[LawDogUSA]

Ok, here is an update, and you can't make this stuff up. This craziness was supposed to end about a year ago, well it did and it didn't. What does that mean:. As if my ex could not get any crazier, she did the craziest thing I have ever seen in Court. Now we were doing zoom and it wasn't easy to get things signed and done. What had happened is my ex lied and said she could not afford the house and we were forced to sell, which was fine. Market was good and it sold overpriced and with in weeks. I believe I had mentioned she had a free legal team in the beginning, yes free, and they fired her as a client for mass lies, she then later got a power lawyer, who after about 2 months fired my ex as a client for, more lies and bad behavior. So now we go to the show down both with no lawyers, but I had my advisor. Judge doesn't like it this way but basically splits it in half, she keeps hers, I keep mine, stuff is sold, and a parenting plan is put in place and she advised to stay close when she buys a new place. The ex can't get the final papers signed on zoom so she is told by the Judge to print them out and , I have to sign , she has to sign, and she has to have it back in by 8am. If I'm needed they will notify me and I can be on at 9am zoom.

Well, I knew she wasn't going to have me sign, and I text and called her, nothing. Figured this will be bad because how will the ex explain this. I log on at 9am and there's no Court. I hear nothing. 5 days later I hear from the courts, I'm divorced, wtf, how??? She did the unthinkable and forged my signatures and turned it into the Judge. You have to be brain dead to do that. That's bad. I notify the Courts immediately by email, and I'm told to refile and make a motion, that went into place and I had to wait.

In the meantime, she moves 30 miles away in a house that was double the mortgage she said she couldn't afford, and I began driving to grab my kid the 60 mile trip,, it's traffic all the way, every way, takes at least 45 minutes each way, I was late by 4 minutes one time. She lawyered up with laywer #3 and I get my own. And the battle is back on.

My ex wants my days with my kids reduced, and my youngest goes to his 5th school in 5 years. I miss some days because my mother suffers her 3 rd stroke and is in bad shape, sedated 80 percent of the time, Mom is not ever supposed to be home again, and I need to prepare for the worst. I had to miss some days with my kid, because I have to get her things together and right, come to find out her house is in foreclosure, I'm now crashing and burning, my health goes, and I'm trying to figure out life, my career is over, I'm klinging to why my life should matter, my girlfriend was stressed and my own Father who was divorced from my Mom for 30 years, turned on me because I wouldn't and couldn't provide him with info on my Mom and divorce. My girlfriend looked at me and said OMG the whole world is against you and she felt helpless. This was the worst thing ever.

I began to get wind of my ex's plan to not let me see my kid, and I find the strength to keep doing what I need to get him, my ex mad it more hell by calling the Police almost every time I had my son. He got scared, but he isn't scared like a normal kid. He tells me Dad, I always have your back, Mom is wrong, I love you both, but she is not right, keep fighting for me, fighting for what's right like you always have done, she won't let me see grandma in the facility so bring her home so I can see her. I'll be fine and I need you fine too. Get things right here so I can come stay by you, these"Bitches be lying" He had just turned 9. Well light my fire, boom, on I go, limping around and doing my thing, rescue my Mom's house from forclosure, use my days and time, times with my son, my girlfriend is an in home caregiver, we rehabbed her ourselves, the 3 of us, and we got her home, GF gets paid to take care of her, my health improves, the ex is in mass trouble, Judge wanted time to see how things would go, and she crashed and burned , did some horrible things, ex doesn't communicate and we needed to wait till this summer because Junior had to finish school where he excelled and is in almost all gifted glasses, and the showdown is coming in a few weeks, summer time, Junior will be with me while things are sorted out. My ex faces the Judge about her signature forging, fictious complaints, denial of time, stealing and destroying my stuff, fraud and forgery. The whole thing will be re-written, this summer.

As much as I dislike what my ex has done, I don't believe keeping my son away from her will benefit him. This is a co-parent state, and I know co-parenting works best, she doesn't behave and get help she gets no time, she will have to pay back what she owes also and since she moved so far, she has to do all driving, though I will be happy to help. She faces fines and possibly losing her job, and being charged çriminaly.

I have to teach my son what's right. He sees she turns her back on us when he's with me, and sees that I'm still trying to teach him the right things. I'm constantly offering to help her in ways I can, because it's right. He sees that there's choices in life and there's right and wrong ones.

She threatens to earse his Roblox account she took from us, it was under my name. She tried to block me from his school, didn't happen, bad mouth me, hide from the Police, all kinds of things. She has tried to use COVID 7 times as a deterrent for him to see me. And now they are all wise to her games. She didn't know we were all watching in detail.

So Mom is home, house has been recovered, son finished school (few weeks left) ranked in top 5 percent, GF is on bored and is technically my finance (I kid you not she asked me and then schools me and SEs her own ring, that's not bullshit, we had to special order it, they delivered it, no signature needed, and would you believe someone stole it or I'd didn't arrive, got the money back. There was lots of stuff that didn't show up or was taken. I had found out that PS5 I bought my daughter last year, she never opened it and just sold it. I tried 3 times this year, and the freaking things weren't delivered. One was taken by UPs, one the FedEx driver was supposed to have me sign personally, and the driver signed for it himself, and the 3rd one the picture wasnt the right address even. Bad luck huh, man something was up. But we have moved.

Life dealt me more blows, I'm not where I want to be, but I was almost not here at all. Life is better and will be getting better. Doing the best I can and the people around me are better. I will make sure things improve.

In my darkness, if you know me, people matter to me, truly, I helped a woman I never met in life, social media, and walked her through an 8month divorce of her own and saved Christmas for her kids and her, got 75% of her lawyer bill paid and her case is done, she's a friend for life, met her on Christmas Eve for the first time.

As easy as it would be to hate my ex, I can't. She is mentally ill, and gave me 25 years, there's a lot of good in there. I pray she gets help. My other kids are older but we'll,. One of the kids I have written about who I helped for 20years, works hard (for FedEx) and just celebrated his birth of his son, thanked me for being th dad he never had. There's good out there, it's not always apparent. I will keep fighting for it, for happiness and goodness.

I pray this summer goes well. There's lots more, but as you know I won't stop talking. Ask me anything or any questions. I appreciate everyone here, and the most excellent advice and some of the best people I know exist on this site. Just incredible.

Stay strong, be safe and careful. Find happiness, and SE ! Have fun doing it all.

Much love,

G

[Defeat]

Ok, here is an update, and you can't make this stuff up.  This craziness was supposed to end about a year ago, well it did and it didn't.  What does that mean:. As if my ex could not get any crazier, she did the craziest thing I have ever seen in Court.  Now we were doing zoom and it wasn't easy to get things signed and done.  What had happened is my ex lied and said she could not afford the house and we were forced to sell, which was fine.  Market was good and it sold overpriced and with in weeks.  I believe I had mentioned she had a free legal team in the beginning, yes free, and they fired her as a client for mass lies, she then later got a power lawyer, who after about 2 months fired my ex as a client for, more lies and bad behavior.  So now we go to the show down both with no lawyers, but I had my advisor.  Judge doesn't like it this way but basically splits it in half, she keeps hers, I keep mine, stuff is sold, and a parenting plan is put in place and she advised to stay close when she buys a new place.  The ex can't  get the final papers signed on zoom so she is told by the Judge to print them out and , I have to sign , she has to sign, and she has to have it back in by 8am.  If I'm needed they will notify me and I can be on at 9am zoom.

Well, I knew she wasn't going to have me sign, and I text and called her, nothing.  Figured this will be bad because how will the ex explain this.  I log on at 9am and there's no Court.  I hear nothing.  5 days later I hear from the courts, I'm divorced, wtf, how??? She did the unthinkable and forged my signatures and turned it into the Judge.  You have to be brain dead to do that.  That's bad.  I notify the Courts immediately by email, and I'm told to refile and make a motion, that went into place and I had to wait.

In the meantime, she moves 30 miles away in a house that was double the mortgage she said she couldn't afford, and I began driving to grab my kid the 60 mile trip,, it's traffic all the way, every way, takes at least 45 minutes each way, I was late by 4 minutes one time.  She lawyered up with laywer #3 and I get my own.  And the battle is back on.

My ex wants my days with my kids reduced, and my youngest goes to his 5th school in 5 years.  I miss some days because my mother suffers her 3 rd stroke and is in bad shape, sedated 80 percent of the time, Mom is not ever supposed to be home again, and I need to prepare for the worst.  I had to miss some days with my kid, because I have to get her things together and right, come to find out her house is in foreclosure, I'm now crashing and burning, my health goes, and I'm trying to figure out life, my career is over, I'm klinging to why my life should matter, my girlfriend was stressed and my own Father who was divorced from my Mom for 30 years, turned on me because I wouldn't and couldn't provide him with info on my Mom and divorce.  My girlfriend looked at me and said OMG the whole world is against you and she felt helpless.  This was the worst thing ever.

I began to get wind of my ex's plan to not let me see my kid, and I find the strength to keep doing what I need to get him, my ex mad it more hell by calling the Police almost every time I had my son.  He got scared, but he isn't scared like a normal kid.  He tells me Dad, I always have your back, Mom is wrong, I love you both, but she is not right, keep fighting for me, fighting for what's right like you always have done, she won't let me see grandma in the facility so bring her home so I can see her.  I'll be fine and I need you fine too.  Get things right here so I can come stay by you, these"Bitches be lying" He had just turned 9.  Well  light my fire, boom, on I go, limping around and doing my thing, rescue my Mom's house from forclosure, use my days and time, times with my son, my girlfriend is an in home caregiver, we rehabbed her ourselves, the 3 of us, and we got her home,  GF gets paid to take care of her, my health improves, the ex is in mass trouble, Judge wanted time to see how things would go, and she crashed and burned , did some horrible things, ex doesn't communicate and we needed to wait till this summer because Junior had to finish school where he excelled and is in almost all gifted glasses, and the showdown is coming in a few weeks, summer time, Junior will be with me while things are sorted out.  My ex faces the Judge about her signature forging, fictious complaints, denial of time, stealing and destroying my stuff, fraud and forgery.  The whole thing will be re-written, this summer.

As much as I dislike what my ex has done, I don't believe keeping my son away from her will benefit him.  This is a co-parent state, and I know co-parenting works best, she doesn't behave and get help she gets no time, she will have to pay back what she owes also and since she moved so far, she has to do all driving, though I will be happy to help.  She faces fines and possibly losing her job, and being charged çriminaly.

I have to teach my son what's right.  He sees she turns her back on us when he's with me, and sees that I'm still trying to teach him the right things.  I'm constantly offering to help her in ways I can, because it's right.  He sees that there's choices in life and there's right and wrong ones.

She threatens to earse his Roblox account she took from us, it was under my name.  She tried to block me from his school, didn't happen, bad mouth me, hide from the Police, all kinds of things.  She has tried to use COVID 7 times as a deterrent for him to see me.  And now they are all wise to her games.  She didn't know we were all watching in detail.

So Mom is home, house has been recovered, son finished school (few weeks left) ranked in top 5 percent, GF is on bored and is technically my finance (I kid you not she asked me and then schools me and SEs her own ring, that's not bullshit, we had to special order it, they delivered it, no signature needed, and would you believe someone stole it or I'd didn't arrive, got the money back.  There was lots of stuff that didn't show up or was  taken.  I had found out that PS5 I bought my daughter last year, she never opened it and just sold it.  I tried 3 times this year, and the freaking things weren't delivered.  One was taken by UPs, one the FedEx driver was supposed to have me sign personally, and the driver signed for it himself, and the 3rd one the picture wasnt the right address even.  Bad luck huh, man something was up.  But we have moved.

Life dealt me more blows, I'm not where I want to be, but I was almost not here at all.  Life is better and will be getting better.  Doing the best I can and the people around me are better.  I will make sure things improve.

In my darkness, if you know me, people matter to me, truly, I helped a woman I never met in life, social media, and walked her through an 8month divorce of her own and saved Christmas for her kids and her, got 75% of her lawyer bill paid and her case is done, she's a friend for life, met her on Christmas Eve for the first time.

As easy as it would be to hate my ex, I can't.  She is mentally ill, and gave me 25 years, there's a lot of good in there.  I pray she gets help.  My other kids are older but we'll,. One of the kids I have written about who I helped for 20years, works hard (for FedEx) and just celebrated his birth of his son, thanked me for being th dad he never had.  There's good out there, it's not always apparent.  I will keep fighting for it, for happiness and goodness.

I pray this summer goes well.  There's lots more, but as you know I won't stop talking.  Ask me anything or any questions.  I appreciate everyone here, and the most excellent advice and some of the best people I know exist on this site.  Just incredible.

Stay strong, be safe and careful.  Find happiness, and SE ! Have fun doing it all.

Much love,

G

Wow what an update.

1 thing that stood out to me was that your youngest son is doing well in school even with all those switches which is good and that you have a good relationship with him. I know you spent 25 years with your ex-wife and you can't have that back but it sounds like you have plenty of good years with your son to come. You've got a new partner that you'll marry soon, things will only get better. Hopefully after this ex-wife's been dealt with completely by the courts, they will force some much needed therapy on her for her to change, for your son's sake. I can't believe she doctored your signature for a divorce, what did she think would happen? LMAO
I'm glad you're back and I know your wisdom is needed here when you have the time. Take care and I hope by the end of summer there's no more BS.

[killswitch14]

If we don't hear from you soon, My guess will be murder-suicide but unclear who had the weapon.

[LawDogUSA]

Ok, here is an update, and you can't make this stuff up.  This craziness was supposed to end about a year ago, well it did and it didn't.  What does that mean:. As if my ex could not get any crazier, she did the craziest thing I have ever seen in Court.  Now we were doing zoom and it wasn't easy to get things signed and done.  What had happened is my ex lied and said she could not afford the house and we were forced to sell, which was fine.  Market was good and it sold overpriced and with in weeks.  I believe I had mentioned she had a free legal team in the beginning, yes free, and they fired her as a client for mass lies, she then later got a power lawyer, who after about 2 months fired my ex as a client for, more lies and bad behavior.  So now we go to the show down both with no lawyers, but I had my advisor.  Judge doesn't like it this way but basically splits it in half, she keeps hers, I keep mine, stuff is sold, and a parenting plan is put in place and she advised to stay close when she buys a new place.  The ex can't  get the final papers signed on zoom so she is told by the Judge to print them out and , I have to sign , she has to sign, and she has to have it back in by 8am.  If I'm needed they will notify me and I can be on at 9am zoom.

Well, I knew she wasn't going to have me sign, and I text and called her, nothing.  Figured this will be bad because how will the ex explain this.  I log on at 9am and there's no Court.  I hear nothing.  5 days later I hear from the courts, I'm divorced, wtf, how??? She did the unthinkable and forged my signatures and turned it into the Judge.  You have to be brain dead to do that.  That's bad.  I notify the Courts immediately by email, and I'm told to refile and make a motion, that went into place and I had to wait.

In the meantime, she moves 30 miles away in a house that was double the mortgage she said she couldn't afford, and I began driving to grab my kid the 60 mile trip,, it's traffic all the way, every way, takes at least 45 minutes each way, I was late by 4 minutes one time.  She lawyered up with laywer #3 and I get my own.  And the battle is back on.

My ex wants my days with my kids reduced, and my youngest goes to his 5th school in 5 years.  I miss some days because my mother suffers her 3 rd stroke and is in bad shape, sedated 80 percent of the time, Mom is not ever supposed to be home again, and I need to prepare for the worst.  I had to miss some days with my kid, because I have to get her things together and right, come to find out her house is in foreclosure, I'm now crashing and burning, my health goes, and I'm trying to figure out life, my career is over, I'm klinging to why my life should matter, my girlfriend was stressed and my own Father who was divorced from my Mom for 30 years, turned on me because I wouldn't and couldn't provide him with info on my Mom and divorce.  My girlfriend looked at me and said OMG the whole world is against you and she felt helpless.  This was the worst thing ever.

I began to get wind of my ex's plan to not let me see my kid, and I find the strength to keep doing what I need to get him, my ex mad it more hell by calling the Police almost every time I had my son.  He got scared, but he isn't scared like a normal kid.  He tells me Dad, I always have your back, Mom is wrong, I love you both, but she is not right, keep fighting for me, fighting for what's right like you always have done, she won't let me see grandma in the facility so bring her home so I can see her.  I'll be fine and I need you fine too.  Get things right here so I can come stay by you, these"Bitches be lying" He had just turned 9.  Well  light my fire, boom, on I go, limping around and doing my thing, rescue my Mom's house from forclosure, use my days and time, times with my son, my girlfriend is an in home caregiver, we rehabbed her ourselves, the 3 of us, and we got her home,  GF gets paid to take care of her, my health improves, the ex is in mass trouble, Judge wanted time to see how things would go, and she crashed and burned , did some horrible things, ex doesn't communicate and we needed to wait till this summer because Junior had to finish school where he excelled and is in almost all gifted glasses, and the showdown is coming in a few weeks, summer time, Junior will be with me while things are sorted out.  My ex faces the Judge about her signature forging, fictious complaints, denial of time, stealing and destroying my stuff, fraud and forgery.  The whole thing will be re-written, this summer.

As much as I dislike what my ex has done, I don't believe keeping my son away from her will benefit him.  This is a co-parent state, and I know co-parenting works best, she doesn't behave and get help she gets no time, she will have to pay back what she owes also and since she moved so far, she has to do all driving, though I will be happy to help.  She faces fines and possibly losing her job, and being charged çriminaly.

I have to teach my son what's right.  He sees she turns her back on us when he's with me, and sees that I'm still trying to teach him the right things.  I'm constantly offering to help her in ways I can, because it's right.  He sees that there's choices in life and there's right and wrong ones.

She threatens to earse his Roblox account she took from us, it was under my name.  She tried to block me from his school, didn't happen, bad mouth me, hide from the Police, all kinds of things.  She has tried to use COVID 7 times as a deterrent for him to see me.  And now they are all wise to her games.  She didn't know we were all watching in detail.

So Mom is home, house has been recovered, son finished school (few weeks left) ranked in top 5 percent, GF is on bored and is technically my finance (I kid you not she asked me and then schools me and SEs her own ring, that's not bullshit, we had to special order it, they delivered it, no signature needed, and would you believe someone stole it or I'd didn't arrive, got the money back.  There was lots of stuff that didn't show up or was  taken.  I had found out that PS5 I bought my daughter last year, she never opened it and just sold it.  I tried 3 times this year, and the freaking things weren't delivered.  One was taken by UPs, one the FedEx driver was supposed to have me sign personally, and the driver signed for it himself, and the 3rd one the picture wasnt the right address even.  Bad luck huh, man something was up.  But we have moved.

Life dealt me more blows, I'm not where I want to be, but I was almost not here at all.  Life is better and will be getting better.  Doing the best I can and the people around me are better.  I will make sure things improve.

In my darkness, if you know me, people matter to me, truly, I helped a woman I never met in life, social media, and walked her through an 8month divorce of her own and saved Christmas for her kids and her, got 75% of her lawyer bill paid and her case is done, she's a friend for life, met her on Christmas Eve for the first time.

As easy as it would be to hate my ex, I can't.  She is mentally ill, and gave me 25 years, there's a lot of good in there.  I pray she gets help.  My other kids are older but we'll,. One of the kids I have written about who I helped for 20years, works hard (for FedEx) and just celebrated his birth of his son, thanked me for being th dad he never had.  There's good out there, it's not always apparent.  I will keep fighting for it, for happiness and goodness.

I pray this summer goes well.  There's lots more, but as you know I won't stop talking.  Ask me anything or any questions.  I appreciate everyone here, and the most excellent advice and some of the best people I know exist on this site.  Just incredible.

Stay strong, be safe and careful.  Find happiness, and SE ! Have fun doing it all.

Much love,

G

Wow what an update.

1 thing that stood out to me was that your youngest son is doing well in school even with all those switches which is good and that you have a good relationship with him. I know you spent 25 years with your ex-wife and you can't have that back but it sounds like you have plenty of good years with your son to come. You've got a new partner that you'll marry soon, things will only get better.  Hopefully after this ex-wife's been dealt with completely by the courts, they will force some much needed therapy on her for her to change, for your son's sake.  I can't believe she doctored your signature for a divorce, what did she think would happen? LMAO
I'm glad you're back and I know your wisdom is needed here when you have the time. Take care and I hope by the end of summer there's no more BS.

Thank you for the kind words and support! You are absolutely correct! I had to realign my focus, and just keep the positive going. It helped me let go of the negative anger. I don't regret those 25 years, there's plenty of positives in there, and I wish her the best, just wish she would leave me and the kids alone, I'll take the crap she gives, just as long as the kids are left out. And I'm proud to say that Junior ended school on the highest marks he had all year. And just found out she had me removed from the emergency lists and had my email changed, just evil! But the positive is in me focusing on Junior this last tri-mester, and how much improvement he made.

I wanted to share that with you, you pointed out the biggest positive in my life, and I'm honored to have had your support, and love being here. Thank you again my brother!

Let's have some fun this summer!

Thanks to all,

G

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If we don't hear from you soon, My guess will be murder-suicide but unclear who had the weapon.

I responded not too long ago, the trick is to figure out a way to not have to keep updating, and say it's over and peaceful. It's getting embarrassing, she won't stop, and I'm doing everything I can to make it stop. It's funny, cause it crosses my mind, that I may end up sniped or something, I do take extra notice of what's around me. That's no joke either.

But good times ahead, I can control me and do what's best for myself and those with me.

Appreciate the support, hope I can return it!

G

[FitzE73]

my friend i know ther feeling. I served. also, i pastored for 20 years ive ;ost my church, no oner calls becaused they be;lievde the lies. She withheld my kids from my mothers funeral 3 weeks ago. showed up and proceeded to flaunt herself. I now know the last 26 years of my life was a lie. children and all! hundreds of thousands are missing!