[miso]

For the most part, I've read "she", with very little about "you".

What's done Is done, period. You cannot reverse It. Your mentality belongs to you and not her, so shift your attention from her and focus on "yourself", by formulating a strategy towards getting back to normality. The equation Is pretty simple- we're all accountable for our own actions, and create our very own experiences.

Believe me, the clouds will pass and the sun will shine.

the problem is that it is personal for him, he wants to see his kids, im pretty sure that if he just ignores about the divorce & is instead focussing on working, the court will probably just think that his ex-wife is right, which is false. Even if tries working, due to his debts, it would be really hard for him to comeback

I think that he should work when he can & to still be available to go to the court, however, proofs would be needed

After, you said something about her email, do you have access to it? maybe try getting into, you might be able to access her other things such as banking things, which can give you some extra proofs of her creating cards under your name for example

It is really disgusting what she doing to you