[Psycho_Coder]

It is such a sad thing when someone interprets your words said to him/her in a wrong manner. People usually don't try to understand one's point of view and reasons which he/she was told something. A person wants someone to improve a lot as they know they have great potential and thinks about them, always try to help them but instead they are just interpreted wrongly without any reason. One never tries to understand anothers point of view, they don't think for a second that maybe that person was trying to help me or improve me. When someone see's that his friend or a very close one is deteriorating then he might make some rash steps just to them help. Sometime for someone's betterment you have to hurt them and their ego badly so that they get self esteemed to prove themselves to the one who blamed them that "No! I am something better and I have the ability to do it and I did it", I don't mean to say that this philosophy works on all but it works on all of those persons who are doers.

This is quite awful :crying:. At the end the one who did proved them wrong and got lowered in the eyes of the other are sufferers because they will now be hated.

Will the latter ever understand why the former did something to hurt them? If yes then I think by then one would become hopeless and would degrade.
Today I have become that person who was once being loved and now hated, funny Isn't it ? ad:

[RogueCoder]

That's just how it is. Some people are just able to interpret constructive criticism as exactly that. Constructive. Meant as a way to help the person improve on whatever. Be it, music production, programming, gaming, cooking, workout, etc.

People who are not able to see this type of feedback for what it actually is are the ones who either 1) Thinks they are the ultimate guru on the topic. 2) Does not have the drive and motivation to become as good as they can be in the field.

If this results in them starting to hate you, then that says a whole lot more about them than about you. I understand that you don't like the feeling, but try to see it like this. If that's all that it took for the person to hate you, maybe your relationship wasn't as strong as you first thought.

If a person is seriously motivated to learn, (s)he will say: Thanks for the honest feedback!