on fucking, just start low.

i said no sex related things because i figured i'd have a lot of fuckboys commenting inappropriate things is all lol.

Red_SF · 11-24-2015, 10:11 PM

Talk to her about it don't just sit on what she said and freak out. Take her out for the whole weekend and make her feel special again just like you did to win her over.

Soup · 11-25-2015, 02:08 AM

Take her on a date, just you and her. Make time for you and her time, after all a relationship should involve no one else but you and your significant other.

OutOfSight · 11-25-2015, 02:19 AM

I thought you were the girl ffs

Chroma · 11-25-2015, 08:27 PM

(11-25-2015, 02:08 AM)Soup Wrote: Take her on a date, just you and her. Make time for you and her time, after all a relationship should involve no one else but you and your significant other.

This is a very good idea, it's worked for me in the past.

cum · 11-25-2015, 08:36 PM

(11-25-2015, 08:27 PM)WWF Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 02:08 AM)Soup Wrote: Take her on a date, just you and her. Make time for you and her time, after all a relationship should involve no one else but you and your significant other.

This is a very good idea, it's worked for me in the past.

she fucking dumped me man

Chroma · 11-25-2015, 08:37 PM

(11-25-2015, 08:36 PM)cum Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 08:27 PM)WWF Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 02:08 AM)Soup Wrote: Take her on a date, just you and her. Make time for you and her time, after all a relationship should involve no one else but you and your significant other.

This is a very good idea, it's worked for me in the past.

she fucking dumped me man

Woah, dude are you serious? If you want to talk private message me and we can talk over Skype. I'm so sorry..

cum · 11-25-2015, 08:43 PM

(11-25-2015, 08:37 PM)WWF Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 08:36 PM)cum Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 08:27 PM)WWF Wrote:
(11-25-2015, 02:08 AM)Soup Wrote: Take her on a date, just you and her. Make time for you and her time, after all a relationship should involve no one else but you and your significant other.

This is a very good idea, it's worked for me in the past.

she fucking dumped me man

Woah, dude are you serious? If you want to talk private message me and we can talk over Skype. I'm so sorry..

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